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By *rs Sugar Mr Spice OP   Couple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!

It has come to our attention that there are alot ov ppl on ere that think that because we are swingers that there dosent have to be a phisical attraction between party's for play to resume meaning that because we do wat we do we will happily shag anyone or thing ,attraction or not,now for give me for sounding a bit ov a twat but these naive ppl need to get a grip if they think that we are gonna get naked with them just coz they are swingers coz thatll never happen THERE HAS TO BE SOME SORT OF ATTRACTION TO BEGIN WITH CAPEESH!!! So whats wrong with ppl these days comming on ere and automatically think that shags are gonna fall in they lap WTF????

Have any others noticed this??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's loads on here that shag just for the sake of it. It's amaing how our profile (and other people's) says exactly what kind of people we are interested in yet we get mail from people who are the total opposite. Then they have to cheek to get shitty when we turn them down lol

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By *rs Sugar Mr Spice OP   Couple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!


"There's loads on here that shag just for the sake of it. It's amaing how our profile (and other people's) says exactly what kind of people we are interested in yet we get mail from people who are the total opposite. Then they have to cheek to get shitty when we turn them down lol"

its a joke inni lol ,we wont shag any thing but you sexy fuckers can have it all lol but not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i had a similair experience yesterday....a lady messaged me out of the blue...noone ive ever chatted to before, asked to see a pic, i explained that i dont have pics here but would quite happily verify myself on cam on msn, she said that would be great,

so i gave her my address and she added me, in the meantime i asked could i see her pictures as i would also like to see her not just the naked pics she has but facial pic aswell,

anyway i put my cam on and within seconds she tuurns it off goes offline and then bans me from seeing her profile on here,

no problem with that im grown up to know im not everyones cup of tea and that she wasnt attracted to me, but to ban me from her profile, and not even have the desency to show me herself whilst i showed myself i find very rude, she may have not been my type....because believe it or not ........we single blokes wont shag anything that moves either......i think theres good reason for people who do this to be banned......no different to pic collectors in my opinion........rant over.......happy swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got to be some sort of attraction or whats the point may as well have a hand shank,

not everyone likes everyone if so we be at it everywhere tesco's lidl's i wish lol !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't shag anyone thus only 2 meets in 7 months as there really has to be an attraction for us too ! Don't get me wrong some absolutely lovely people but not the kind of people we wanna get naked with as there is no physical attraction there for us !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see the point of this topic although some people may think they are what people want and the truth may sometimes hurt, do you just ignore or kindly let them down. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of people who think they are God's gift on here, yes.

Deluded, may be more apt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of people who think they are God's gift on here, yes.

Deluded, may be more apt."

Also agree .. We are not gods gift in fact far from it but have been told that much better in the flesh than our photos portray as we both hate the camera lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

true and the best one is cant show pics due to job we notices those people tnd to be males playing with another woman not partner AND bricking iit that mrs wont find out lol every genuine couple should show another couple what they look like ,we wont even take things further unless we see face pics as whats the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you all on this one, even as a single guy. It seems most will shag anything that moves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a case of people thinking they are gods at all, it's a case of what turns you on. If a profile had 'we like tall men or we don't like tattoos' on it them we wouldn't mail them as I (ray) ain't tall plus I have tattoos.

Therefore I find it strange when people mail us when they can clearly read what turns us on and it's not what they have to offer.

Everyone gets turned down but it would happen a lot less if people actually read profiles instead of just looking at pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We couln't agree with you more, it is rather pointless contacting people if after reading their profile you don't appear to be what they are looking for. Although we also believe that there are a few people suffering from the "We are/I am god's gift" syndrome, it's not exclusive to couples, or single males come to that we find it more prevelant in single fems actually, an awfull lot believe that no matter what some believe they are the most desirable things on earth. For us attraction takes place on a few levels, physical obviously, however personality does play a large part. I think what we are trying to say is that infering that one is gods gift to all and sundry falls far short of being an attractive trait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can only speak for myself but they does need to be an attraction otherwise just not going to get "in the mood" so to speak. also there does seem to be a few people that are up themselves with a one line profile but i guess the better looking you are the less effort you have to put in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty out there that will shag anything that moves and probably things that dont too.

For some, its just sex. They dont care about personalities. For us its not about sex, since were soft. We like the erotic, intimate sensual side of things - teasing and pleasing that you only get if you just play soft.

For us of course attraction is a major part, but the biggest thing is personality and how we connect with others. Just by looking/reading profiles and the types of photos they have we can see what type of people they are and if they are likely to be a match for us.

It all depends on what you are looking for at the end of the day. Each to their own, as they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are plenty out there that will shag anything that moves and probably things that dont too.

For some, its just sex. They dont care about personalities. For us its not about sex, since were soft. We like the erotic, intimate sensual side of things - teasing and pleasing that you only get if you just play soft.

For us of course attraction is a major part, but the biggest thing is personality and how we connect with others. Just by looking/reading profiles and the types of photos they have we can see what type of people they are and if they are likely to be a match for us.

It all depends on what you are looking for at the end of the day. Each to their own, as they say.

"

I agree with most of the above except the bit about you only get sensual teasing and pleasing when you play soft. We're not "soft" but the sensual side of things is definately on our agenda, the wham bam thing is a big turn off for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i dunno . people usually shag ones they think are in thier" league"

we all look atractive to someone but just looks ?

does being size 10 make you better at shagging ? mmmm being 20 ish?

its all about the person me thinks.

I've been at this 20 years and done it all people still suprise me and always will .

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