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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We constantly get messages about doing things we say we won't or not into or asking for meets which contradict the way we clearly say in our profile that we meet.

So quite simply by show of posts - who reads profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read profiles but some guy don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do but, people who message us obviously don't.

so annoying at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do but, people who message us obviously don't.

so annoying at times "

Can just ask mk2rs? Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always read a profile and try to v be respectful of what they are looking for. Passmeatissue how are you both long time no speak we met at the party down the bay in the kitchen ??

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By *onbon7Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We always read the profile - how else would we know if we'd be interested or are looking for similar experiences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always read profiles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We always read the profile - how else would we know if we'd be interested or are looking for similar experiences?"

That's what we mean, we all take the time to tick the interests boxes and tell people a bit about us and what we're looking for and not looking for and its all disregarded in many of the messages we receive THEN to top it all off the people who don't read profiles have the audacity to call you rude for deleting their mail or blocking them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always read the profile - how else would we know if we'd be interested or are looking for similar experiences?

That's what we mean, we all take the time to tick the interests boxes and tell people a bit about us and what we're looking for and not looking for and its all disregarded in many of the messages we receive THEN to top it all off the people who don't read profiles have the audacity to call you rude for deleting their mail or blocking them lol"

Same old fab lol X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always read profiles but so obvious and annoying that others don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are loads that don't bloody read mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always do, but we get asked questions, which, if they had looked at our profile they would know the answer to.

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read them. Which is why I don't reply to 99% of messages as I clearly don't fit their criteria!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always read them. Which is why I don't reply to 99% of messages as I clearly don't fit their criteria! "

I hadn't thought of that Miss Mav x yes I do that as well even if they just send me a hi, I'll look at their profile and if I really enjoy something that they don't include as an interest or they clearly say they're not into it, I'm not wasting my or their time. I delete and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always read them. Which is why I don't reply to 99% of messages as I clearly don't fit their criteria!

I hadn't thought of that Miss Mav x yes I do that as well even if they just send me a hi, I'll look at their profile and if I really enjoy something that they don't include as an interest or they clearly say they're not into it, I'm not wasting my or their time. I delete and move on "
yep! I get a lot of guys who aren't at all interested in clubs. Yet that's my main interest on fab! Lol they all think they can change my mind though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have a look because then it's information that you can use when messaging the woman. Although I've realised that a lot of profiles hardly have any information and that's always a pain because it's hard enough to try and break the ice when contacting them :-/

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By *exy hot ass 2017Woman
over a year ago

caerphilly

Always and married men still ask !!!

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

So many people don't bother. Women and guys. My profile says I'm straight. Think I need to put on there that I'm not "fab straight" but actually straight!

The best is when you say "did you read my profile" and they say yes!

Well you'd know the answer then!

I'm the same as some of the above. If I am not into their profile or they clearly don't show the same interests as me I don't bother to reply. Especially guys who say they're "not into bigger women" and then message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, I always have a good nose at peoples profiles and make sure to read thoroughly!

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Always read profiles but so obvious and annoying that others don't! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately a lot of guys don't seem to be able to read, if they were able they wouldn't send stupid messages. Or they see a picture and cock goes into overdrive and they have to send a message regardless of what the profile says. To be fair not all guys are like that though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't just guys to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It isn't just guys to be fair "

Totally agree us women are just as guilty of it as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason we stated guys is that we only meet guys, so can't comment on women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a profile? I just look at the pics and bang a 'wanna fck nw' message in ASAP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always read and always pleased when people have taken time to read ours. Those that don't, don't tend to last long. In saying that, if the profile is like war and peace then will just skim through lol (goes to check word count of ours...)

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By *rBeardMan
over a year ago

Mid Glamorgan


"I always read them. Which is why I don't reply to 99% of messages as I clearly don't fit their criteria! "

Absolute nonsense, obiously didn't make it past the first few lines when it come to my profile a while back.

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By *aut-eWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Always read and always pleased when people have taken time to read ours. Those that don't, don't tend to last long. In saying that, if the profile is like war and peace then will just skim through lol (goes to check word count of ours...)"

Ditto, though my profile has become war and peace over time with the experiences I get on here, this has led to some guys making the comment that they couldn't be bothered to read through my profile, must be high maintenance and why should they bother with me

At least this is a filter in itself and makes the genuine ones a bit easier to spot as I have found some absolute gems on here

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By *OWN AND COUNTY SOCIALSMan
over a year ago

CARMARTHEN


"We constantly get messages about doing things we say we won't or not into or asking for meets which contradict the way we clearly say in our profile that we meet.

So quite simply by show of posts - who reads profiles?"
It looks like the OP is yet another NO LONGER A MEMBER and it must be said that many a member's profile content changes like the weather and needless to say that you could easily message them based upon their original profile content without doing a re-read and yes you guessed correctly in that their updated version read's like a entirely different member Casanova

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

Loads of people just look at the pictures and don't bother reading the profile.

I'll admit I look at pictures first and if I'm interested then I'll read the profile. I wouldn't message someone if I hadn't read the profile first to find out if I was going to be someone they would be interested in....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woops unlos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple for us,if you don't put what's at the bottom of our profile then we don't reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people just scroll straight down to the pics and first message more often than not is nice pics - Lame eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read a profile in fairness helps with creating a message to someone...but then still get blocked lmao .....forever leaning lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the irony of not being able to read the OP's profile....I'll always now be wondering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles are important in creating a picture of you and what exactly you're looking for.

It paints a picture of what your expectations are and what others can expect in return.

If Veronica and Desmond say that they're after an older bull, 9" minimum,that has experience and staying power when you know that Veronica would be your 2nd Shag ever, the first one being 3 years ago behind the school bike shed, that you'd cum as soon as Veronica got her 50 year old tits out and that the longest youve stayed anywhere was waiting for an egg to boil, then why message them?????? Why waste their time and then demand a judicial review when Veronica blocks your pimply little arse???

Profiles. Read them. Digest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of people just look at the pictures and don't bother reading the profile.

I'll admit I look at pictures first and if I'm interested then I'll read the profile. I wouldn't message someone if I hadn't read the profile first to find out if I was going to be someone they would be interested in.... "

This

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