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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could be opening myself up for some grief here But starting question if the nice non abusive way works? As seem to get little or no replies,

I also appreciate I'm no oil painting and accept couples and singles must get bombarded with messages, so how can I standout or is my profile ok?

Any advice greatly appreciated

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By *arahandmatCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Profile seems ok, though we don't like to read "don't bite unless asked" as we find it too cheesy. We also don't like to read "no timewaster" as if i were a timewaster we wouldn't read that and go... oh well they are not looking for me so I will move on and waste someone else's time.

Maybe add a little more about what you like and what you would like from a meet? Other than that it seems fine. Pics are ok, body shot

etc.

Sorry if that's not much help!

Sarah

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff


"Profile seems ok, though we don't like to read "don't bite unless asked" as we find it too cheesy. We also don't like to read "no timewaster" as if i were a timewaster we wouldn't read that and go... oh well they are not looking for me so I will move on and waste someone else's time.

Maybe add a little more about what you like and what you would like from a meet? Other than that it seems fine. Pics are ok, body shot

etc.

Sorry if that's not much help!

Sarah"
really good response guys!!--as for you op you seem a good guy so just keep being genuine as that's how you get to meet real matches!! Goodluck bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You joined 4 weeks ago , you can't accommodate yet have 2 verifications ! I'd had to think what :"doing well on fab " constitutes to you !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Sarah,

Thanks for your comments some changes noted and made, always find writing about yourself difficult.

Thanks again X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the same boat as playtime79, Any help/pointers would be greatly appreciated cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Sarah,

Thanks for your comments some changes noted and made, always find writing about yourself difficult.

Thanks again X "

Profile seems well written decent photos and verifactions.

Maybe attend some socials get yourself known.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in the same boat as playtime79, Any help/pointers would be greatly appreciated cheers "

Only one photo profile is problay a little wordy, maybe say what you can bring to the party maybe attend a social or two get known and paitence is key on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers TandC13, Will take it onboard, If I where to go to a social there is not a guarantee of being verified by others as that's subjective, I'm looking to just get my name out there at the mo of being a non pushy genuine single guy looking for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non pushy and genuine is a good start

The socials guess you'd have to chat and get to know people I'm sure there are socials which are run to get verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks again TandC13, I was expecting a load of grief as per usual with these type of posts but at least some people are out there to help and support, Cheers both and happy swinging to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers TandC13, Will take it onboard, If I where to go to a social there is not a guarantee of being verified by others as that's subjective, I'm looking to just get my name out there at the mo of being a non pushy genuine single guy looking for fun "

There are no guarantees on this site full stop but you do get out what you put in & several of the successful single guys here do tend to start at socials. Btw I'm not saying ALL successful single guys X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers Ch3wy n P3achy, Will have to attend a social (probably in the new year) And see how it goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am attending the social in Newport on Wednesday 18th Jan.

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By *arahandmatCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Much better profile!! Although not looking for a single male, if we were we would definitely send a message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry guys.. cant be doing half as bad as me.. lol, although I did get a very sexy lady interested the other day.. not heard anything since, devastated don't even cover it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Much better profile!! Although not looking for a single male, if we were we would definitely send a message!"

Thanks and if you ever change your mind regarding single males ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I jump in on this? I'm in the same boat as op. Iv tried all the approaches but no joy yet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I jump in on this? I'm in the same boat as op. Iv tried all the approaches but no joy yet!"

No worries join in fella, as us singletons need help as it would appear to be loads and some who aren't genuine and this ruins it for us who are.

As some of the comments say have you considered attending socials, I've booked on to one in Jan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah Iv booked to go to two one I had to cancel cos of work

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