FabSwingers.com forum: Am I Brutal or truthful

By *ve 66 OP Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Told earlier my profile is brutal. I just think truthful. Why waste people's time what do you think.?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest and amusing I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say brutal

Slightly hostile and quite negative maybe

There are ways of getting across what you do/don't want in a more approachable manner.

But it's your profile so as long as you're happy with it and it's getting you what you want, who gives a fuck??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Told earlier my profile is brutal. I just think truthful. Why waste people's time what do you think.????? "

Its your principle and your just being honest x

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By *ascade35Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

"Told earlier my profile is brutal. I just think truthful. Why waste people's time what do you think.????? "

I wouldn't say brutal to be honest Eve, blunt perhaps.....but at the end of the day, it's your profile and you are honest and to the point of what you are looking for.....I don't see any issue with it certainly

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By *ve 66 OP Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Thanx all..

If anyone thinks it's bruteful must Ave been wrapped in cotton wool as a kid.

Tough titty I say.

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By *ascade35Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

"Thanx all..

If anyone thinks it's bruteful must Ave been wrapped in cotton wool as a kid.

Tough titty I say.

Indeed, too much of that happened in the last 15-20 years or so.....but let's not get started on that particular can of worms shall we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanx all..

If anyone thinks it's bruteful must Ave been wrapped in cotton wool as a kid.

Tough titty I say.

You ask a question, then post this comment ??

All of what you have put is your preference, as some else has already said there are more approachable ways to put it across.

However rule 8 is a little presumptuous isn't it ?

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By *ve 66 OP Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Number 8 was added as was fed up of being asked. Most who read my profile can see the humour others blatantly can't. All according how we see things. Be a boring world if we were all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Number 8 was added as was fed up of being asked. Most who read my profile can see the humour others blatantly can't. All according how we see things. Be a boring world if we were all the same. "

Maybe if there were a few other humourous parts in there as well it would be easier to see that that is an attempt to lighten the situation xx as one piece in the middle of what reads as (to me) as a very stern list of rules is a little hard to distinguish xx

But that's just my opinion Hun xx as you said it would be boarding if we were all the same xx and I'm sure you would disagree with things in our profile xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Number 8 was added as was fed up of being asked. Most who read my profile can see the humour others blatantly can't. All according how we see things. Be a boring world if we were all the same. "

That's the thing Eve it doesn't read as humorous

As long as your happy with it which you obviously are then it shouldn't matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brutal and with your comment about number 8 on this post proves that you are. But like everyone said it's your profile

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

Your profile.... write whatever you want. Some people will like and accept what you're saying. Others will be offended and avoid you... we all have our preferences and run our profiles as we wish.

By asking the question about your profile text I feel you're seeking approval. ...

Happy swinging Eve

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

It's not realy a profile about you, more a list of what you don't want. Hostile and blunt, yes. Informative about you as a person - not so much.

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Blunt yes---brutal nooo not really--but hey this site makes you ladies this way and understandably so as the ratio of men to women allow this to be the case!!--could most here afford to be so picky in the real world--defiantly noooooo lol but even for us genuine guys it's hard work sifting through the nutters so god help you ladies!!!--in my opinion op your profile is tidy enough all be it a long read---just keep being you

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By *eswillMan
over a year ago

Chepstow

Maybe a bit on the negative side but you are being clear about things you do not want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I uuumm'd n aaaaa'd long & hard before commenting; firstly because of your hostile responses to the comments you've invited, if they don't fit your view hostility & secondly because I didn't feel I had anything positive to add, it's a very badly written profile to be fair, but I unfortunately felt the need to challenge your negative view of women as indicated from the profile text, you make several sweeping statements which I found verging on the offensive, I for one am not a lover of BBC, but that's just one of the point. As others have said, you shouldn't post seeking comments if you're not prepared to consider them, it becomes a meaningless exercise & comes across, to me as needy as the profile. Maybe scrap the judgemental script & convey some of you, the person through your profile & you're more likely to attract the kind of guy you're seeking, atm I'm guessing you're only attraction tossers who don't give a shit, because let's face it they're probably the only ones with balls enough to approach you, I'm guessing nice guys would give this a wide berth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea

Lol I've just read it and I l9ved it to although a few of the 10 could be narrowed down to six ...basically you don't want a cock pictures and you want a decent conversation....nothing wrong with that. Your profile...your rules x

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

"I uuumm'd n aaaaa'd long & hard before commenting; firstly because of your hostile responses to the comments you've invited, if they don't fit your view hostility & secondly because I didn't feel I had anything positive to add, it's a very badly written profile to be fair, but I unfortunately felt the need to challenge your negative view of women as indicated from the profile text, you make several sweeping statements which I found verging on the offensive, I for one am not a lover of BBC, but that's just one of the point. As others have said, you shouldn't post seeking comments if you're not prepared to consider them, it becomes a meaningless exercise & comes across, to me as needy as the profile. Maybe scrap the judgemental script & convey some of you, the person through your profile & you're more likely to attract the kind of guy you're seeking, atm I'm guessing you're only attraction tossers who don't give a shit, because let's face it they're probably the only ones with balls enough to approach you, I'm guessing nice guys would give this a wide berth."

Now this is brutal lol but fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm truly a nice person but I do think some people don't help themselves & yep, my biggest fault could be that I'm a bit blunt at times & I am working on this because it's not something I celebrate

I should listen to Ch3wy more X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your choice hun shit ment to say Eve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's your choice hun shit ment to say Eve

Give this man a clap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's your choice hun shit ment to say Eve

Top class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Told earlier my profile is brutal. I just think truthful. Why waste people's time what do you think.????? "

Ok well best way to answer that question is for YOU to look at your profile and ask "would i want to meet someone whos profile looked or sounded like that?".

But on the flip side dont think just because your being honest, it doesnt mean you get a pass on being an dick about.

I must admit you come off to me anyway, as spoilt and frankly an arsehole by flat out saying "You Must....!" 10 times immediatly followed by "but i will do what i want if i think your beneeth me for whatever purely subjective reason I take a fancy to, even if you do follow the "10 commandments"" and come on...10 commandments, really?

And then in this fourm you ask for opinions and then just dismiss all the ones you dont agree with

So if your going to ask for people opinions

Be ready to hear stuff you dont agree with and be ready to have your veiws challanged

Basically no one blames you for being you, but you cant blame other people for not liking who you are.

Especially if your profile is their first impression of you

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

As a lot above have said also. I would stay well clear you come across as rather narcissistic tbh all the best in finding what your looking for.

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By *ve 66 OP Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Changed it a tad... Bless you all

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

"Changed it a tad... Bless you all

Well it is funny at least lol...

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By *ve 66 OP Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

"Changed it a tad... Bless you all

Well it is funny at least lol... "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the point, honest, truthful, too many time wasters on fab, profile will filter most of those out, hopefully not limiting messages!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Changed it a tad... Bless you all

Reads so much better with a humorous slant & it's not so full on that it'll alienate the few good guy's about. All the best & hope you get lots of swinging fun X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest, with a sense of humour. If someone doesn't like it, they probably wouldn't get on with you anyway, so no loss. Keep being yourself Eve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think its a brilliant profile lovely

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By *ercman50Man
over a year ago

blackwood

love it Eve i find it witty and funny after all theres so many timewasters

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By *ascade35Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

"Changed it a tad... Bless you all

I'll admit after your rewrite, it does come across with a lot more humour.....lovely profile Eve xx

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By *ve 66 OP Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

"Told earlier my profile is brutal. I just think truthful. Why waste people's time what do you think.?????

Ok well best way to answer that question is for YOU to look at your profile and ask "would i want to meet someone whos profile looked or sounded like that?".

But on the flip side dont think just because your being honest, it doesnt mean you get a pass on being an dick about.

And then in this fourm you ask for opinions and then just dismiss all the ones you dont agree with

So if your going to ask for people opinions

Be ready to hear stuff you dont agree with and be ready to have your veiws challanged

Basically no one blames you for being you, but you cant blame other people for not liking who you are.

Especially if your profile is their first impression of you"

10 commandments cos of my name... Don't think many clicked with that. Altered it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This lovely lady is a friend of mine, and I think that she's been completely taken the wrong way. Granted, she has now changed her profile, but her profile before the rewrite just honestly stated what she wanted from here. Ok, so she invited comment, but some of the comments were unkind and seemingly designed to put her down.

Lets all play nice...Fab is meant to be fun, and about enjoying making friends, and CONSTRUCTIVE advice is always welcome...and God knows, I need more constructive advice than most on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This lovely lady is a friend of mine, and I think that she's been completely taken the wrong way. Granted, she has now changed her profile, but her profile before the rewrite just honestly stated what she wanted from here. Ok, so she invited comment, but some of the comments were unkind and seemingly designed to put her down.

Lets all play nice...Fab is meant to be fun, and about enjoying making friends, and CONSTRUCTIVE advice is always welcome...and God knows, I need more constructive advice than most on here

People just gave their opinions on Eves' profile exactly like she asked.

I can't see the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Changed it a tad... Bless you all

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Is this where one of this big mouthed ladies would have said, " one for the block list" if it was a single guy's profile and post; as if they ruled the world?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this where one of this big mouthed ladies would have said, " one for the block list" if it was a single guy's profile and post; as if they ruled the world?"

Put your tin hat on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this where one of this big mouthed ladies would have said, " one for the block list" if it was a single guy's profile and post; as if they ruled the world?

Put your tin hat on

God damm these big mouthed ladies and their double standards!!

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this where one of this big mouthed ladies would have said, " one for the block list" if it was a single guy's profile and post; as if they ruled the world?"

Regardless of the gender neediness or someone we have no intention of meeting would go on the block list, ours is an equal ops list. I don't consider this means we think we rule the world but by fuck do we rule our profile

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Is this where one of this big mouthed ladies would have said, " one for the block list" if it was a single guy's profile and post; as if they ruled the world?

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And who do we have here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love your write up

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