FabSwingers.com forum: courteous or filthy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all

generally when I message people I like to be courteous and well mannered, I mean when meeting in a bar I wouldn't feel comfortable just spouting dirty talk right off the bat. I also don't want to be bracketed with most of the less desirable guys here, don't seem to be getting anywhere though!!!

any advice appreciated x

By *ynonvalleyboyMan
over a year ago

merthyr

x 2

thats the drawback i am afraid, although saying that i have now got a few people who like to chat, just finding a mutualy convienient time to set up a meet

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do filthy messages.

It makes fully grown men come across spotty horny vulgar teenagers.

Nasty talk is fine for the bedroom, but not as an opening message IMO.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now this is just my opinion so it may not be what every single fella on here may agree with.

Firstly why are you messaging peeps for meets ?

Why not attend socials, and come in chat ?

I dont message anyone for a meet. I find that if people want to meet you they will find you.

Social events, clubs, or party's, and chat rooms, I find are the best way to get yourself known by the masses.

Just by taking the time not to be pushy in any way, may be in my opinion the best way for you to meet anyone off the site.

Good luck

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with CJ here, as a single woman (who for some bizarre reason) gets many many messages every day, I dont tend to read them half the time, long messages always appear copied and pasted to me,so dont bother, however if I'mat a socialoreven in chat room,I always make the time and effort to say hello, potentially striking up a conversation,which in turn is what makes me want to meet, I will say also frommy personal pointofview,I like to watch a fella on cam (no I dont mean wank cam!!) as some of these pics seem to be very old ones,and dont portray a proper understanding of a person! Good luck, and come along to the socials/wales chat rooms xxx