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"This is my input: I always check the pics on a profile before I read the profile text. It's the pics thar draw me in initially. So if there are no pics I don't even bother reading the profile text. If there are some pics and I find something attractive about them I will read the text. If there is no text or I don't like what is written I move on... There needs to be something about a profile that's draws me in.. Just my way of doing things. Other may manage their selection differently though " I would say this is pretty much how we search. | |||
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"This is my input: I always check the pics on a profile before I read the profile text. It's the pics thar draw me in initially. So if there are no pics I don't even bother reading the profile text. If there are some pics and I find something attractive about them I will read the text. If there is no text or I don't like what is written I move on... There needs to be something about a profile that's draws me in.. Just my way of doing things. Other may manage their selection differently though I would say this is pretty much how we search. " Me too | |||
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"This is my input: I always check the pics on a profile before I read the profile text. It's the pics thar draw me in initially. So if there are no pics I don't even bother reading the profile text. If there are some pics and I find something attractive about them I will read the text. If there is no text or I don't like what is written I move on... There needs to be something about a profile that's draws me in.. Just my way of doing things. Other may manage their selection differently though I would say this is pretty much how we search. Me too " Me three | |||
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"This is my input: I always check the pics on a profile before I read the profile text. It's the pics thar draw me in initially. So if there are no pics I don't even bother reading the profile text. If there are some pics and I find something attractive about them I will read the text. If there is no text or I don't like what is written I move on... There needs to be something about a profile that's draws me in.. Just my way of doing things. Other may manage their selection differently though I would say this is pretty much how we search. Me too Me three " me four! Have to say though that accounts for around 95% of the messages I receive! | |||
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"The way I see it is that it's a numbers game. I'm only guessing but would say for every women on here there must be 100 men. So of course women have all the power ( nothing wrong with that of course ) so asking for pics when they don't have one deleting unread messages etc. But what this means is that let's say a plain Jane slightly overweight girl can have her pick of all the best looking men with the best bodies, dicks etc and as the men are fighting for scraps they say yeah let's meet but soon realise that in the vanilla world the chubby checkout girl from Asda isn't someone he would look twice at so let's them down. So as you see on the status part it littered with women moaning they have been let down again giving us singles a bad name. Ladies stick to your levels. So as a single man you either have to go with women way below your level to meet people and lots do as you see all the laughable flirting on these forums or take your time and accept that to find someone who is your level is a nightmare. This is no where meant as a rant just my observations on here , at the end of the day why wouldn't women select the best looking men that they couldn't get in the vanilla world ,, let's face it me we would if the odds were in our favour but they are not. Personally I think all the read my profile make your message stand out stuff is rubbish it's all about attraction simple as Happy fabbing all" If you think good sex is a numbers game your doing it wrong! | |||
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"The way I see it is that it's a numbers game. I'm only guessing but would say for every women on here there must be 100 men. So of course women have all the power ( nothing wrong with that of course ) so asking for pics when they don't have one deleting unread messages etc. But what this means is that let's say a plain Jane slightly overweight girl can have her pick of all the best looking men with the best bodies, dicks etc and as the men are fighting for scraps they say yeah let's meet but soon realise that in the vanilla world the chubby checkout girl from Asda isn't someone he would look twice at so let's them down. So as you see on the status part it littered with women moaning they have been let down again giving us singles a bad name. Ladies stick to your levels. So as a single man you either have to go with women way below your level to meet people and lots do as you see all the laughable flirting on these forums or take your time and accept that to find someone who is your level is a nightmare. This is no where meant as a rant just my observations on here , at the end of the day why wouldn't women select the best looking men that they couldn't get in the vanilla world ,, let's face it me we would if the odds were in our favour but they are not. Personally I think all the read my profile make your message stand out stuff is rubbish it's all about attraction simple as Happy fabbing all" You're wrong as far as we are concerned . If you have an awesome attractive photo but don't suit us or look totally reliant on mere looks , it is going to put us off you | |||
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"The way I see it is that it's a numbers game. I'm only guessing but would say for every women on here there must be 100 men. So of course women have all the power ( nothing wrong with that of course ) so asking for pics when they don't have one deleting unread messages etc. But what this means is that let's say a plain Jane slightly overweight girl can have her pick of all the best looking men with the best bodies, dicks etc and as the men are fighting for scraps they say yeah let's meet but soon realise that in the vanilla world the chubby checkout girl from Asda isn't someone he would look twice at so let's them down. So as you see on the status part it littered with women moaning they have been let down again giving us singles a bad name. Ladies stick to your levels. So as a single man you either have to go with women way below your level to meet people and lots do as you see all the laughable flirting on these forums or take your time and accept that to find someone who is your level is a nightmare. This is no where meant as a rant just my observations on here , at the end of the day why wouldn't women select the best looking men that they couldn't get in the vanilla world ,, let's face it me we would if the odds were in our favour but they are not. Personally I think all the read my profile make your message stand out stuff is rubbish it's all about attraction simple as Happy fabbing all You're wrong as far as we are concerned . If you have an awesome attractive photo but don't suit us or look totally reliant on mere looks , it is going to put us off you " Of course I agree in respect as you are a couple and looking for something specific ,, but suppose that if you had 3 pertential men who all suit your needs exactly 100% ,, the best looking one wins of course nothing wrong with that ,,, so when women don't have specifics like you both and is just sex like 99.9% want I do feel this is how it works | |||
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"The way I see it is that it's a numbers game. I'm only guessing but would say for every women on here there must be 100 men. So of course women have all the power ( nothing wrong with that of course ) so asking for pics when they don't have one deleting unread messages etc. But what this means is that let's say a plain Jane slightly overweight girl can have her pick of all the best looking men with the best bodies, dicks etc and as the men are fighting for scraps they say yeah let's meet but soon realise that in the vanilla world the chubby checkout girl from Asda isn't someone he would look twice at so let's them down. So as you see on the status part it littered with women moaning they have been let down again giving us singles a bad name. Ladies stick to your levels. So as a single man you either have to go with women way below your level to meet people and lots do as you see all the laughable flirting on these forums or take your time and accept that to find someone who is your level is a nightmare. This is no where meant as a rant just my observations on here , at the end of the day why wouldn't women select the best looking men that they couldn't get in the vanilla world ,, let's face it me we would if the odds were in our favour but they are not. Personally I think all the read my profile make your message stand out stuff is rubbish it's all about attraction simple as Happy fabbing all You're wrong as far as we are concerned . If you have an awesome attractive photo but don't suit us or look totally reliant on mere looks , it is going to put us off you Of course I agree in respect as you are a couple and looking for something specific ,, but suppose that if you had 3 pertential men who all suit your needs exactly 100% ,, the best looking one wins of course nothing wrong with that ,,, so when women don't have specifics like you both and is just sex like 99.9% want I do feel this is how it works" No , we are a triple , not a couple and we'd meet all 3 chaps together for a social and possibly meet them all together x | |||
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"The way I see it is that it's a numbers game. I'm only guessing but would say for every women on here there must be 100 men. So of course women have all the power ( nothing wrong with that of course ) so asking for pics when they don't have one deleting unread messages etc. But what this means is that let's say a plain Jane slightly overweight girl can have her pick of all the best looking men with the best bodies, dicks etc and as the men are fighting for scraps they say yeah let's meet but soon realise that in the vanilla world the chubby checkout girl from Asda isn't someone he would look twice at so let's them down. So as you see on the status part it littered with women moaning they have been let down again giving us singles a bad name. Ladies stick to your levels. So as a single man you either have to go with women way below your level to meet people and lots do as you see all the laughable flirting on these forums or take your time and accept that to find someone who is your level is a nightmare. This is no where meant as a rant just my observations on here , at the end of the day why wouldn't women select the best looking men that they couldn't get in the vanilla world ,, let's face it me we would if the odds were in our favour but they are not. Personally I think all the read my profile make your message stand out stuff is rubbish it's all about attraction simple as Happy fabbing all You're wrong as far as we are concerned . If you have an awesome attractive photo but don't suit us or look totally reliant on mere looks , it is going to put us off you Of course I agree in respect as you are a couple and looking for something specific ,, but suppose that if you had 3 pertential men who all suit your needs exactly 100% ,, the best looking one wins of course nothing wrong with that ,,, so when women don't have specifics like you both and is just sex like 99.9% want I do feel this is how it works No , we are a triple , not a couple and we'd meet all 3 chaps together for a social and possibly meet them all together x" Lol ok but im pretty certain you know what I mean | |||
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"I think if a girl is good looking she can be what ever size dress. I think lots of guys are rude on here asking someone what size they are before meeting. I'm sure if a woman asked us how bigs your cock before meeting we would be offended " Really ??? Why wouldn't a man or a woman want to know who he or she was really meeting ,, strange comment that mate no offence | |||
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"This is my input: I always check the pics on a profile before I read the profile text. It's the pics thar draw me in initially. So if there are no pics I don't even bother reading the profile text. If there are some pics and I find something attractive about them I will read the text. If there is no text or I don't like what is written I move on... There needs to be something about a profile that's draws me in.. Just my way of doing things. Other may manage their selection differently though I would say this is pretty much how we search. Me too Me three " me foursome, I mean four | |||
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"I get it's the pc thing to say it's personality first of course but we all know it's physical attraction first so no worries. And of course due to the ratio on here the guys have to lower standards ( just look at the person above thing ) and the women can aim higher as they have the choice. Nothing wrong with this it's human nature and natural selection. But to deny this is a bit silly Just hope everyone enjoys themselves and has fun " | |||
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"I get it's the pc thing to say it's personality first of course but we all know it's physical attraction first so no worries. And of course due to the ratio on here the guys have to lower standards ( just look at the person above thing ) and the women can aim higher as they have the choice. Nothing wrong with this it's human nature and natural selection. But to deny this is a bit silly Just hope everyone enjoys themselves and has fun " It's an interesting opinion to have and certainly very revealing of your attitudes in general. I imagine you're not particularly bothered about winning any fab popularity contests... | |||
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"I get it's the pc thing to say it's personality first of course but we all know it's physical attraction first so no worries. And of course due to the ratio on here the guys have to lower standards ( just look at the person above thing ) and the women can aim higher as they have the choice. Nothing wrong with this it's human nature and natural selection. But to deny this is a bit silly Just hope everyone enjoys themselves and has fun It's an interesting opinion to have and certainly very revealing of your attitudes in general. I imagine you're not particularly bothered about winning any fab popularity contests..." Lol to be fair if everyone is honest it's everyone's attitude when it comes to being on a sex site. Also I wish I could be one of those people that can say things just to look good and get into someone's knickers like most on here but unfortunately I'm pretty honest and say things like they are , and not one to just settle for less Happy fabbing mate | |||
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"I get it's the pc thing to say it's personality first of course but we all know it's physical attraction first so no worries. And of course due to the ratio on here the guys have to lower standards ( just look at the person above thing ) and the women can aim higher as they have the Nothing wrong with this it's human nature and natural selection. But to deny this is a bit silly Just hope everyone enjoys themselves and has fun It's an interesting opinion to have and certainly very revealing of your attitudes in general. I imagine you're not particularly bothered about winning any fab popularity contests... Lol to be fair if everyone is honest it's everyone's attitude when it comes to being on a sex site. Also I wish I could be one of those people that can say things just to look good and get into someone's knickers like most on here but unfortunately I'm pretty honest and say things like they are , and not one to just settle for less Happy fabbing mate " parts I agree bud parts no but hey all opinions count or so they should but as no doubt you will soon find out there's a fab click n police that will very soon gang up to hit ya down in flames---or atleast try pms!!!---my only view is women say it's hard to sift through all the mail and I bet it is but my god some don't half let if go to they're heads that coz they get 100s messages that they're awesome----nooooooo if you gotta a pulse here that works--obviously lmao I wish all good hunting!!--enjoy the backlash bud it's always interesting how fast the gang attack | |||
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"Lol to be fair if everyone is honest it's everyone's attitude when it comes to being on a sex site. Also I wish I could be one of those people that can say things just to look good and get into someone's knickers like most on here but unfortunately I'm pretty honest and say things like they are , and not one to just settle for less Happy fabbing mate " But it's not everyone's opinion, just your opinion and the opinion of many here, I'm sure... To me, personality and something between the ears is far more sexy than simply relying on physical attraction. But that's my opinion and I freely admit I'm not everyone and it would be very boring if we were all the same... But apart from that, you seem pretty honest in setting out what you're looking for... | |||
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"Ive met IMSOREADY a few times at parties.He a very sexy,good looking guy who chatted and mingled with everyone. Its just a shame Im way out of his league " I'd shag him | |||
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"All the years I've been on here it's never been so bad with single man posting on a forum saying how bad it is to get a meet. I've given advice endless times and even had sarcastic remarks and rude messages back but I will say it once again.... 1. No thanks means NO THANKS 2. No reply means NO THANKS 3. polite messages almost always get a reply. 4. Social events are the best way to get known. 5. Attending a club is expensive but pays off in the long run. All of the above only work with patients and by being polite no matter what the answer is. Respect people and people will respect in return. Good luck CJ" | |||
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"Guys, you are being told quite clearly by a number of women and couples that what you have written on your profile is important. Why are you disagreeing with them/is? Lol Everyone is different and looking for different things! But in order to reply to someone, you need to know what the hell they are after?! Don't assume everyone wants a quick fuck. Don't assume that everyone wants someone good looking and don't assume that all women get asked the same questions! One of my biggest bug bears is men who think they know what type of messages I get... " Good morning To be fair to yourself it does seem to be true for yourself what yours saying as I looked at your veris and red there profile so yeah fair play for you this is correct. But I also do the same on lots of other women and would say that 95% back up what I'm saying mind, God I wanted you to be wrong lol All the best and happy fabbing | |||
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