FabSwingers.com forum: Is fab just for good looking people...looks over personality

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well here goes..I'm new to fab..

This is just an observation..but do looks still out weigh personality ?

Being a bit of a male minger

I've relied on my personality to attract woman in the past...I've been married twice and both were very pretty...whom liked me for my personality

I've messaged a number of woman on fab..and within 2 messages they ask for a pic..now if your handsome. Great but if your ugly...your finnished

I'm not complaining

or looking for pity

lol god loves a trier

. And I am deffo that..

I'd just like to hear your opinions..

Is there hope for us male mingers lol lol

Thanks

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Some of the most successful guys we know on fab aren't what you might class as " handsome", but they make an effort, are friendly, polite and fun to be around, and attend socials etc because they know that, if they get a chance to chat to people, their personality will shine through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we're shallow but we must like the look of someone if we're going to play with them also we must be able to click whilst chatting or it won't happen.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

The thing is on here some guy's put pics on of themselves that just do them no favours. Yes ok some people aren't photogenic bit when a face pic looks like a wanted poster then they aren't helping themselves. Some forget to smile even.

A well put message and as well a face pic can go a long way.

Saying that there had to be sexual attraction as bottom line we are all here for the bedroom shuffle after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all

Your advice is appreciated

Now I can take the balaclava off

Hope you all have a great day. Full of smiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ch3wy thinks he's a minger but he gets meets & of course I still like him, but Snow is right it's the way you present yourself that sees you through. There's a few successful guys on this forum & I wouldn't class any of them as lookers, sorry guys, but they are respectful, funny & able to communicate well. Not that I'm a looker mind, I'm also a bit of a minger but I get by in the bedroom dept

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pee msl

Well you certainly put a smile on my face

Glad to know there is hope for us mingers

I'd better get my thesaurus out and make sure my messages count ...

You've all been great...

Thank you

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

I'm a right ugly bugger it's all about just being genuine and friendly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks max

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By *arren e treggidenMan
over a year ago

pembroke dock wales

I'm an ugly twat but do ok just be honest and remember the more the ladies drink the better looking we get

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lmfao

Absolute classic

Well the drinks are deffo on me..if I go to the Swansea daytime social

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be worse!

You could be ginger like me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha

I am a ginger nutt too. Pmsl

Bloody hell.

I'm definately doomed

Thanks I am feeling a lot more comfortable...

As if

lol lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP it's like the lottery in here for us guys, some get lucky and some don't.

I'm a right Hansome bastard and I'm getting nothing after sending photos

I guess the more you try the higher your chance...

Probably hep if I took things a little more seriously too

Keep at it, good luck and may the force be with you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried to be polite well mannered & compliment them but never really get a reply a few that do ask for pictures and then block me hahaha must admit photos don't do me justice and have no problem when I'm out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks mate...

Well if your struggling...there must b no hope for me

But like you say...keep on trying

I'm sure your look will change

hey at least your good looking

. Jammy git

lol

Best of luck to you...and thanks for the heads up...

May the force b with you too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes prince

Once you send the pic it's a no show

Been there

That's y I have not got a profile pic...don't want to frighten all the female fabbers

lol lol

Good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hardest part is the start. No one knows you or anything to do about you. Doesn't matter how you look.

I'm not the best looking either yes I have relied on my personality. Do put a pic on profile not cock doesn't have to be face. Go to a social and meet get the veris and trust me as look as you are polite honest and treat everyone with respect you will do well...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Much appreciated...

I have asked to go to a social...and been added..I'm a bit apprehensive..as this is all new to me

But I am determined to go

It will b like the unvaling of Quasimodo

lol lol

I'm sorry now I posted this

as I'm going to b uncovered lol. It'll b like one of those old fair ground attractions lmao

No seriously..thanks...your advice is appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell out of the tree and hit every branch however my personality is splendid.

Please form an orderly queue!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol lol

Unfortunately

The tree collapsed and fell on top of me

lol lol. And they couldn't remove the branches

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sorry but I won't b able to reply to any more messages tonight

I'm in security. And in work at 4

It got that bad !!

My boss said. Well take the flyers of the gaurd dogs down

And put ones of you up instead

hahaha

Take care

And thanks. You've given me a boost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the saying goes there is always someone out there for everyone.

Good luck and happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about being old and ugly!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha

I am a ginger nutt too. Pmsl

Bloody hell.

I'm definately doomed

Thanks I am feeling a lot more comfortable...

As if

lol lol "

Nothing wrong with ginger there's a few of us here who have a preference X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone for great feedback

Feeling a lot more relaxed after your comments.

Being a newbie is a bit daunting ...and not being the best looker poses it's own challenges

There is someone for everyone..

But ezmerelda is taken

lol

Have a great night fabbers...hope you all have a night of smiles and laughter

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