FabSwingers.com forum: "Friends"?

By *allDarkSexy! OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Does anyone else have "Friends" on here who you've never received a single message from?

There are a few on my list that I've messaged, and it just remains "Been Read" for weeks, never any reply.

I can understand this from unverified fake profiles, but most of mine have green ticks!

I've got a decent profile and good veris, so find all this a bit confusing!

If you're not even going to say hello, why request/add as a friend in the first place?

By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

The green tick is a good start, but you have to look at the substance of their veries.

Are they just "social butterflys" who don't actually meet, but go to all the socials so they can claim to be swingers?

Are they single fems... chances are they are swamped with messages and just don't have time to respond?

Are they a "couple", with a few veries from back when Noah was a boy... and nothing since? Could be either the missus has gone off swinging altogether, or they have split up and the mr is winging it on their old profile to collect pics?

Bottom line, if you let it bother you, it will eat you up. Best bit of advice I have seen for this is, don't look at your "sent messages" folder, once its out there, forget about it or it will drive you mad.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only friend ones I meet or believe a meet is going to happen

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only people on our friends list is people we have actually met.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only accept friends requests if we spoken for a bit and get to know them.

I've yet to accept the few requests I've received.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever accept friend requests if I have spoken a couple of times.. then I ask them if I can send friend request. If i enjoy or are interested in them

Joe xx