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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone feeling frustrated and bored with fab?

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By *hiz2112Man
over a year ago

south wales and gloucestershire

i think it is like facebook great at first,then gets boring with time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally agree with you matey

As single males we seem to be the outcasts of the site!

Lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

No

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By *hiz2112Man
over a year ago

south wales and gloucestershire

i dont think im a outcast at all,even though it is difficult at times,but just keep on plodding on,if i had a problem on here i would just delete my account!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it has gone a bit boring and quiet on here lately

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By *ipstickCouple
over a year ago

swansea


"Anyone feeling frustrated and bored with fab?"

Not at all ! The site is definitely what you make it . We like the social side of it as well as the meets and have made some amazing friends over the past few years . There are definitely times in the year that it can be quieter , like school holidays . But if you put in the effort you`ll reap the rewards xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone feeling frustrated and bored with fab?"
face book is boring

fab is not

its only boring if you make it to be borin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you put in the effort you`ll reap the rewards xxx

Well said lippy ! This site aint boring ! its by far different to facebook etc and if you are bored of it, why are you here ?

Maybe you aught to get onto chat a bit more often, and socialise with more peeps on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A no from me too! Have met some lovely people at socials and for fun. I've remained friends with some of them and i also enjoy chatting in the local rooms. No complaints from me about this site so far .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agrees with majority ... use sight for your own needs .. and reap your own rewards ... join in and chat socialise and meet people... its not quite a fuck factory on demand ..

As CJ said if its boring then dont use it... no need to whinge in forums

I use it off and on when i feel like and met some wonderful people here and hope to meet a good few more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What?? Boring?? Never this site just gets better & better for me, met some lovely people, made a few friends & had some wonderful experiences. This site does take time to develop, but as was said earlier put the effort in & you will reap your rewards. Big up the Fab xxx

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By *iJane4funCouple
over a year ago

South, Wales

This site has allowed us to meet up with some fab friends that we would never have met up with otherwise. It has allowed us to experiment with bi fems, couples & some single men & we just have a ball. You only get out of it what you put into it - sme as life!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I could get bored with this site! Like most people I have met some fantastic friends on here & socialise with them without playing too. Great site and it is what you make it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your bored then why not try plenty of fish???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All posts considered it is what you make of it.

I think some people having gone away from the idea of the site.

Personally I am looking for fun with like minded adults who want to have fun in private and keep personal lives separate.

Some times certain people want to know your bloody life story before they meet!

I know all things considered, safety and well-being of individuals is important, and at the end of the day, none of us want to meet a psycho!

But at times I think, come on just go with it!

or am I expecting too much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what! boring you're having a laugh.

single men must realise there are loads of you chasing a lot fewer women .

lots of the men a married or playing away and when you say to them can you meet they cant .I (Buck) have been on this site for years and had loads of meets .

put the effort in !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what! boring you're having a laugh.

single men must realise there are loads of you chasing a lot fewer women .

lots of the men a married or playing away and when you say to them can you meet they cant .I (Buck) have been on this site for years and had loads of meets .

put the effort in !! "

Agreed it seems to be a waste of forum space with single males moanin about lack of meets. There are quite a few single fems etc but hardly any moan about lack of meets. I may be a part of a couple but if i wasnt id still make the effort and i got regular meets when i was single. Instead of sitting there wanking on chat or sending dick picks to women with "fancy a fuck" messages it would be an idea to actually chat and get to know them a bit. Ive never felt the need to show my dick on a pic, enough women on here have seen it anyway at parties lol! Seriously tho if your not getting meets then why not try hornymatches or plentyoffish or something?

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By *f3_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By *f3_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

There are too many people on here that are only interested in saying hi to each other in the chatroom and also talking about group socials! Single guys may seem like a pain to some but at least a lot of them are actually interested in what this site should be about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will notice that this site has forums and chat rooms for 'chatting' cams for viewing, club information. This site is free and we are all guests on it. We each have 'our own opinion' on the way it should or should not be run, but since we are all guests and diverse in our interests why not make allowances for that which frustrates you or bores you etc. I am aiming this at those that are choosing to have a right moan about the way they think this site should be run.

The site will evolve, improve, and people will come and go that's for certain. I enjoy this site, have fun from it, and have met some lovely people. May it continue to be a well rounded place to meet and have fun. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's like f**ebook can I poke you then vio ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you poke vi then cj i poke you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion is it's porthcawl like facebook whatsoever!! My family friends etc are on facebook, now I can't see me adding them on here to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Single guys may seem like a pain to some but at least a lot of them are actually interested in what this site should be about!"

I agree with that as im up for real meets for sure

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Facebook is fine if your bored with nothing interesting to say...then you can go on facebook and tell everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab Swingers is what you make of it.

What you put into it,is what you get out of it

Buboo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2bh facebook is boring same for bebo:

but here i never find it boring always something going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site will only evolve into a worthwhile swinging site where people actually meet instead of just looking at people's pictures or talking about crap in chartrooms when it becomes a pay site.

This site is great for trying to meet local people but it's way way behind certain pay sites for having people on it that actually want to meet. People will disagree with this of course because they don't like people saying anything negative about this site but we have been swinging off and on for over 10 years and our meets on other sites prove that this site has way too many dreamers as members. Start to charge and a lot of the dreamers and timewasters will go away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not members of any other site or facebook so its impossible to comment on the original question for us. But we do agree with a lot of the comments above. We do feel it is more of a social networking site with a very small percentage of swingers in there somewhere. It's finding them that's difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site will only evolve into a worthwhile swinging site where people actually meet instead of just looking at people's pictures or talking about crap in chartrooms when it becomes a pay site.

This site is great for trying to meet local people but it's way way behind certain pay sites for having people on it that actually want to meet. People will disagree with this of course because they don't like people saying anything negative about this site but we have been swinging off and on for over 10 years and our meets on other sites prove that this site has way too many dreamers as members. Start to charge and a lot of the dreamers and timewasters will go away "

Very well put I have to agree with every word. As much as i hate paying for things it would sort the men from the boys etc. Weed out the picture hunters and timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site as many others has it's drawbacks, I tend not to criticise them or the people involved with them, I tend to make suggestions for changes instead of compounding things by reinforcing the many negatives involved.

I am unaware of any part of this site recording meets, or indeed pulblishing this information, and therefore I cant imagine how anyone would be able to quantify the meets that actually take place because of it's existance. I can only humbly sugest that the "god like" members who profess to know the absolute definitions of swinging, and obviously never err share their divine wisdom with us meagre mortals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some sites have a validation but which shows you who's validated who. It's an easy way to show how busy the site is regarding actual meets.

The scene in south Wales may be a bit slow at the mo with the closure of wildpassions an miss adventures. Suppose it does go in waves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the site has become any different realy. It's just that you've got to know who's in your area that are worth your time. Some people have busy lives and don't often have time for meets. Others are very picky and don't give you a chance (especially if you're single). Others just don't intrest you.

Fabs has its ups and downs as people come an go, but that's no reason to ditch it. It could do with more localised listings as especially in N Wales with it's sparse population you can be looking at a lot of traveling.

Just don't regard it as your only source of making contact with people. Get out and socialise, and you may be surprised who swings. I found my best friends at a campsite 5 years ago. I'd never have met them on this site as they're not on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are right - the site is what you make it

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