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By *rishbottomcocklover OP   Man
over a year ago

Delft

Its very annoying when after a meet a guy doesn't give you a veri after you have left him one and he says in private message that it was such a hot session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris mean fuck all to me

I don't display them so see them as pointless and I rarely leave them unless someone asks me to after a social or whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone on here questioned my lack of recent verifications but I've met twice in the last few months or so.

One person decided not to verify me in case someone else saw it and the other left the site.

Such is life I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veri 's are a load of bollox anyway same shit gets said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a way of varifying a person is real and that they will turn up, it's slightly annoying if you leave one for them but they don't return the favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm one of those rare people who likes to see a person's veris, on my single profile they were a way for me to judge various things. Do they enjoy similar activity to me, did they show up, do they meet fat women, are their standards too high or too low for me & in my eyes a person can never have too many. But then I also enjoy seeing action pics on a guys friend pics, pics of other women done phase me at all because I like to see how a person plays X we are all swinging, aren't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veri 's are a load of bollox anyway same shit gets said "

Veri 's are a load of bollox anyway same shit gets said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was honest on a verification and the person chose not to post it as it was not a glowing verification .

So verifications are rubbish as people only post what they want you to read .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always posted all ours, even the bad ones x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too many =people complain.

too little=people complain.

none =people complain.

too many meets=hardened swinger.

too little= timewaster.......get the idea?

fuck um .

we have given up and just enjoy our circle of friends and go to a place where 1,000's of swingers go on hols .

best thing we ever did .

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff

I look more at who has left the verification rather than it's content. 99.9% of the times they are awesome anyway lol

I show them as they are mainly from socials, so hopefully in the sea of fake and time wasters I might come across as genuine

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By *rishbottomcocklover OP   Man
over a year ago

Delft

I meet mostly guys who describe themselves as straight.

I tell them that I won't publish their verification if they don't want me to.

It just helps to show that you are active on the site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its very annoying when after a meet a guy doesn't give you a veri after you have left him one and he says in private message that it was such a hot session."

Drive past the house and wave and I'll veri you

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

I'll leave out what went on in a veri, just that they are genuine, punctual, etc. It's just to say they are real and it could have been a social meet or a sexual one, the veri I usually leave doesn't say which.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look more at who has left the verification rather than it's content. 99.9% of the times they are awesome anyway lol

I show them as they are mainly from socials, so hopefully in the sea of fake and time wasters I might come across as genuine

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I remember taking a leap & meeting you as an unverified male, the one & only time I've ever done that because to be fair your chat demonstrated the lovely guy you are. Unfortunately most single guy's here aren't like you X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it really annoys me that you give the veri and then they don't -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only show social veris other veries now they are private just for me to perve now and then he he xx

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff


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I remember taking a leap & meeting you as an unverified male, the one & only time I've ever done that because to be fair your chat demonstrated the lovely guy you are. Unfortunately most single guy's here aren't like you X"

Thank you, so sweet xxx

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By *alleycplCouple
over a year ago

gobblers knob

a lot of socials require veris,well how can people get tojoin in on some great events if you think veris are bollox and wont give them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recently refused to leave a veri (or display his) awful meet .... he keeps asking for a veri and I keep making excuses :/

Better than giving him a fake glowing veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive done this as well, would never leave a false Veri x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it should automatically make you return a veri back being good - bad or whatever - if it doesn't go on within two days it gets deleted x this will stop the timewasters and perhaps get this site back to where it should be -too many ppl from

the other sites trying to dip their toes in and then fuck off x

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"I have recently refused to leave a veri (or display his) awful meet .... he keeps asking for a veri and I keep making excuses :/

Better than giving him a fake glowing veri"

Isn't a veri just to say you've met them and they're real? Doesn't have to be glowing surely? Can just say you've met them and they are who they say they are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently refused to leave a veri (or display his) awful meet .... he keeps asking for a veri and I keep making excuses :/

Better than giving him a fake glowing veri

Isn't a veri just to say you've met them and they're real? Doesn't have to be glowing surely? Can just say you've met them and they are who they say they are?"

I suppose ... but thank goodness they aren't obligatory

If it was I'd have to just write "met :/ "

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