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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi to all those who are swingers,how did you all get your partners into swinging with you,i want my girlfriend to do it but dont know how to ggo about asking her without her slapping me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there, well we had both wanted to try it so brought it up with each other and it was easy.

I don't think you can get her to do it, but you could try mentioning you had seen an article on it or something? To start the conversation.

One thing I would like to mention though, is if she doesn't seem interested I wouldn't push it any further, both people in a couple have to want to swing or it will ruin your relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry take my post back, I see you are already meeting people, I thought you had joined for advice.

How would she feel now, if she said yes I think its a brilliant idea, you both went to a club, and people who have met you come over to say hi, with her not knowing you have already done it?

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