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By *ay rick OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

As a single male who understands the ratio of men to women here just wondering which preferred?--I have a dislike when send nothing but nice message then not even a no thanks as that's no drama to me at all--I know the answers maybe can't reply to all soooo isn't it easier to wink then ladies can look through a profile see if if interest at all?--curious to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the wink button as,a way of attracting attention

If I receive one bk

Then usually message with a thanks

And usually works for me x

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By *ay rick OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Easier and makes sense milly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always use the wink button as a way of gauging interest & as a single female I was more likely to say thanks for the wink than I was to reply to a message X

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By *ay rick OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

That's good to know from exp couple---recently with all the moaning of us single guys AND the ladies n couples here that say get hundreds of messages I just think that a wink would atleast let them take a read maybe wink back if a hint of an interest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's good to know from exp couple---recently with all the moaning of us single guys AND the ladies n couples here that say get hundreds of messages I just think that a wink would atleast let them take a read maybe wink back if a hint of an interest x"

I totally agree, I've always seen it as a nice n polite non pushy way, if the wink isn't reciprocated you know there's no interest & you haven't bogged down their inbox. We're well aware that some people hate winks but you can't please everyone X

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By *ay rick OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Exactly how I see it also guys---love abit of common sense me lolx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always use the wink button as a way of gauging interest & as a single female I was more likely to say thanks for the wink than I was to reply to a message X"

Same here hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've just had a wink from a hidden profile. What is the point ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind either

Kinky

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By *iJane4funCouple
over a year ago

South, Wales


"I use the wink button as,a way of attracting attention

If I receive one bk

Then usually message with a thanks

And usually works for me x"

Same for us as well.

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By *ay rick OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Sounds like a wink back n fourth to show interest before messaging could be the way forward by the sounds---makes sense really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually wink to gauge the intrest then message if I get a wink back.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

It's easier to receive a wink as a single male because you generally don't get much traffic ....

But women and couples probably get so many they look at them less than messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easier to receive a wink as a single male because you generally don't get much traffic ....

But women and couples probably get so many they look at them less than messages "

I look at them as much as messages tbh

Because I think it's less hassle than answering a message

As some guys can't take no thank you

So if you don't wink bk id take that as a no go??

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"It's easier to receive a wink as a single male because you generally don't get much traffic ....

But women and couples probably get so many they look at them less than messages

I look at them as much as messages tbh

Because I think it's less hassle than answering a message

As some guys can't take no thank you

So if you don't wink bk id take that as a no go??"

A wink is as good as a nod, but a message is better

A wink with no message is just a bit lazy

As many have said about messages, a bit of effort and imagination goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree wink should be sent and if you get one back then send newsage if you message first they prolly never read as cpl and f get inondated with them.

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"That's good to know from exp couple---recently with all the moaning of us single guys AND the ladies n couples here that say get hundreds of messages I just think that a wink would atleast let them take a read maybe wink back if a hint of an interest x

I totally agree, I've always seen it as a nice n polite non pushy way, if the wink isn't reciprocated you know there's no interest & you haven't bogged down their inbox. We're well aware that some people hate winks but you can't please everyone X"

I look at winks and if interested wink back. As you've all said it's kind of a less intrusive way to show interest. I also wink on occasion to show interest too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink means to me phawwaaaa nicccceeeee!!!

Cheeky wink wink!!

Nudge nudge!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wink means too lazy to type a message lol

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I have sent messages and no response. .. just say no thanks don't hurt, just manners .. ok just say fook off then lol at least you know where you stand .... so I'm gonna save my messages and wink instead .. thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have sent messages and no response. .. just say no thanks don't hurt, just manners .. ok just say fook off then lol at least you know where you stand .... so I'm gonna save my messages and wink instead .. thanks guys "

I think a no response is the answer, the rules are clear about that. We have no expectation of a response to the messages we send but it's nice to get the yes we're interested, when? One's

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wink means too lazy to type a message lol "

Or know the thoughtful personal message will just be deleted! Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wink means too lazy to type a message lol "

Not at all, a wink means hey we're interested, if we get a return wink the chat begins & no one has bogged down an inbox. The majority of our chats & subsequent meets have started with a wink, either from, or to us X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at my winks never ever have done.

So definitely a message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get any at all lol so either would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully not everyone ignores a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get any at all lol so either would be nice"
poor you!

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By *ay rick OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I've been trying the wink for the past week and FairPlay most seem to be polite enough to respond either way---before I always messaged and always nicely and respectfully--takes time and really frustrating when not even a no thamx!!!---before the wagon gets full with a delete meens no interest then surely a wink would be easier on both parties and shows respect both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been trying the wink for the past week and FairPlay most seem to be polite enough to respond either way---before I always messaged and always nicely and respectfully--takes time and really frustrating when not even a no thamx!!!---before the wagon gets full with a delete meens no interest then surely a wink would be easier on both parties and shows respect both ways "

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