FabSwingers.com forum: Being approached whilst shopping

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone ever been approached whilst shopping in their supermarket?

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By *astmeetswest77Couple
over a year ago

monmouth

Even if we were with the kids as long it were people who we consider friends and knew would keep the conversation vanilla. Just "how are you" ect. No problem.

But some random idiot who recognised us and thinks they can talk swinging in public. No thanks. Crucify them I say. Nail a bit of sense in to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well he walked up to me and said well hello curvy!! I went white....friends l have no problem with but not a random stranger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that very worrying , hence why i have never put a profile pic on mine , i have seen people out and i have just walked past in case they have family members about, you would think others would do the same

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By *una and marsCouple
over a year ago

Nantyglo

We've been out shopping etc in the past and seen people we know off here but won't go up to them

You never know who they are with and could leave them with embarrassing questions being asked

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I was out with my kids and my ex on a family day out, and a complete knob came up and asked if I were that "username" bloke

That took some explaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no but trek and i were at a carvery sunday and a man and a women on next table from here seen the man at a few parties, i just ate my meal lol

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By *wjadMan
over a year ago

Port talbot

I've had it happen to me 3 times and even had my arse squeezed whilst working security in a super market.

I don't think people understand that although there's nothing wrong with swinging a lot of people look down on it.

Saying that i can't count the amount of times i've been out and and i've seen fellow swingers, once when my train got cancelled and i had to use a replacement bus service i sat next to a women and she whipped her found out and went on fab thinking i was asleep.

It all depends on the person and whether or not they're and arsehole.

I've seen welshlass in a supermarket with her daughter and we looked at each other smiled and carried on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Smiling at someone by all means. But not walking up to them. Especially a female on her own? I thought the site was about discretion? My profile pic is down....no way will it go back up now. I dont care what people say

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find that very worrying , hence why i have never put a profile pic on mine , i have seen people out and i have just walked past in case they have family members about, you would think others would do the same

Its down mamma bear and l dont care how much crap l get from people on here. My pic wont go up again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smiling at someone by all means. But not walking up to them. Especially a female on her own? I thought the site was about discretion? My profile pic is down....no way will it go back up now. I dont care what people say"
Re:profile photos,,,never put one on never will.I have always been aware of the pit falls.It obviously takes some people longer for the penny to drop and wise up...Good for you.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

If they're friends I speak. If it's people that are acquaintances I might say hello if they're on their own or as a couple and know both or just a smile. Mostly I let them make the first move of a gesture to see how they want to play it. If it's nothing this purely fine we all have out lives outside of this.

If someone approached me like that he'd wish his sorry ass he hadn't that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's wrong to be honest if you see someone on here I think it's a bit of fun for some people but I don't think it should be made public as discretion is key on here especially if you don't know then if u wanted to say anything I think say something on here like send a message say I saw you today and you looked sexy etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im fairly easy to track down if one were so inclined but i like to keep things discreet and in boxes so id be a bit pissed off if someone came and interupted me buying toilet roll....

ive seen a few out and about and i just smile on the inside .. the same way you do when you know something others dont.

i wouldnt mind the ... oh was it you i saw in the car park today .. message on here... but dont drive over and say "hello im BBWBiggF@nny ... hows fab going"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they're friends I speak. If it's people that are acquaintances I might say hello if they're on their own or as a couple and know both or just a smile. Mostly I let them make the first move of a gesture to see how they want to play it. If it's nothing this purely fine we all have out lives outside of this.

If someone approached me like that he'd wish his sorry ass he hadn't that's for sure "

i see you every day at the Nunnery and you scare me mother superior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the exact reason I don't put pictures up,

But it's almost impossible for guys on here without them.

I have plenty to show, but not to all that fill this site.

Because we all know there are some cretins on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There certainly is some cretins on here one in particular actually phoned my brother and told him he'd seen me at a swingers social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on a job and someone blurted it out

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By *he Big Five OhhMan
over a year ago

bristol

If you were on your own and we had been chatting would you have minded ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think this is acceptable to be honest. Fair enough if you are friends with people and they keep the chat vanilla but a total stranger is a no no.

Kinky

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"If you were on your own and we had been chatting would you have minded ??"

I think this might be a different case. If you've been in contact for a while then you surely would know what the other looks likes. But still would approach with caution. A hello first see how the land lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you imagine if he had got it wrong and just walked up to some random, how embarrassing for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally unacceptable behaviour should look up the word discretion in the dictionary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is just my opinion if you don't want to be noticed then dont show your face unless its to someone you trust or a potential meet

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By *ountainboyMan
over a year ago

Gwent

"This is just my opinion if you don't want to be noticed then dont show your face unless its to someone you trust or a potential meet "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you were on your own and we had been chatting would you have minded ??"

Yes l dont want to be approached unless your a real life friend. I didnt know this person at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sentiments exactly Kaj that's why I'm a chat room mystery man,,,nothing to hide,,,just ultra discreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were on your own and we had been chatting would you have minded ??

Yes l dont want to be approached unless your a real life friend. I didnt know this person at all"
he must have seen you or how would he recognise your face and name

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I foolishly put a face picture on my profile. So he got it from that. I have learnt it wont happen again

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By *atty_loves_curvesMan
over a year ago

South Wales

If I ever bump into anyone I have met on here, then I find a glance is all that's needed in recognition. What happens on fab stays on fab, surely that is an unwritten rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I ever bump into anyone I have met on here, then I find a glance is all that's needed in recognition. What happens on fab stays on fab, surely that is an unwritten rule."

this also

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By *he Big Five OhhMan
over a year ago

bristol

I understand complety but its a difficult call..

I would have said hi if you had shared face pic and were alone..

I didnt approach a lady i recognise who was with a guy.. mentioned it in a msg and was told i could have said hi..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years lots of people from fab have been in the same places as me and usually its a nod and a smile.

Some though look like frightened rabbits in headlights .

but on occasion while walking in the main street a fem off here shouted across the street on a busy saturday morning "hey its buck from fab swingers!"

I was boiling over inside but ignored her and carried on walking.

Some people are just stupid or just do not care.

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By *tsallaroundMan
over a year ago

merthyr

I got recognised in merthyr. Never put face pics public. So when i was approached it threw me a bit. Turned out it waz a couple i had chatted to however they recognised me due to the fact i had as requested sent a face pic after a few messages. Funny though that they blocked me after i sent the pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is just my opinion if you don't want to be noticed then dont show your face unless its to someone you trust or a potential meet "

The thing is if people want to show their faces on here they should be able to. That said, it doesn't mean that people can just approach you as total stangers if they recognise you away from the site.

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I ever bump into anyone I have met on here, then I find a glance is all that's needed in recognition. What happens on fab stays on fab, surely that is an unwritten rule."

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could understand if you knew the person as a friend and maybe after a few meets but very scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had customers come in the shop and message me after saying scary stuff and wouldn't tell me who they were 1 guy had no pics on his profile so I didn't have a clue who or when he comes in the shop

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ive had customers come in the shop and message me after saying scary stuff and wouldn't tell me who they were 1 guy had no pics on his profile so I didn't have a clue who or when he comes in the shop"

Thats what happened in this case. I didnt know who he was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a few people when I'm out and about

Sometimes I just carry on other times I smile depends who it is and whether I feel it's appropriate or not

I'd hate someone coming up to me if I Wasn't friends with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've seen a few people when I'm out and about

Sometimes I just carry on other times I smile depends who it is and whether I feel it's appropriate or not

I'd hate someone coming up to me if I Wasn't friends with them "

I am not and wasnt friends with them. Which is what made it crèepy.

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By *corpiobiMan
over a year ago

PORTH

Totally unacceptable!

I know a few people on here who are local to me and I would never think of approaching them if I hadn't spoken to them on here and had their permission.

If I was sat next to them in a pub I might strike up a conversation and drop a hint but that's about all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only dare say hello to anyone from here in "normal life" if they were a) alone and as importantly b) I had met them for at least a social beforehand.

And I certainly wouldn't bring up the lifestyle in any way at all!

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By *ot your usualMan
over a year ago

Warmley

Yet another example of not people not respecting privacy...and still we have people say on here they won't speak to anyone without a face picture on their profile.

I once had it with my job, was on site at a coach company doing a service call and one of the drivers came into the office, looked at me and said loudly was I getting much sex on fabswingers. Not only embarrassing but cost me a service contract.

Will cheerfully supply a face picture to someone who asks but never again will I post one publicly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Wife and I shop locally every week and more often than not she is in a mini dress and stockings.

We would have no problem with very discreet, polite introductions and comments.

Anything less and you would be rebuffed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do you guys shop??? Not seen you in Asda or Waitrose ??

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By *eoffinthecityMan
over a year ago

Wigan

100% unacceptable.

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By *alleycplCouple
over a year ago

gobblers knob

we have in last few hours seen a well known lady from here,who we have in the past spent time with at a social,so of course we said hello,enquired after her well being and finished with a take care of yourself,if we hadnt have spent time with her we would never have spoke in a public place

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By *hyxxxMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I would suggest to anyone to not put up face photo's for public view. Or anything that people would know it's you. Like a photo of you in front of your car, in your lounge with photos/pictures on the walls behind you etc. Unless you don't mind being approached when out and about lol

All my face photo's or any that contain recognisable backgrounds I have in private or friends only and even then they are carefully cropt to show just what I feel is safe.

When someone does approach me when out and about it would only be friends or someone I have met at a social for instance. Naturally I want discretion and so far I have received only that but I also know that some people would also find it funny to shock or embarrass you. Such is the world we live in unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where do you guys shop??? Not seen you in Asda or Waitrose ??"

Possibly because we are not Caldicot

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By *oof FightersCouple
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Saw a couple we had met in my local once. They were at the bar we were sat with friends. They waved we waved back, that was that.

See a member from here every now and then at a shop. Never mention anything other than my usual "how's it going" as I would with nearly anyone that works on a checkout or wherever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you met the and because friends yeah chat but if you not met them big no no no

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

Hi Curvy male half here, u have the right to do or go about your daily life with out some creting acknowledge u let alone speaking, if that had happened to us I would of picked him up took him a few steps backward and had a quiet word in his ear then help him on his merry way , but to approach a woman on her own is so out of order wish I was there , would have had a little word lol, and reading all these threads Curvy u were the only one , unless I missed one that mentioned the word DISCRETION, xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely acknowledge anyone from fab. I normally totally ignore someone if I "spot" someone.

There's a few I'd smile at and give a nod of the head. And even fewer who I would make a point of chatting with.

But if a random dared approach me I would hang them out to dry

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By *atty_loves_curvesMan
over a year ago

South Wales

"I rarely acknowledge anyone from fab. I normally totally ignore someone if I "spot" someone.

There's a few I'd smile at and give a nod of the head. And even fewer who I would make a point of chatting with.

But if a random dared approach me I would hang them out to dry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Unfortunately discretion is not in some peoples understanding. I hope it wont happen again but then again who knows!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where do you guys shop??? Not seen you in Asda or Waitrose ??

Possibly because we are not Caldicot

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can you guys pm me please.

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By *arren e treggidenMan
over a year ago

pembroke dock wales

"Has anyone ever been approached whilst shopping in their supermarket?

I have to say it happened to me today and l cannot say it was a nice experience at all. It terrified me...So some may say about pictures on profiles and l have recently put my picture up because of all the negative comments l got, but is this the consequence of it? A woman being approached in a supermarket? Opinions please "
im pretty well known and meet people from all over i would never out anyone the most common place i see fellow fabbers is asdas on merther top always stop for brekki on way to brum i always smile some stop and say hi some just turn red espeshily the ones who cheet on there wives wich in my view is a no no i meet people outside of fab and fab never gets mentioned i have tea stops all over the uk with fabbers and kinksters and it works well your bound to meet people outside theres no problem unless you have done something wrong

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By *arren e treggidenMan
over a year ago

pembroke dock wales

"I foolishly put a face picture on my profile. So he got it from that. I have learnt it wont happen again "

ill be in singleton hospital canteen at 12 today if any of you see me there come and say hi you be supprised how many fabbers work there no fab talk though discreet is a must

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By *rometheousMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

"Has anyone ever been approached whilst shopping in their supermarket?

It is certainly unsettling for a woman to be approached by another person on Fab particularly if you do not know that person. Its also unsettling for men to be approached by people on the site you dont know, as happened to me a few years ago. I was with my daughter in Costa, the person used my then username. And spoke to me as if I knew them. It took a few terse remarks from me to get rid of them. I would never approach another fab member unless they initiated contact first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a I no for me.

I seen someone on here in the local supermarket but would never approach as feels a bit creepy as we don't know each other.

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

There was a thing a while back about tying a carrier bag on the front of your shopping trolley to spot fellow fabbers, not sure if it was just in Wales but I tried it with out the mrs knowing, she said y so many ppl smiling at me, wrong I know but was so funny, the reason I'm righting this is know spoke or approached her or us,DISCRETION ppl,she did beat the crap out of me when I told her out side asda lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is absolute proof as to how shifty and devious not only some people,but fab can be,,,,,,As for being recognised in public,well if you frequent clubs and socials knowing these tactless types do exist and mingle in the crowd ,,,,What goes around,,,,comes around......I for one am not at all surprised.

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

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By *tockingsadmirerMan
over a year ago

Newport

I seen a lady in the supermarket with her young child and recognised her, it didn't cross my mind to go over and talk to her instead when I seen her next online I mentioned it and she said "I wouldn't have minded if you just said "hello" but wouldn't want me to shout out her username over the bread isle lol

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

"This thread is absolute proof as to how shifty and devious not only some people,but fab can be,,,,,,As for being recognised in public,well if you frequent clubs and socials knowing these tactless types do exist and mingle in the crowd ,,,,What goes around,,,,comes around......I for one am not at all surprised.

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Sorry mate have to disagree with u there, because u go to clubs and socials some one is allowed to approach u in public I think not,some ppl treat this like Facebook, have a few beers get on here try fuck a bird, Twats, then they recognise some one they have seen , personally I think this site should be for cpls only,correct me if I'm wrong but isn't this a swingers site.

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By *he Big Five OhhMan
over a year ago

bristol

"There was a thing a while back about tying a carrier bag on the front of your shopping trolley to spot fellow fabbers, not sure if it was just in Wales but I tried it with out the mrs knowing, she said y so many ppl smiling at me, wrong I know but was so funny, the reason I'm righting this is know spoke or approached her or us,DISCRETION ppl,she did beat the crap out of me when I told her out side asda lol "

Didn't know that one

. Will defo be looking out now though .. hmm what do I need at Tesco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't know that one

. Will defo be looking out now though .. hmm what do I need at Tesco

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Tesco surely would be for your up market swingers,,Poundland would be more appropriate for fabbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry mate have to disagree with u there, because u go to clubs and socials some one is allowed to approach u in public I think not,some ppl treat this like Facebook, have a few beers get on here try fuck a bird, Twats, then they recognise some one they have seen , personally I think this site should be for cpls only,correct me if I'm wrong but isn't this a swingers site."
I merely pointed out that the tactless types who will irresponsibly approach someone in public do frequent the socials and clubs....so like it or not unfortunately it goes with the territory....Totally agree it is not a swingers site as such, hence the seedy elements it invites....So many so called 'grownups' here show show much immaturity and naivety which of course the unsavory types thrive upon.......I personally do not frequent clubs or the socials nor do I intend to.My profile plus friendly banter in the chat rooms does attract like minded females.

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

Sorry mate have to disagree with u there, because u go to clubs and socials some one is allowed to approach u in public I think not,some ppl treat this like Facebook, have a few beers get on here try fuck a bird, Twats, then they recognise some one they have seen , personally I think this site should be for cpls only,correct me if I'm wrong but isn't this a swingers site.I merely pointed out that the tactless types who will irresponsibly approach someone in public do frequent the socials and clubs....so like it or not unfortunately it goes with the territory....Totally agree it is not a swingers site as such, hence the seedy elements it invites....So many so called 'grownups' here show show much immaturity and naivety which of course the unsavory types thrive upon.......I personally do not frequent clubs or the socials nor do I intend to.My profile plus friendly banter in the chat rooms does attract like minded females."
I suppose u r right there, there r some unsavoury ppl on here and I have chatseen with them and do tend to put them in there place still Twats though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have seen a few that I've played with out and about but a discreet smile is all it needs unless you socialise with them off here

Discretion is king or queen lol x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry mate have to disagree with u there, because u go to clubs and socials some one is allowed to approach u in public I think not,some ppl treat this like Facebook, have a few beers get on here try fuck a bird, Twats, then they recognise some one they have seen , personally I think this site should be for cpls only,correct me if I'm wrong but isn't this a swingers site.I merely pointed out that the tactless types who will irresponsibly approach someone in public do frequent the socials and clubs....so like it or not unfortunately it goes with the territory....Totally agree it is not a swingers site as such, hence the seedy elements it invites....So many so called 'grownups' here show show much immaturity and naivety which of course the unsavory types thrive upon.......I personally do not frequent clubs or the socials nor do I intend to.My profile plus friendly banter in the chat rooms does attract like minded females. I suppose u r right there, there r some unsavoury ppl on here and I have chatseen with them and do tend to put them in there place still Twats though"
I agree wholeheartedly

though I tend not to go down the four letter word route.One of the reasons I would not attend a social for example is that a number of this type would be present and I'm sure their company would sooner rather than later bore the pants off me....wow...maybe that is their tactic ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a simple nod and smile is about the most could be done without drawing attention

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By *eafetyWoman
over a year ago

penarth

We were out wit the dog ... got into the car and the people in the car seemed to recognise us ... we joked on the way home about wouldn't it be funny if they were on fab ... turned out we had been chatting on here and was a random coincidence... didn't say anything till we were online again though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't know that one

. Will defo be looking out now though .. hmm what do I need at Tesco

Tesco surely would be for your up market swingers,,Poundland would be more appropriate for fabbers.

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oh my god poundland!!! I've recently discovered the joys of that shop!!!! 5 Crunchie bars for £1!!!!!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

It's comments by certain people in this thread that make life on this site so entertaining. Could you get your heads any further up your own arses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's comments by certain people in this thread that make life on this site so entertaining. Could you get your heads any further up your own arses!

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in what way?

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I used to bump into a local(ish) lady occasionally in town, no words were ever spoken. She caught my eye in town, I just smiled and winked (that's not a typo, I really mean winked

), she smiled back, knowingly and that was it. We did bump into each other quite often doing our own things, we'd always smile, nod or wink and carry on as normal....

But never a spoken word!

Strange but true.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"It's comments by certain people in this thread that make life on this site so entertaining. Could you get your heads any further up your own arses!

in what way? "

Not you Mav. Some of the comments above about socials and clubs. Tesco and poundland. No need for it!

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over a year ago

"It's comments by certain people in this thread that make life on this site so entertaining. Could you get your heads any further up your own arses!

in what way?

Not you Mav. Some of the comments above about socials and clubs. Tesco and poundland. No need for it!"
well done i thought the same

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over a year ago

Sorry I got excited when I saw "poundland" and didn't read the rest of the nonsense!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Sorry I got excited when I saw "poundland" and didn't read the rest of the nonsense!

Easily done when thinking of bargain chocolate

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over a year ago

"It's comments by certain people in this thread that make life on this site so entertaining. Could you get your heads any further up your own arses!

in what way?

Not you Mav. Some of the comments above about socials and clubs. Tesco and poundland. No need for it!"

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over a year ago

I wouldn't like to be approached by anybody who I don't regard a proper friend off here anywhere in public.

My vanilla life is one thing - my fab life is something totally different so unless you're included in my vanilla life stick to what most hold on this site and that's discretion.

A nod or hello is fine, but I ain't wanting to talk and compare notes of sex or meets when I'm out buying milk or such.

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over a year ago

"I wouldn't like to be approached by anybody who I don't regard a proper friend off here anywhere in public.

My vanilla life is one thing - my fab life is something totally different so unless you're included in my vanilla life stick to what most hold on this site and that's discretion.

A nod or hello is fine, but I ain't wanting to talk and compare notes of sex or meets when I'm out buying milk or such. "
fancy coming shopping

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By *olly green giantMan
over a year ago

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Eeek ??

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over a year ago

Ugh! - I've had it before on a previous account, foolishly put a face pic up on my profile (along with cock pics), then about 3 days later when I walked around town, had people whistling me and beeping car horns at me..

Part of the reason why I deleted my account and left it so long to rejoin..

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over a year ago

"Ugh! - I've had it before on a previous account, foolishly put a face pic up on my profile (along with cock pics), then about 3 days later when I walked around town, had people whistling me and beeping car horns at me..

Part of the reason why I deleted my account and left it so long to rejoin.. "
Exactly my point about the need for much discretion and less naivety..if it's of any interest to you I knew a guy who was actually blackmailed.Count yourself lucky therefore that it is now behind you and you have learned a valuable lesson....I hope others learn from your embarrassing experience.

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

"It's comments by certain people in this thread that make life on this site so entertaining. Could you get your heads any further up your own arses!

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Actualy u r probably right me included was just pointing out about the young lady who started this thread, some comments r a bit over the top, lol x

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not so much approached, but while working.....

Store was about to close, was really quiet, no one about.

2 guys walked down my aisle, one said to the other, she looks like trouble. As they went around the corner I heard, bet she would be good in an orgy!!

Dunno if it was just me being paranoid or if they were from here!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was approached in my local Asda car park by a guy we'd played with. I made out I didn't know him, so embarrassing as my 12 year old daughter was sat in the car, luckily she never heard

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over a year ago

"I was approached in my local Asda car park by a guy we'd played with. I made out I didn't know him, so embarrassing as my 12 year old daughter was sat in the car, luckily she never heard

Where is common sense and DISCRETION its awful!!

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over a year ago

Unfortunately common sense is a flower that doesn't grow in everyone's garden.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"It's comments by certain people in this thread that make life on this site so entertaining. Could you get your heads any further up your own arses!

Actualy u r probably right me included was just pointing out about the young lady who started this thread, some comments r a bit over the top, lol x"

The first part of you first comment I totally agreed with you. It was to couple part I didn't. Not all couples want to meet other couples some just want to bring a female or a male in as extra. Where else would they find that but on fab as there aren't a great deal that go to clubs and socials alone, well females anyway lol. Mostly though my comment was directed the post where someone shops or what the attend x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately common sense is a flower that doesn't grow in everyone's garden."

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Unfortunately common sense is a flower that doesn't grow in everyone's garden.

I'm gonna steal that saying for work

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over a year ago

"Unfortunately common sense is a flower that doesn't grow in everyone's garden."

Love it

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over a year ago

"Unfortunately common sense is a flower that doesn't grow in everyone's garden."
Yes indeed one of my favorite quotes,,,pretty sure it is not Oscar Wilde,,,most probably way back in time probably anonymous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common sense is so rare nowadays it should be classed as a superpower

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over a year ago

Part of the reason why I deleted my account and left it so long to rejoin.. Exactly my point about the need for much discretion and less naivety..if it's of any interest to you I knew a guy who was actually blackmailed.Count yourself lucky therefore that it is now behind you and you have learned a valuable lesson....I hope others learn from your embarrassing experience."

Hopefully! - it's a sad fact though that some like the attention, they feel wanted then and think they're some sort of "celeb".. It's the same with some forum posters.. They love the attention and it makes them feel special..

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