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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all can someone tell me what I'm doing wrong As all I seem to attract is fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chill will be the first best bet.

You've been on a week and you're in a pool of a ludicrous amount of men vs women.

Public pics (tasteful).

Catchy profile text.

And getting yourself known via socials will set you off in good steed.

Being a moaning man won't get you anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not moaning at all but had a few different profiles over the past 18 months and had great meets as part of a couple but since being single guy all I've attracted is fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chill will be the first best bet.

You've been on a week and you're in a pool of a ludicrous amount of men vs women.

Public pics (tasteful).

Catchy profile text.

And getting yourself known via socials will set you off in good steed.

Being a moaning man won't get you anywhere. "

Completely agree with this, remember as much as we'd all like to be having fun all the time, there's life away from the internet. Patience is a very rewarding virtue often. Good luck and hope you have fun soon

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Honestly please stop with these posts you ask this question every other week. Then delete your profile, start a new one and ask the same a couple of weeks later

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By *eepndarkMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Honestly please stop with these posts you ask this question every other week. Then delete your profile, start a new one and ask the same a couple of weeks later "

You need to grow your profile. Basically until you go to a social or a club you have more chance of winning the lottery than getting a meet. You have to work at it by advertising yourself in socials and in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming & going, posting random needy threads, approaching people with shit messages any or all of those will put people off you & unfortunately people here have long memories & you've done all those things & more. Maybe chill & take your time & be realistic might help because at the moment people think you're a bit of a joke, you post for socials & Chams & before the event you're gone X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so basically dont delete profile every two mins and try and attend socials and chams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest


"so basically dont delete profile every two mins and try and attend socials and chams

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and travel to other areas and clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hoping to get info Chams tonight on a guest pass

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Change your bio too, its very negative.

Think of it as your shop window, you have to sell yourself, inject a bit of humour, by all means mention that you have been here before but don't come across as negative and whiney "timewasters... not much luck" etc.

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