FabSwingers.com forum: Pet hates in messages

By *aidinwales OP Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

What instantly puts you off meeting a guy when they message you ? Mine is anything with 'mmmm' attached to it .. just get this seedy image of a dirty old man bent over rubbing his thighs and drooling ... ewww

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Being called love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Super cringey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messaging and you know the other side is messaging you inbetween others !!!

Sooooo frustrating lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi babes or anything else solely directed at the fem when we're clearly a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi babes or anything else solely directed at the fem when we're clearly a couple."

I hear lots of that happening ...

Pure ignorance and lack of respect .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to keep respectable and address everyone if it's a couple I'm interested in both

Better to treat people like you'd want to be treated

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By *urious couple 55Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere close

"Hi babes or anything else solely directed at the fem when we're clearly a couple."

This

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

"What instantly puts you off meeting a guy when they message you ? Mine is anything with 'mmmm' attached to it .. just get this seedy image of a dirty old man bent over rubbing his thighs and drooling ... ewww"

And ewww is better than mmmm?

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Mine is--send face pic when they haven't even got 1 pic----really gonna happen uh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is--send face pic when they haven't even got 1 pic----really gonna happen uh lol

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This for me too or when they attach a cock pic instead of a face pic

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By *aidinwales OP Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

And ewww is better than mmmm?

It's not in a message is it ? How else do you spell it ??? Urggghh ? And if you don't like it then ignore the thread .. it asks what your pet hates are it doesn't invite any kind of attack on the original poster ...

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By *aidinwales OP Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

"Mine is--send face pic when they haven't even got 1 pic----really gonna happen uh lol

This for me too or when they attach a cock pic instead of a face pic

I m sure you're going to be able to pick them out in a room of people by their cock pic lol

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By *aidinwales OP Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

"Messaging and you know the other side is messaging you inbetween others !!!

Sooooo frustrating lol

It's funny though when they send the wrong message to you and spend the next 10 messages trying to wriggle out if the hole they've dug themselves lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys saying how beautiful and sexy you are when there are no pictures on display on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is--send face pic when they haven't even got 1 pic----really gonna happen uh lol

This for me too or when they attach a cock pic instead of a face pic

I m sure you're going to be able to pick them out in a room of people by their cock pic lol "
Spot the cock

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you on this

That is the exact image it gives me also

Makes me heave a bit

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea

When they demand pictures but have none themselves!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you've both agreed on face pic

And they come bk with sunglasses on

Omg it could be anyone

Grinds my teeth

Lol

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

"I would love to fuck your slut"

That line always pisses me off

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

And ewww is better than mmmm?

Many apologies, I really was not attacking you, hence the smiley face at the end of the comment. I'm not like that at all, so please accept my apologies for the misunderstanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they send numerous messages before giving me a chance to reply to the first one lol does my nut in

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not guys in our case but ladies.

Using lol or text speak takes some coming back from.

Inability to follow a flow of conversation, or thinking that just because you're female that we instantly owe you for taking the time to talk to us.

Guys that message us "just incase" they are the one that is going to change the way we've been playing for the last few years despite our profile clearly to the contrary.

On the positive side though, we do respect the guys who view, drop a fab on the pictures and then move on without messaging or winking, it's noticed and appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messaging and you know the other side is messaging you inbetween others !!!

Sooooo frustrating lol

It's funny though when they send the wrong message to you and spend the next 10 messages trying to wriggle out if the hole they've dug themselves lol "

Haha yes very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you free now ? ...umm we've never even spoke??

I'm in your area... yeah..and ??

I know you but can't tell you who I am... arghhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What really irritates us are the messages that start " your mrs looks stunning mate" like as if its only the hubby that picks up messages.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"What really irritates us are the messages that start " your mrs looks stunning mate" like as if its only the hubby that picks up messages."

Had one last week;

"Would love to fuck her in the ass and show her a good time lol, let me know where you want to meet"

Nothing else, not even a hello. As it was the female half that checked the messages looking for a lady friend of ours was kind of offensive all round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What really irritates us are the messages that start " your mrs looks stunning mate" like as if its only the hubby that picks up messages.

Had one last week;

"Would love to fuck her in the ass and show her a good time lol, let me know where you want to meet"

Nothing else, not even a hello. As it was the female half that checked the messages looking for a lady friend of ours was kind of offensive all round. "

Rude isn't it ...

Used to be on here as a couple and it used to rile the fella. . Completely ignore him and send something disrespectful like .. wanna bang you! He'd reply "thanks but I'm straight" ....you was talking to me yeah?

So rude... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you've both agreed on face pic

And they come bk with sunglasses on

Omg it could be anyone

Grinds my teeth

Lol

Yes!! Sunglasses

Or a fucking hat!!

Or both

I mean come on ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you've both agreed on face pic

And they come bk with sunglasses on

Omg it could be anyone

Grinds my teeth

Lol

Yes!! Sunglasses

Or a fucking hat!!

Or both

I mean come on ffs

lol does me swede in

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By *aidinwales OP Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

"When you've both agreed on face pic

And they come bk with sunglasses on

Omg it could be anyone

Grinds my teeth

Lol

Yes!! Sunglasses

Or a fucking hat!!

Or both

I mean come on ffs

lol does me swede in

Or a pic taken in a mirror with the mobile held in front of the face and the flash looking like he's got a halo !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples or single females of whom act like you should be eternally grateful they offer you to meet.

Normally stems from a knock back to being requested to meet right away or that you're not interested in them.

Sorry but I'm in not feeling it or available I'm not 'Going in'

I'll keep my standards and you keep your attitude ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples or single females of whom act like you should be eternally grateful they offer you to meet.

Normally stems from a knock back to being requested to meet right away or that you're not interested in them.

Sorry but I'm in not feeling it or available I'm not 'Going in'

I'll keep my standards and you keep your attitude ta. "

Is that what drove you to fuck men's bums??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples or single females of whom act like you should be eternally grateful they offer you to meet.

Normally stems from a knock back to being requested to meet right away or that you're not interested in them.

Sorry but I'm in not feeling it or available I'm not 'Going in'

I'll keep my standards and you keep your attitude ta.

Is that what drove you to fuck men's bums??

I'll fuck yours dry (no lube) unless you rein your banter in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples or single females of whom act like you should be eternally grateful they offer you to meet.

Normally stems from a knock back to being requested to meet right away or that you're not interested in them.

Sorry but I'm in not feeling it or available I'm not 'Going in'

I'll keep my standards and you keep your attitude ta.

Is that what drove you to fuck men's bums??

But in answer to your question, nah, it was a certain situation I don't wish to talk about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples or single females of whom act like you should be eternally grateful they offer you to meet.

Normally stems from a knock back to being requested to meet right away or that you're not interested in them.

Sorry but I'm in not feeling it or available I'm not 'Going in'

I'll keep my standards and you keep your attitude ta.

Is that what drove you to fuck men's bums??

But in answer to your question, nah, it was a certain situation I don't wish to talk about. "

I know why lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples or single females of whom act like you should be eternally grateful they offer you to meet.

Normally stems from a knock back to being requested to meet right away or that you're not interested in them.

Sorry but I'm in not feeling it or available I'm not 'Going in'

I'll keep my standards and you keep your attitude ta.

Is that what drove you to fuck men's bums??

But in answer to your question, nah, it was a certain situation I don't wish to talk about. "

We need to know ....

How bad was she?

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hi there " I wanna fuck your bum" what the fuck... read profile I'm straight!! So annoying for fuck sake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my pet hate is when they message and ask ya lots of questions YET their profile is hidden bit one sided so delete and block i do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples or single females of whom act like you should be eternally grateful they offer you to meet.

Normally stems from a knock back to being requested to meet right away or that you're not interested in them.

Sorry but I'm in not feeling it or available I'm not 'Going in'

I'll keep my standards and you keep your attitude ta.

Is that what drove you to fuck men's bums??

But in answer to your question, nah, it was a certain situation I don't wish to talk about.

I know why lmao

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One word messages, especially "hey" , we normally answer "what ?"

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

"One word messages, especially "hey" , we normally answer "what ?" "

Including the one word first contact message "meet" or "now".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you free now ? ...umm we've never even spoke??

I'm in your area... yeah..and ??

I know you but can't tell you who I am... arghhh

Haha! - Yea, the 'I'm in your area now' does my head in.. I usually reply "I am too, but that's probably because I live here"... I also can't stand messages that literally just say 'hi'.. 9/10 times when I then reply'hi' back, they don't know what to say..

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Or there's the lack of any messaging at all, just a friend invite from a profile with no photos whatsoever. Sure, let's be friends! Look at my photos for friends only and never communicate, I don't need to know any more, because we aren't going to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages in general.....most show they've not read any of my profile.

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans

"Mine is--send face pic when they haven't even got 1 pic----really gonna happen uh lol

This for me too or when they attach a cock pic instead of a face pic

cocks tits or pussy pix attached to messages and it plainly states on profile i do not want any of these,i will not even consider meeting someone who disregards my profile

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By *otpageyMan
over a year ago

merthyr

Women asking remind me what you look like when they are on your friends list,goes to show how much notice some people take, women request you read their profiles but don't take the time to read ours

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Or there's the lack of any messaging at all, just a friend invite from a profile with no photos whatsoever. Sure, let's be friends! Look at my photos for friends only and never communicate, I don't need to know any more, because we aren't going to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People put "from Wales" Wales is a big place. Or "Valleys" there are hundreds of Valleys. Another Fav of mine is "Ponty" do you realise him many bloody Ponty's there are. But the all time great is don't meet single guys, you then take a look at the Veris and there are loads of them from single guys. But hey guess it's all fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true, when you get mmmmmmmm on a message it turns my stomach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Mmmm I always prefer an older women'

As soon as I read that there finished lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been getting a lot of messages from dominant bdsm people assuming I like that kind of thing "call me sir" I usually call them something else lol

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"I've been getting a lot of messages from dominant bdsm people assuming I like that kind of thing "call me sir" I usually call them something else lol

My pet hate is getting messages from other people asking me to message someone else because they can't.

Stupidly, I occasionally agree on the off chance that it might actually be important and the person might welcome knowing someone is trying to reach them.

Yup - I'm a naive numpty who always sees the best in people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who obviously haven't read the profile,no effort in the message and BLOODY copy and paste grrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Absolutely hate messaging full stop.

how the hell to people 'connect' with someone though messaging. You get 2 - 3 messages off me and I'm asking for a social. That way you can see if this person is worth you time and effort. I even prefer chat room web cams, Not for Cyber fun just purely for banter & body language. I can read people a lot better than I can read a messages

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