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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you look for in a fuck buddy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filthy imagination and a similar sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Filthy imagination and a similar sense of humour "
humour is key. And sexual attraction

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By *eepndarkMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It would be nice to find one. Then I'd be fussy haha.

Sexy like yourself Ms M. Willing to meet for daytime fun un the car in hotels etc.

Most if all chemistry and sexy imagination. Oh yes and they must like wearing heels and role play.

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By *eepndarkMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It would be nice to find one. Then I'd be fussy haha.

Sexy like yourself Ms M. Willing to meet for daytime fun in the car in hotels etc.

Most if all chemistry and sexy imagination. Oh yes and they must like wearing heels and role play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Filthy imagination and a similar sense of humour humour is key. And sexual attraction "
This for sure and common shared interests too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust

Attraction both in & out of the bedroom

Respect

Honesty

Mutual interests

The ability to maintain the relationship at the right level

Being real

Awesome sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would be nice to find one. Then I'd be fussy haha.

Sexy like yourself Ms M. Willing to meet for daytime fun in the car in hotels etc.

Most if all chemistry and sexy imagination. Oh yes and they must like wearing heels and role play. "
aww thanks! Sadly I hate daytime and car fun. Not a fan of role play either lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trust

Attraction both in & out of the bedroom

Respect

Honesty

Mutual interests

The ability to maintain the relationship at the right level

Being real

Awesome sex"

Trust, respect and honesty are my top three!!

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I'm not looking for one

But if I were:

Truth;

Honesty;

And the un-American way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not looking for one

But if I were:

Truth;

Honesty;

And the un-American way "
I'm not either I don't think lol every so often I fancy one. And then think; naaaaa. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny, imaginative, independent, confident

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By *unfriendshipMan
over a year ago

Porthcawl

A spark ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A spark ??"
Like a candle

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"A spark ?? Like a candle "

He rubs a balloon on his head and gets static

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A spark ?? Like a candle

He rubs a balloon on his head and gets static "
I find sucking the helium from a balloon and talking afterwards a real turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not looking for one

But if I were:

Truth;

Honesty;

And the un-American way I'm not either I don't think lol every so often I fancy one. And then think; naaaaa. Lol "

I'd never be without mine now, although I do still enjoy my independence so it's the best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not looking for one

But if I were:

Truth;

Honesty;

And the un-American way I'm not either I don't think lol every so often I fancy one. And then think; naaaaa. Lol

I'd never be without mine now, although I do still enjoy my independence so it's the best of both worlds "
yes I think I'd like that part. I can't stand the head work. The last few guys I've played with, I've had the "other girls" throwing their toys out of the pram. One even called me a player- during a visit to decs it really puts me off.

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By *eepndarkMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"It would be nice to find one. Then I'd be fussy haha.

Sexy like yourself Ms M. Willing to meet for daytime fun in the car in hotels etc.

Most if all chemistry and sexy imagination. Oh yes and they must like wearing heels and role play. aww thanks! Sadly I hate daytime and car fun. Not a fan of role play either lol

"

Oh well,Newport socials and chams it is then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not looking for one

But if I were:

Truth;

Honesty;

And the un-American way I'm not either I don't think lol every so often I fancy one. And then think; naaaaa. Lol

I'd never be without mine now, although I do still enjoy my independence so it's the best of both worlds yes I think I'd like that part. I can't stand the head work. The last few guys I've played with, I've had the "other girls" throwing their toys out of the pram. One even called me a player- during a visit to decs it really puts me off."

That type of behavior makes no sense to me surely swinging is about sharing? I happily watch Ch3wy fuck the night away in a club & he's happy for me to as well. I'm so lucky we don't have any of those hang ups X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not looking for one

But if I were:

Truth;

Honesty;

And the un-American way I'm not either I don't think lol every so often I fancy one. And then think; naaaaa. Lol

I'd never be without mine now, although I do still enjoy my independence so it's the best of both worlds yes I think I'd like that part. I can't stand the head work. The last few guys I've played with, I've had the "other girls" throwing their toys out of the pram. One even called me a player- during a visit to decs it really puts me off.

That type of behavior makes no sense to me surely swinging is about sharing? I happily watch Ch3wy fuck the night away in a club & he's happy for me to as well. I'm so lucky we don't have any of those hang ups X"
nope. I'm totally oblivious until I hear the shit storm after. I totally get that people may have made plans for their evening beforehand, and have agreements in place, but that's not the fault of the 3rd party.. Stupid pillocks. Lol

You are very lucky to have found someone who's honest and straight up. No head games and nonsense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes a long time & lots of communication to get to this point where we just know each other's next move with a little look at each other, that & the fact neither of us wants to be with each other in any romantic sense X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must live within 20 miles, be attractive and funny.

Also must enjoy watching Netflix whilst sipping on hot chocolate .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you look for in a fuck buddy? "

It's described in my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Must live within 20 miles, be attractive and funny.

Also must enjoy watching Netflix whilst sipping on hot chocolate ."
sounds exciting... as long as the person isn't addicted to watching utter shite on Netflix that is....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must live within 20 miles, be attractive and funny.

Also must enjoy watching Netflix whilst sipping on hot chocolate . sounds exciting... as long as the person isn't addicted to watching utter shite on Netflix that is.... "

Hey! House of cards is good stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection...sensuality...attraction...horniness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone with a wicked smile & great personality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone with the same sex drive as me, willing to experiment, maybe also interested in swinging, someone who can make me laugh, doesn't kick me out of bed afterwards cause I like cuddles and a quick nap before round 2 and just someone who is mad about sex like I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had one.

Similar interests, socialable, some form of attraction, sense of humour, someone understanding and someone willing to experiment.

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Cheeky sense of humour--attractive--hold a good intelligent convo--all of these would lead to great sex and great fun to boot!!!--oh and non drama is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just finding one would be nice

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Just finding one would be nice "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just finding one would be nice "

Tell me about it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just finding one would be nice "
I'll second that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just finding one would be nice "

But what is the one for you tho x

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"Just finding one would be nice I'll second that "

Is that playing second fiddle, or making a menage a trois ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just finding one would be nice

But what is the one for you tho x"

Attractive, local living no more than 15 miles away, non smoker, very easy going, no dramas or jealousy issues, aged between 38 - 55

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To fuck whenever and wherever!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pulse lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A pulse lol "
I was waiting for this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's intriguing what everyone's wish list is... fb is such a loose term and has many different interpretations!

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By *inataur1Man
over a year ago

Rhondda/Bristol

Mutual Respect, (has to be enjoyable to both)

Honesty

The ability to distinguish the difference between FB/FWB and being in a relationship.

??????????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's intriguing what everyone's wish list is... fb is such a loose term and has many different interpretations! "

Hi Mav

I totally agree ...

What an intresting forum ..

I've actually enjoyed reading everyone's comments !!

A great thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's intriguing what everyone's wish list is... fb is such a loose term and has many different interpretations!

Hi Mav

I totally agree ...

What an intresting forum ..

I've actually enjoyed reading everyone's comments !!

A great thread "

I agree, great idea OP

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By *alesm69Man
over a year ago

W. Didsbury Manchester


"Trust

Attraction both in & out of the bedroom

Respect

Honesty

Mutual interests

The ability to maintain the relationship at the right level

Being real

Awesome sex"

All of the above for me are key... And in more or less that order of priority;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just finding one would be nice

But what is the one for you tho x

Attractive, local living no more than 15 miles away, non smoker, very easy going, no dramas or jealousy issues, aged between 38 - 55 "

Bingo lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mutual Respect, (has to be enjoyable to both)

Honesty

The ability to distinguish the difference between FB/FWB and being in a relationship.

??????????????"
and what do you see as the difference between fb/fwb?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's intriguing what everyone's wish list is... fb is such a loose term and has many different interpretations!

Hi Mav

I totally agree ...

What an intresting forum ..

I've actually enjoyed reading everyone's comments !!

A great thread "
me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mutual Respect, (has to be enjoyable to both)

Honesty

The ability to distinguish the difference between FB/FWB and being in a relationship.

?????????????? and what do you see as the difference between fb/fwb? "

Fb and fwb is the same for me lol I couldn't fuck someone I wouldn't find friendly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a difference ????

Someone plz educate me in this dark world.

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Passion and connection. There must be the feeling of ripping each other clothes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mutual Respect, (has to be enjoyable to both)

Honesty

The ability to distinguish the difference between FB/FWB and being in a relationship.

?????????????? and what do you see as the difference between fb/fwb?

Fb and fwb is the same for me lol I couldn't fuck someone I wouldn't find friendly lol"
me too! I don't differentiate between the two! Glad it's not just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mutual Respect, (has to be enjoyable to both)

Honesty

The ability to distinguish the difference between FB/FWB and being in a relationship.

?????????????? and what do you see as the difference between fb/fwb?

Fb and fwb is the same for me lol I couldn't fuck someone I wouldn't find friendly lol"

We're BFFF best friends for fun X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be nice just to find one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just finding one would be nice

But what is the one for you tho x

Attractive, local living no more than 15 miles away, non smoker, very easy going, no dramas or jealousy issues, aged between 38 - 55 "

Lol...I fell at the 'attractive' bit...but I'll keep trying.

It was the ONLY bit I failed on though...lol.

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By *inataur1Man
over a year ago

Rhondda/Bristol

I class them as the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just finding one would be nice

But what is the one for you tho x

Attractive, local living no more than 15 miles away, non smoker, very easy going, no dramas or jealousy issues, aged between 38 - 55

Lol...I fell at the 'attractive' bit...but I'll keep trying.

It was the ONLY bit I failed on though...lol."

Attractive is something I decide for myself lol. I think everyone has differing ideas on attraction just look at the snog, shag, avoid threads, someone might snog me, shag me,or avoid me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some one who keeps you on the boil, sext , phone chat so when you do meet its and explosion of lust !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust

Attraction both in & out of the bedroom

Respect

Honesty

Mutual interests

The ability to maintain the relationship at the right level

Being real

Awesome sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just finding one would be nice

But what is the one for you tho x

Attractive, local living no more than 15 miles away, non smoker, very easy going, no dramas or jealousy issues, aged between 38 - 55

Lol...I fell at the 'attractive' bit...but I'll keep trying.

It was the ONLY bit I failed on though...lol.

Attractive is something I decide for myself lol. I think everyone has differing ideas on attraction just look at the snog, shag, avoid threads, someone might snog me, shag me,or avoid me "

You obviously haven't viewed my profile pics then...lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong I have and you've sent me extras in mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some one who keeps you on the boil, sext , phone chat so when you do meet its and explosion of lust !"

Agreed definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust

Attraction both in & out of the bedroom

Respect

Honesty

Mutual interests

The ability to maintain the relationship at the right level

Being real

Awesome sex"

And yes all of the above is a must really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Trust

Honesty

Openess

Intelligent & funny

Good communicator

Able to talk about non sex activities

A girthy cock

A smile that makes me smile

Not needy

Naughty chat on phone/message/face

Someone with a "presence"

Just a short list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds pretty perfect Mav !!!

Does it exist lol

Let's hope so !! I'll give the girth bit a miss though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That sounds pretty perfect Mav !!!

Does it exist lol

Let's hope so !! I'll give the girth bit a miss though "
don't knock it til you've tried it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That sounds pretty perfect Mav !!!

Does it exist lol

Let's hope so !! I'll give the girth bit a miss though don't knock it til you've tried it! "

Oh I couldn't Mav ...

Exit only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing like being on the boil full of lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who's still breathing lol

Just kidding haha

But it has to be somebody who you have a sexual attraction to. Somebody who makes you laugh and makes you cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust

Honesty

Openess

Intelligent & funny

Good communicator

Able to talk about non sex activities

A girthy cock

A smile that makes me smile

Not needy

Naughty chat on phone/message/face

Someone with a "presence"

Just a short list

"

That definitely exists & hope you find it Miss Mav X

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By *abtasticMrWolfMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant


"Trust

Honesty

Openess

Intelligent & funny

Good communicator

Able to talk about non sex activities

A girthy cock

A smile that makes me smile

Not needy

Naughty chat on phone/message/face

Someone with a "presence"

Just a short list

"

Damn almost got it all. You missed out the dad dancing!

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

These lists just get bigger and bigger the more excited you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust

Honesty

Openess

Intelligent & funny

Good communicator

Able to talk about non sex activities

A girthy cock

A smile that makes me smile

Not needy

Naughty chat on phone/message/face

Someone with a "presence"

Just a short list

That definitely exists & hope you find it Miss Mav X"

Thats me, and I'm modest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"These lists just get bigger and bigger the more excited you get "
haha those are just a few key points lol basically not an uneducated knobhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pulse would do for starters . Seem to attract head cases at the moment lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'd know if it's right after a coffee or vino when the banter and flirting starts ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour

Not up their own arse

Alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who's actually willing to fuck me with out commitments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TRUST

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck buddy needed here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust , discretion and smell good ??

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By *ingKyMan
over a year ago

Cross Hands

Open yet naughty mind. An attaction to each other. A good laugh. A sturdy bed and atleast 4 lengths of rope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Open yet naughty mind. An attaction to each other. A good laugh. A sturdy bed and atleast 4 lengths of rope "
ooooooo rope? intrigued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual respect, a good laugh, nice smile and a naughty adventurous mind.

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