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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how come being single on here you get treated like a freak.ye there are some nob heads but to paint every one with the same brush is a bit judge mental so come on give us a break you would not liked to be judged for who you are or wot you do.end of rant.lol.xx

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth


"give us a break you would not liked to be judged for who you are or wot you do."

Yes I would. That's pretty much exactly what I'd like to be judged on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"give us a break you would not liked to be judged for who you are or wot you do.

Yes I would. That's pretty much exactly what I'd like to be judged on. "

They are the only things that I'd wish to be judged on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"give us a break you would not liked to be judged for who you are or wot you do.

Yes I would. That's pretty much exactly what I'd like to be judged on.

They are the only things that I'd wish to be judged on"

+1 well said that man

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By *ulfman1983Man
over a year ago

ystrad mynach

I totally agree with you mate, it seems that I have the plague or something. GIVE US SINGLE MEN A CHANCE FOR FUCK SAKE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As in life I don't believe chances are thrust upon you, make them yourself, and take advantage of them once you have done so.

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By *oddessWoman
over a year ago

swansea

Just for the record......I luv playing with single men!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No man has a god-given right, single or otherwise. You have to work for what you want just like in real life and don't expect it handed to you on a plate. Personally, I find being a single lady a pain because the majority of men assume I am desperate or a slag. On the other hand though, i have made some great single male friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i (kirsty) play alone with single men. not got a problem with them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry to the guys who have posted but women have a right to pick who they sleep with after all its there body

maybe you just were not there type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging scene is a lot like dating/meeting people in the real world - you still have to get from behind your computer screen and make some effort by meeting lots of people socially, at socials, parties, clubs etc

If you want easy nsa sex, go find a hooker!

Its very unlikely you'll find those types of girls here boys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another" one of these pointless posts!

If you go and search single guys yourself you will see that plenty are very successful on here, Take a good look at their profiles and see what they are doing different?!?!

Its nothing to do with other couples / Singles giving you a chance, Its up to you to give yourself the best chance by just being you and working at it to get to know people ... To be honest though, Posting here begging to be given a chance is less likely to work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with you there, yes single guys are often 'tarred' with the same brush, but as a single woman who meets single guys, safety is imperatiive, so yeah, we are gonna be cautious, I find it easier to meet people who enter the chat room and go on cam showing more than thier bits! Go to the social, theres loads of them these days, and when you go, be sociable, introduce yourself, be friendly but not pushy, you also need to remember that we all have different criteria we are looking for, so you may just have been unlucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"swinging scene is a lot like dating/meeting people in the real world - you still have to get from behind your computer screen and make some effort by meeting lots of people socially, at socials, parties, clubs etc

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i agree with what you are saying here mr or mrs blonde this is exactly what the single guys and ladies need to do get to more parties meet the ladies in a public place for a coffee and a chat. As thier safety and your own is important and even if you do organise a paly meet with a person dont expect to play with them as they may decide they do not want to play on the meet and yes this does happen so lads relax stop whinging follow the advice given and be respectful at all times yes it is hard i know. But if you put the effort in and follow the advice that is offered then you will find yourselves becming busier and busier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just read the profiles for the guys who seem to have a few problems. I don't know whether to laugh my ass off, or pat them on the back for the effort it must have taken to construct their profiles with abysmal use of the English language. Let alone the bravado and the odd suspected untruths.

May I extend my apologies to the single ladies and couples who have to deal with single guys and the way they conduct them selfs.

It seems that not matter how many of these threads get posted and no matter what help you give, some still don't seem to get it.

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

i only ever play with single guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have absolutely nothing against single men especially the ones we have met but they all have well written profiles and speak to you politely and respectfully ! On the other hand we have had a few that say single but are in fact married and doing the dirty and even ones who are a couples profile but they let you know later that HE is in fact married and she is his fuck buddy ! This we don't approve of personally but each to their own but we choose not to bother with these such guys !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've put my 2 penny's worth on many a thread like this. I give advice just as prof said, and yup ! there is still numpty's on here making life uncomfortable.

I have been through the rat race on here for to long. happy knowing the people I do, and happy to meet new peeps too. I have never messaged anyone for a meet, relying on social events and party's.

To me, thats how it should be done by single blokes on here. Most are rush rush, meet meet, and forget to take time.

As the old saying goes "slow and steady wins the race"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% agree with above, get out and meet people.. Trust me you stand a much better chance at a club and you will have a fantastic night out too

To be honest i think these threads are clever, coming from a web marketing background i can see they are clearly just self promoting, Creating awareness about their own profiles ... And that is a good idea but next time do it by starting a thread that not only has been done million times before but also start a thread that is positive and others will follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree and disagree with you, yes starting a thread to highlight your profile is a clever move

However it also highlights their inadequacy in getting meets, and to a larger extent shows them as impatient, demanding and dare I say it forceful. All the qualities that in my experience couples and single fems don't want.

There is some sound advice here but alas I think it will not be heeded and not doubt a similar thread will most likely happen again. As a preemptive strike to avert a similar thread

look here

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/17347

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By *elshfellaMan
over a year ago

aberdare

To be fair, I've found a few couples who were happy to accomodate a single guy (although of course, not as many as I'd like ) It definately pays to READ PROFILES before messaging/adding friends, and not to scroll straight to the pics.

Again, it's important to remember that this is not an escort service, rather normal people/couples with their own lives, preferences, and criteria - if you had loads of blokes messaging you asking to give you a portion, would you "give them a chance"? Probably not, others have the same right!

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