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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone good looking but average in bed.

Or,

Someone average looking but fucking amazing in bed?

(Ps this is a fun thread. Obviously looks are entirely down to each person's perception).

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Fucking skills and personality please, make me laugh and seduce me into bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely the latter for me. I had some really good looking girls who been disappointing in the sack.

I rather take personality, humour and filthy skills all day

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

What kind of bed are we talking about? A four poster offers more opportunities than a futon, plus if you're going to have your partner bring you breakfast in bed, their cooking skills need to be taken into consideration too.

Seriously though, good in bed over good looking anyway. Blindfolds ar so much fun in either circumstances.

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By *nique_GymMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

For me it's not necessarily solely a physical attraction it's the persons mind and her capacity for debauchery that does it for me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me it's not necessarily solely a physical attraction it's the persons mind and her capacity for debauchery that does it for me! "
ooooo errrr true for me too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What kind of bed are we talking about? A four poster offers more opportunities than a futon, plus if you're going to have your partner bring you breakfast in bed, their cooking skills need to be taken into consideration too.

Seriously though, good in bed over good looking anyway. Blindfolds ar so much fun in either circumstances. "
bag em up!

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By *ivWoman
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Average looking and amazing in bed every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B to be honest

Kinky

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By *eece38Man
over a year ago

kingston

defo amazing and average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average looking but amazing in bed.

At least one of us has to be good in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A chance of either would good at the moment xxx

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Its all about the click for me...

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By *r_Mrs_SexytimesCouple
over a year ago

pontypool

Have to click.. have to find them attractive before i even jump into bed with anyone.. dont find out if they are good till they have crossed paths with us.. (mrs)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have to click.. have to find them attractive before i even jump into bed with anyone.. dont find out if they are good till they have crossed paths with us.. (mrs) "
true. But sometimes you jump into bed and are left thinking... oh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ha ha xxx"
hahaha you know what I was left thinking you opened up a whole new box of delights

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Average looking but amazing in bed.

At least one of us has to be good in bed "
I'll give you a try any day

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I have to be attracted to someone to even want to meet firstly. And then it's down to chemistry if I want to get intimate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to be attracted to someone to even want to meet firstly. And then it's down to chemistry if I want to get intimate... "
This for me too

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By *r_Mrs_SexytimesCouple
over a year ago

pontypool


"Have to click.. have to find them attractive before i even jump into bed with anyone.. dont find out if they are good till they have crossed paths with us.. (mrs) true. But sometimes you jump into bed and are left thinking... oh...

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Totally agree.. but i literally cannot get that click of im not attracted to them.. i see some status' on here and they be like.. "any fems/couples/males wanna meet, not fussy just horny" arghhhh how can they just sleep with anyone for the sake of it.. id rather wack one of by myself lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average looking but amazing in bed.

At least one of us has to be good in bed I'll give you a try any day "

Haha, is that a promise or a dare ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Average looking but amazing in bed.

At least one of us has to be good in bed I'll give you a try any day

Haha, is that a promise or a dare ?"
ooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As my friend said...connection and attraction are 2 very different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2nd one love a person with a dirty mind and gsoh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want both lol only joking that was my spoilt little shit impression, I'd definitely want some attraction but then as the OP said average looking and not totally minging I suppose there would be attraction so I go for average but amazing sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go with attraction and average sex, can always improve the sex... all the more reason to practice more xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd go with attraction and average sex, can always improve the sex... all the more reason to practice more xx"

You can't always improve the sex though?? I have found a lot of men who would be considered to be conventionally very attractive lack effort and knowledge in bed as they feel their looks alone can carry them. Don't get me wrong I couldn't fuck someone I found unattractive but someone average looking who knows what they're up to in the sack would be far preferable to me than some aesthetic stunner who was completely clueless xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd go with attraction and average sex, can always improve the sex... all the more reason to practice more xx

You can't always improve the sex though?? I have found a lot of men who would be considered to be conventionally very attractive lack effort and knowledge in bed as they feel their looks alone can carry them. Don't get me wrong I couldn't fuck someone I found unattractive but someone average looking who knows what they're up to in the sack would be far preferable to me than some aesthetic stunner who was completely clueless xx "

True..... or can always look at the attractive one whilst getting a good seeing to from someone else lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd go with attraction and average sex, can always improve the sex... all the more reason to practice more xx

You can't always improve the sex though?? I have found a lot of men who would be considered to be conventionally very attractive lack effort and knowledge in bed as they feel their looks alone can carry them. Don't get me wrong I couldn't fuck someone I found unattractive but someone average looking who knows what they're up to in the sack would be far preferable to me than some aesthetic stunner who was completely clueless xx "
my thoughts exactly. Makes them unattractive in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have been spoiled. I have both in my wife. So those standards have to be kept up.

Mr Taffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average looking. I prefer bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd go with attraction and average sex, can always improve the sex... all the more reason to practice more xx

You can't always improve the sex though?? I have found a lot of men who would be considered to be conventionally very attractive lack effort and knowledge in bed as they feel their looks alone can carry them. Don't get me wrong I couldn't fuck someone I found unattractive but someone average looking who knows what they're up to in the sack would be far preferable to me than some aesthetic stunner who was completely clueless xx

True..... or can always look at the attractive one whilst getting a good seeing to from someone else lol. "

Your baaaaad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd go with attraction and average sex, can always improve the sex... all the more reason to practice more xx

You can't always improve the sex though?? I have found a lot of men who would be considered to be conventionally very attractive lack effort and knowledge in bed as they feel their looks alone can carry them. Don't get me wrong I couldn't fuck someone I found unattractive but someone average looking who knows what they're up to in the sack would be far preferable to me than some aesthetic stunner who was completely clueless xx

True..... or can always look at the attractive one whilst getting a good seeing to from someone else lol. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just amazing in bed, it's turning them on mentally before you get there that turns average into amazing. Sex should be enjoyable and pleasurable why settle for less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just amazing in bed, it's turning them on mentally before you get there that turns average into amazing. Sex should be enjoyable and pleasurable why settle for less."

And tbh if the sex was poor the first time I'd have no intention of returning for a second time in the hope of improvement

Life is too short for crap sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just amazing in bed, it's turning them on mentally before you get there that turns average into amazing. Sex should be enjoyable and pleasurable why settle for less."
I'll second this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd go with attraction and average sex, can always improve the sex... all the more reason to practice more xx

You can't always improve the sex though?? I have found a lot of men who would be considered to be conventionally very attractive lack effort and knowledge in bed as they feel their looks alone can carry them. Don't get me wrong I couldn't fuck someone I found unattractive but someone average looking who knows what they're up to in the sack would be far preferable to me than some aesthetic stunner who was completely clueless xx

True..... or can always look at the attractive one whilst getting a good seeing to from someone else lol.

Lol "
lol you don't like other men coming into the room, so good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not just amazing in bed, it's turning them on mentally before you get there that turns average into amazing. Sex should be enjoyable and pleasurable why settle for less.

And tbh if the sex was poor the first time I'd have no intention of returning for a second time in the hope of improvement

Life is too short for crap sex "
I need to adopt this mentality! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just amazing in bed, it's turning them on mentally before you get there that turns average into amazing. Sex should be enjoyable and pleasurable why settle for less.

And tbh if the sex was poor the first time I'd have no intention of returning for a second time in the hope of improvement

Life is too short for crap sex I need to adopt this mentality! Lol "

I can probably count on 1 hand (or maybe 2) the amount of men I've been back to for a round 2, 3, 4 etc during my years on here.

And unfortunately for me they tend to be the not so single ones.

Such is life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not just amazing in bed, it's turning them on mentally before you get there that turns average into amazing. Sex should be enjoyable and pleasurable why settle for less.

And tbh if the sex was poor the first time I'd have no intention of returning for a second time in the hope of improvement

Life is too short for crap sex I need to adopt this mentality! Lol

I can probably count on 1 hand (or maybe 2) the amount of men I've been back to for a round 2, 3, 4 etc during my years on here.

And unfortunately for me they tend to be the not so single ones.

Such is life "
that's crap. Probably why they aren't single though! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just amazing in bed, it's turning them on mentally before you get there that turns average into amazing. Sex should be enjoyable and pleasurable why settle for less.

And tbh if the sex was poor the first time I'd have no intention of returning for a second time in the hope of improvement

Life is too short for crap sex I need to adopt this mentality! Lol

I can probably count on 1 hand (or maybe 2) the amount of men I've been back to for a round 2, 3, 4 etc during my years on here.

And unfortunately for me they tend to be the not so single ones.

Such is life that's crap. Probably why they aren't single though! Lol "

Exactly

I have a massive phobia of shitty/average sex to a point that I barely meet anyone anymore

I would rather remain celibate for the rest of my days then indulge in disappointing sex ever again

Just thinking about it makes me feel hangin'

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

For me it has to be great sex, but part of that is liking the person, and that is from their personality, not the looks, so I guess that's my answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My idea of fantastic sex is knowing that the person I'm having it with it's totally and utterly satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks and personality, i wouldn't fuck somebody I wasn't seriously attracted to no matter how good they were in bed.

And banter/laughing makes my boxers fall off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of need both ?? Had extremely good looking that have been clueless ..... at same time , someone could be amazing but I wouldn't know bc I wouldn't go there if I wasn't attracted

I need attraction and chemistry x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not just amazing in bed, it's turning them on mentally before you get there that turns average into amazing. Sex should be enjoyable and pleasurable why settle for less.

And tbh if the sex was poor the first time I'd have no intention of returning for a second time in the hope of improvement

Life is too short for crap sex I need to adopt this mentality! Lol

I can probably count on 1 hand (or maybe 2) the amount of men I've been back to for a round 2, 3, 4 etc during my years on here.

And unfortunately for me they tend to be the not so single ones.

Such is life that's crap. Probably why they aren't single though! Lol

Exactly

I have a massive phobia of shitty/average sex to a point that I barely meet anyone anymore

I would rather remain celibate for the rest of my days then indulge in disappointing sex ever again

Just thinking about it makes me feel hangin'

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that's understandable. It can make anyone feel like utter crap after.

I sometimes feel similar, especially if the other person has been utterly selfish and self indulgent throughout. I once told a bloke he was a "selfish lover".. although he was so self absorbed I don't think he had a clue what I was talking about face palm moment!

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