FabSwingers.com forum: What to cover in opening messages?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello to all the girls of Fab, every time I send a message to someone on here I always feel like I'm sending the same message time and time again, albeit with some slight rewording. So, just wondering what are the general stuff you like to see covered in an opening message? Usually I try to introduce myself, send a face pic (common courtesy) and explain I'm willing to try things within your boundaries and get to know you first if preferred. Then I try to target it towards something you may have explicitly expressed interest in, be it via a status update or your profile description. So, am I doing things right and if not, can you give me some pointers for what you're keen to see from guys on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say your age goes against you as well as having 9 pics of your cock

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans

"I would say your age goes against you as well as having 9 pics of your cock "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face it guy's it looks the same from every angle & nope, it's not going to draw the women in. Maybe 1 cock pic in your gallery & keep the rest to body, butt, chest or thigh shots, a bit of humour goes a long way so take some pic inspiration from other, more successful guy's here X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay, I've decreased the number of cock pics I have in my gallery and will get to work on adding more body shots, but what can do about the age issue? Surely there are people on fab looking for guys around my age, right?

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Gsoh is a must as youl c on my profile so chat a while before diving in for a meet..

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

My view op is this--I've been here a little while and spent a time sending long messages then not even a no thankyou--so I've leaned more towards short nice msg and if reply then that hopefully strikes up some banter back n forth!!--go from there!!--just use this site as a laugh and you never know what it can bring!!-but stick to the real world as many here believe as they get 100s o messages they're special!!--nooooo a corpse would get the same on this crazy site lmao!!--but there are some real good ones here so keep being yourself and don't be swayed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A relaxed humurous approach I like. A bit of cheekiness does it for me along with good photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A relaxed humurous approach I like. A bit of cheekiness does it for me along with good photos

This for me, link to the profile to show you've read it & I'm more likely to reply. When I had a single profile that was, now I rely on the filters to prevent messages X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest the first message just keep it short. No hypo text. I used to right long opening messages point stuff out from their profile etc. But never had no joy, so just started keeping it short and have had better luck. Good luck thou

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