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So hard to meet like minded people, when so many guys give us good ones a bad name!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi to all that read this.

Hope your all having a nice holiday weekend?

I've been living just outside Carmarthen for a year or so now.

Recently come out of a 2 year relationship that was very intense and stressful.

Not knowing anyone from these parts and with me not being a local, it's so difficult to meet people that are into the same things as me.

As the subject title suggests, there seems to be a proportion of men on here that give us genuine ones a bad name.

I'm genuine, honest, down to earth and say things how they are.

So why is it so difficult to meet people?

Your thoughts on this would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and get along to a social. Some require veris and some don't. They are a great way to put yourself out there and show people what a nice guy you are. Good luck

Mrs Chatty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Mrs Chatty,

I would definitely like to attend a local social. If you could recommend any that would be very helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been to the Neath and Swansea lunch socials, also the Swansea and Newport evening socials. Everyone's always very welcoming and you'll always have a good laugh. Some lovely people out there to get to know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks again Mrs Chatty,

I will enquire with the socials you mentioned and see when they are next meeting. Hope to see you there one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't disagree with Mrs Chatty, would only add that your nice attitude won't go unnoticed for long from my experience a bit of common courtesy goes a long way and helps you stand out from the crowd, good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you Cardiff libertine,

Nice to hear your positive comments.

And from another gentleman too.

I also wish you all the success and best wishes.

Not to mention plenty of fun too

Enjoy your weekend.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Your attitude seems spot on, I've no doubt that once you start hitting the socials you should do well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not a go at the OP but

Oh moan moan moan moan "I can't get a meet" is all I seem to read on here as of late and it sometimes looked like posters have used the forum to stand out and say "look at me! I'm the poor single male who gets rebuffed every time I message" and apparently it's all the other single males fault on the site why he can't get a meet.

Patience, manners, and socials !

Don't worry about the rest. Worry about you and how you come across to others.

If you don't think that this is just a sec site you will get all the fun you want, and some good friends too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your comments,

However a moan was not my intention as explained.

I'm new to the area and simply asking peoples advice on how they have faired.

No alterer motives whatsoever.

As stated, it seems hard to speak to women on here because some men seem to spoil it for all the other decent ones.

That said, we are all entitled to our opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never used to get the "some men give the good guys a bad name thing" but after wasting the past year of my life on someone off here who ended up making me ill it has all but put me off men for life and I am wary as fuck of new people now and I used to fucking love meeting new guys. So I get it now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for saying that MissP69,

After reading your profile I can see you have been through some very tough times indeed.

I do hope in time you will be able to overcome what has happened and not let whoever caused this to keep affecting you in this way.

With hat said, I have no doubt I would be feeling the same in you're position.

Keep fighting on and don't let the Bas@#ds win

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey man

Get along to the socials. Everyone is very friendly and chatty. Miss P69 will tell you some great stories too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey man

Get along to the socials. Everyone is very friendly and chatty. Miss P69 will tell you some great stories too

"

Long time no see

But Nick is right....the best way to get yourself known as a single guy is by getting to know people through the socials

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you Nick and Miss P69.

I will make sure I'm there. Really looking forward to it

What's the best time to arrive? I don't want to be there too early on my own ha ha.

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you Nick and Miss P69.

I will make sure I'm there. Really looking forward to it

What's the best time to arrive? I don't want to be there too early on my own ha ha.

x"

I've sent you the details

I'll be there by 10

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest


"Hey man

Get along to the socials. Everyone is very friendly and chatty. Miss P69 will tell you some great stories too

Long time no see

But Nick is right....the best way to get yourself known as a single guy is by getting to know people through the socials "
in South Wales the social scene helps to have an opportunity to meet a variety of people

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

The other way of looking at is that if, as a lot of people say, there's loads of blokes who are idiots on here, it makes the good guys who "get it" all the more alluring!

I'm no Fab legend, but I guarantee you that women on here are very appreciative when they find someone decent to communicate with on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The other way of looking at is that if, as a lot of people say, there's loads of blokes who are idiots on here, it makes the good guys who "get it" all the more alluring!

I'm no Fab legend, but I guarantee you that women on here are very appreciative when they find someone decent to communicate with on here

"

I crave normality which is rare on here these days

Someone who is able to have a normal, tidy conversation without mentioning the need to empty their fucking balls these days is a god send

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Your profiles fine so keep fingers crossed for you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you Eve. Very nice of you to say so.

May I say your profile is also very good too. Although it is a shame that I'm out of your age range :p

Here's hoping you find your Adam

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By *arren e treggidenMan
over a year ago

pembroke dock wales


"The other way of looking at is that if, as a lot of people say, there's loads of blokes who are idiots on here, it makes the good guys who "get it" all the more alluring!

I'm no Fab legend, but I guarantee you that women on here are very appreciative when they find someone decent to communicate with on here

I crave normality which is rare on here these days

Someone who is able to have a normal, tidy conversation without mentioning the need to empty their fucking balls these days is a god send "

Ha ha you are so rite I've been at it since the 60s and nothing changes I've always treated lady's with respect they deserve all women have the rite to say no. I'm not the best looking but Pos the most respectful get to the socials there's one in Carmarthen coming up the neath one is this week if your into kink there's local munches the world is your oyster I love this life. Be safe respect all

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hi

Unfortunately there are a few idiots on here that do spoil it for us ... but I have been to 2 socials in the last 2 mths and have met some "FAB" ladies couples who are great ... so I suggest go onto Wales chat room (be polite) and then go to day social if you can ( don't need veries) and meet people you have chatted to ... only thing I did find is that I was told because I'm a straight single guy it will take time and just have to be patient ( from a single guy at a social) .. so get chatting in the room and take it from there ...hope this helps?

Good luck

MR N1CEGUY ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Unfortunately there are a few idiots on here that do spoil it for us ... but I have been to 2 socials in the last 2 mths and have met some "FAB" ladies couples who are great ... so I suggest go onto Wales chat room (be polite) and then go to day social if you can ( don't need veries) and meet people you have chatted to ... only thing I did find is that I was told because I'm a straight single guy it will take time and just have to be patient ( from a single guy at a social) .. so get chatting in the room and take it from there ...hope this helps?

Good luck

MR N1CEGUY ??"

Sound advice

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff

All the advices given are excellent.

I just add one more. Don't ever get upset or frustrated by rejections mate, whether you get one or a million of them.

If you ever feel like that, it's probably for the best to hit the

"delete profile" button. At least this is what I go by

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

TBH I'm a bit of a ginger kent...but I've done all right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"TBH I'm a bit of a ginger kent...but I've done all right lol "

Bit of a ????

Your the gingerest kentiest ginger Kent i know !!!

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

Good luck op I know what you mean but good advice on this thread

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