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"Open this to the forum. How has swinging changed over the years? Is dogging now dead? Is it all about clubs and sociala these days? Is it less popular than it used to be?" No to all the above just kept of the media although I'm more into the dark side (people are more genuine)swinging dogging and clubs are all going well in fact some have improved | |||
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"I'd say it's changed for women in recent years especially with all the recent press interest. There's always been the join Friday leave by Sunday guy's & girls tbh, but in the past 2 years I'd say they've saturated the site with their sense of entitlement to a shag cos they've joined a sex site. The site is now full of too many people looking for what they'd go to the pub or club for & wading through that dross & the inevitable put downs & nasty comments certainly had a lot to do with my decision to delete my single profile. Via this profile I can do my thing in a safe & controlled way via club's & parties. I miss the old days of coffee, chatting & flirting, the chase that possibly lead to fun X" Me too Peach. Most men on here these days are just looking to empty their balls. The good old days are gone along with the relaxed no pressure meets and often following fun that you describe. Most men on here see me as a free prostitute, nothing more. | |||
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"I'd say it's changed for women in recent years especially with all the recent press interest. There's always been the join Friday leave by Sunday guy's & girls tbh, but in the past 2 years I'd say they've saturated the site with their sense of entitlement to a shag cos they've joined a sex site. The site is now full of too many people looking for what they'd go to the pub or club for & wading through that dross & the inevitable put downs & nasty comments certainly had a lot to do with my decision to delete my single profile. Via this profile I can do my thing in a safe & controlled way via club's & parties. I miss the old days of coffee, chatting & flirting, the chase that possibly lead to fun X Me too Peach. Most men on here these days are just looking to empty their balls. The good old days are gone along with the relaxed no pressure meets and often following fun that you describe. Most men on here see me as a free prostitute, nothing more. " It's that mind set that stops me meeting alone anymore & that does piss me off because I would love to be back in the game but it's harder & harder to find those few nice guys. I wish there was a better way but tbh I don't know what it is. Socials, parties & club's are great but it's not the same as the spontaneous coffee that on occasion could lead to some mutually enjoyable fun X | |||
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"I'd say it's changed for women in recent years especially with all the recent press interest. There's always been the join Friday leave by Sunday guy's & girls tbh, but in the past 2 years I'd say they've saturated the site with their sense of entitlement to a shag cos they've joined a sex site. The site is now full of too many people looking for what they'd go to the pub or club for & wading through that dross & the inevitable put downs & nasty comments certainly had a lot to do with my decision to delete my single profile. Via this profile I can do my thing in a safe & controlled way via club's & parties. I miss the old days of coffee, chatting & flirting, the chase that possibly lead to fun X Me too Peach. Most men on here these days are just looking to empty their balls. The good old days are gone along with the relaxed no pressure meets and often following fun that you describe. Most men on here see me as a free prostitute, nothing more. It's that mind set that stops me meeting alone anymore & that does piss me off because I would love to be back in the game but it's harder & harder to find those few nice guys. I wish there was a better way but tbh I don't know what it is. Socials, parties & club's are great but it's not the same as the spontaneous coffee that on occasion could lead to some mutually enjoyable fun X" I've gone I can't even be arsed to look anymore If I get talking to someone cool they usually suddenly turn into a fucking creep | |||
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"Hi guy's,when I and my wife wear younger,it was called wife swapping then we would go to rugby clubs and each couple would put there keys on the table with the wifes name on with some tape over,at the end of the night,which ever set you picked up that is you you went home with,it was not a select game, any one could play,so you got to fuck girls,ladies,that you would never expect to fuck,I also visited some of these friends last year and we were invited to play in a new game,will explain it if you want " i remember those days, was golf club for me and my hubbie | |||
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"& that's where it all falls down women I know & me included just don't want to have sex with guys who have no standards, well they don't want it blatantly in their face. There's nothing to put us of sex more than the feeling we're a replacement for a wank, somewhere warm to dump it, somewhere to empty their balls & yep we've had all those offers & more. What happened to the guys who understood the need to make a woman feel desired in that moment? I'm not talking about relationships etc, I'm talking about being the wanted one in that moment & time, other women will get what I mean but most gits will see this as neediness & not NSA, how naive they are X" Got it in one Peach I find that as a woman who (used to at least) enjoy nsa friendships/sex, men view me as some sort of emotionless robot who as you describe is nothing more to them than someone to empty their balls over | |||
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"Always put the lovely lady first, let her Cum first, and let her direct wear she wants you to cum,then tell her you will hoover the house,do the dishes and get the kids,bet she will say,do it again first, so who is boss,not the one that as a dicks ha ha " Hmmmm you've definitely confused your life with swinging, that dynamics well beyond my swinging experience X | |||
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"Always put the lovely lady first, let her Cum first, and let her direct wear she wants you to cum,then tell her you will hoover the house,do the dishes and get the kids,bet she will say,do it again first, so who is boss,not the one that as a dicks ha ha " See now to me this is cringeworthy. It's all about cum this cum that Ych | |||
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"Maybe you guy's can explain to me what swinging is,it seems to me, a closed shop amongst friends " There you go right there | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 06/04/17 17:29:09]" Oh my what gorgeous boobs, I'm torn now boobs v cake | |||
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"I am not one of them,but as I was talking about,as swinging changed over the years,back in the day in Rugby wear I thought it is wear swaping went on, rugby players,well most of them are like that just, somewhere to empty there balls empty there sacks my wife would say so they would not dangle when they scrumed down I am not like that,why she married me," Can someone tell me if this is a new type of urban language, as I have a migraine trying to decrypt it. If it is English, please get me a 20,because that's good gear | |||
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"I could write an essay on this after being on the site from its very beginnings. All I can quickly type on my "phone" is...the improved technology of communication has changed lifestyles to instantaneous instead of taking time and that's why swinging has changed...it's no longer the select few who do it for a lifestyle change but the masses who use it for what they presume is instantaneous fun !" Well said but unfortunately the masses have spoilt it for that select few with the result that the select few have effectively closed shop to said masses, hence the comment above from a single guy X | |||
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"I used to be quite active and as a social kind of guy. I prefer that element to a social meet, unfortunately all men are tarred and as my female friend on here got over a 100 different messages in a day that were just full of porno fantasies I can see why it's a massive turn off and the change has started. That said anyone wants to join me for a beer or curry on the 22nd in Swansea your more than welcome. " Hmmmm curry, next to cake that's a fave. Hope you find the company you're seeking X | |||
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"Curry and cake " Only after swinging mind, all that action could cause bleurgh | |||
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"I used to be quite active and as a social kind of guy. I prefer that element to a social meet, unfortunately all men are tarred and as my female friend on here got over a 100 different messages in a day that were just full of porno fantasies I can see why it's a massive turn off and the change has started. That said anyone wants to join me for a beer or curry on the 22nd in Swansea your more than welcome. Hmmmm curry, next to cake that's a fave. Hope you find the company you're seeking X" Cheers but as a single man on here it will be poppadoms for one | |||
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"I used to be quite active and as a social kind of guy. I prefer that element to a social meet, unfortunately all men are tarred and as my female friend on here got over a 100 different messages in a day that were just full of porno fantasies I can see why it's a massive turn off and the change has started. That said anyone wants to join me for a beer or curry on the 22nd in Swansea your more than welcome. Hmmmm curry, next to cake that's a fave. Hope you find the company you're seeking X Cheers but as a single man on here it will be poppadoms for one " If I wasn't working that night I'd offer to join you for curry & a pint if you found nothing else X | |||
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"I'd say it's changed for women in recent years especially with all the recent press interest. There's always been the join Friday leave by Sunday guy's & girls tbh, but in the past 2 years I'd say they've saturated the site with their sense of entitlement to a shag cos they've joined a sex site. The site is now full of too many people looking for what they'd go to the pub or club for & wading through that dross & the inevitable put downs & nasty comments certainly had a lot to do with my decision to delete my single profile. Via this profile I can do my thing in a safe & controlled way via club's & parties. I miss the old days of coffee, chatting & flirting, the chase that possibly lead to fun X" Those were the days peach Flirty banter and a laugh And fun if it happened | |||
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"I used to be quite active and as a social kind of guy. I prefer that element to a social meet, unfortunately all men are tarred and as my female friend on here got over a 100 different messages in a day that were just full of porno fantasies I can see why it's a massive turn off and the change has started. That said anyone wants to join me for a beer or curry on the 22nd in Swansea your more than welcome Hmmmm curry, next to cake that's a fave. Hope you find the company you're seeking X Cheers but as a single man on here it will be poppadoms for one If I wasn't working that night I'd offer to join you for curry & a pint if you found nothing else X" Cheers , I'm in Swansea every three weeks so another time | |||
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"Unfortunately only single females & couples have provided their response so only their perspective has been expressed, you maybe right about females doing the same but that isn't my experience & therefore has had no impact upon my discussion. I think CJ hit the nail on the head & whether that be male, female or couples seeking the instantaneous fix it still impacts upon the traditional long term swingers who remain X" Very much so especially for those who want to journey more no doubts | |||
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"Guys are getting some stick here for wanting to empty there sack at weekends dare I say females are becoming just as liberal as well. The whole scene is changing media spotlight could be a hindrance but it evolves the situation also as brings in potential new blood. I can't comment on the past as I'm new and I've made a billion mistakes already in my first year but that was circumstances more then anything else... but in the time I've seen it change I've made some really good friends and that's what we are and it's helped me learn....dare I say a social is next on my list of things as is a club.....but a guide would be nice lol " It's not anyone being liberal that's the issue It's the terminology often used by men....the number of status' along the lines of "my balls need draining" or "who wants my huge load?" is quite staggering. Surely even the most inept of men can see how fucking repulsive that is?? | |||
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" It's not anyone being liberal that's the issue It's the terminology often used by men....the number of status' along the lines of "my balls need draining" or "who wants my huge load?" is quite staggering. Surely even the most inept of men can see how fucking repulsive that is??" totally this! Also the same guys a few hours later moaning that this site is shit because no female has jumped to his pitter patter and relieved him of his burdan. God forbid women have a choice and are not here to just be a vessel for man's seed!! (Via a condom of course we are in the 21st century ) | |||
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"I'd say it's changed for women in recent years especially with all the recent press interest. There's always been the join Friday leave by Sunday guy's & girls tbh, but in the past 2 years I'd say they've saturated the site with their sense of entitlement to a shag cos they've joined a sex site. The site is now full of too many people looking for what they'd go to the pub or club for & wading through that dross & the inevitable put downs & nasty comments certainly had a lot to do with my decision to delete my single profile. Via this profile I can do my thing in a safe & controlled way via club's & parties. I miss the old days of coffee, chatting & flirting, the chase that possibly lead to fun X Me too Peach. Most men on here these days are just looking to empty their balls. The good old days are gone along with the relaxed no pressure meets and often following fun that you describe. Most men on here see me as a free prostitute, nothing more. " I buy you food and dark fruit and don't even get a blow job... time to up my game and be a prick | |||
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"I'd say it's changed for women in recent years especially with all the recent press interest. There's always been the join Friday leave by Sunday guy's & girls tbh, but in the past 2 years I'd say they've saturated the site with their sense of entitlement to a shag cos they've joined a sex site. The site is now full of too many people looking for what they'd go to the pub or club for & wading through that dross & the inevitable put downs & nasty comments certainly had a lot to do with my decision to delete my single profile. Via this profile I can do my thing in a safe & controlled way via club's & parties. I miss the old days of coffee, chatting & flirting, the chase that possibly lead to fun X Me too Peach. Most men on here these days are just looking to empty their balls. The good old days are gone along with the relaxed no pressure meets and often following fun that you describe. Most men on here see me as a free prostitute, nothing more. I buy you food and dark fruit and don't even get a blow job... time to up my game and be a prick " Yea just turn into a dangerous narcissistic cunt and I'll be all over you | |||
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"I'd say it's changed for women in recent years especially with all the recent press interest. There's always been the join Friday leave by Sunday guy's & girls tbh, but in the past 2 years I'd say they've saturated the site with their sense of entitlement to a shag cos they've joined a sex site. The site is now full of too many people looking for what they'd go to the pub or club for & wading through that dross & the inevitable put downs & nasty comments certainly had a lot to do with my decision to delete my single profile. Via this profile I can do my thing in a safe & controlled way via club's & parties. I miss the old days of coffee, chatting & flirting, the chase that possibly lead to fun X Me too Peach. Most men on here these days are just looking to empty their balls. The good old days are gone along with the relaxed no pressure meets and often following fun that you describe. Most men on here see me as a free prostitute, nothing more. I buy you food and dark fruit and don't even get a blow job... time to up my game and be a prick Yea just turn into a dangerous narcissistic cunt and I'll be all over you " So stay as I am | |||
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