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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking for peoples thoughts lots of our friends leaving site because they are bored reason being no meets for fun everyone is meeting socially are we being too picky in who we play with or are people fed up of timewasters. Personally we love socials but don't get to meet to play after what are your thoughts we are all up for fun so why isnt it happening

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

People leave for a number of reasons.

We find that we dont play as much as we like because we arent forward enough, we like to socialise and make friends, but lack that "confidence" to make that final "move". I guess we need to be more "to the point" lol!

I guess we just have to be prepared to be turned down, and not let it get us down if that happens, after all at least then we will know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true hun if people were more up front and prepared for let downs then perhaps everyone would know where they stood, we understand that not everybody floats each other's boats so to speak but lately it seems that nobody is floating any body's boat lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not for the want of trying.We are prepared for let downs and have posted for a meet on a number of occasions and i think people are too scared to send a message in the first place. They would rather just send a wink or invite....Its mainly a lack of comunication skills.The winter months are always better on here also because nobody has anywhere to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

woooo summer months are much better... the heat makes us all hornier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had more meets through the winter months and played than we have socials this year! We agree we are hornier in the summer months but as we said its not for the want of trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thought provoking post! Well done to tonycher. We have an idea! How about a chatroom strictly for people interested in meeting other people for sex. One for couples, one for singles and one for both. That way you wouldn't need to pluck up the courage to take that final step. We would all know why we are there and what we want. That is what we thought swinging was all about but have come to realise it means a lot of different things to a lot of different people. Not a critisism, just an observation. Nothing wrong with the site it appears to accomodate the majority extremely well. But when you head into a swinging chatroom the last thing you expect to hear is a conversation about knitting patterns. It happened! I swear lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things goin ok with me.no matter what the weather horny all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very good idea to have a separate sex room we think, just for meets, if people don't want to meet they just don't go in that room, same as the directing room, if you dont' want to be directed you don't go there. I've been in the room when knitting patterns were being discussed and we come on here to find couples for fun not how to learn how to knit a scarf lol, anybody thinking the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definatley agree with you that meets are more available in the winter months, we have a caravan which we tend to use quite a lot in the summer months, we do get plenty of offers still but in all honesty find ourselves turning a lot down which is dissapointing, but we do have a life outside of swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People leave for a number of reasons.

We find that we dont play as much as we like because we arent forward enough, we like to socialise and make friends, but lack that "confidence" to make that final "move". I guess we need to be more "to the point" lol!

I guess we just have to be prepared to be turned down, and not let it get us down if that happens, after all at least then we will know."

We both agree with this approach, faint heart and all that, we just gotta find the nuts to apply it too

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