FabSwingers.com forum: Name and Shame

By *uprinol OP Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

I am sure you have all been let down in the past by people who arrange to meet and fail to turn up. Or have typed may a message that has been read but just ignored. What are your views on naming and shaming???

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

"I am sure you have all been let down in the past by people who arrange to meet and fail to turn up. Or have typed may a message that has been read but just ignored. What are your views on naming and shaming???"
no point really in my humble opinion--just block and quickly foget lol this site seems like 90% let downs but the 10% genuine nice people make it worthwhile I guess!!

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By *uprinol OP Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

WOW 1 in 10 That says a lot for the people on this site. Not a good statistic

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

"WOW 1 in 10 That says a lot for the people on this site. Not a good statistic

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for you couples and fems I bet it's even less lol but hey it only takes a small few to make it worthwhile I guess

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

In 7 years on here we've never had a no-show. We take our time, go to socials, make friends, and go from there, seems to work for us.

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By *uttytrukerMan
over a year ago

newport

there are enough good ones on here to make it worth staying

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

And as for naming and shaming, that's a slippery slope.

What's to stop someone getting the hump if you turn them down, and naming you as a no-show? It's just one persons word against another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block button and move on, many genuine fabbers here, yes it is frustrating, you get used to that on these sites, the many out way the few !!

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By *elshman52Man
over a year ago

North Wales

Naming and shaming is very risky. I always feel we should have a way of giving negative feedback as well as positive. Too many negatives and you get banned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get abuse even when I do reply politely. And then THEY block me!!! That's what I call rude .

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

Not showing up to an arranged meet is rude and you can report them.

Not replying to a message, you don't know how many they get in a day and plenty of people who get abuse when they reply with a no. I'm pretty sure there's something in the fab guidelines that says it's not rude to ignore a message and you should take it as a no.

Some days if I replied to every single message I wouldn't have time to have a conversation with the people I am interested in.

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By *uprinol OP Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

I understand blocking. It can be done for many reasons. We put people on block so if we have spoken and we are not their cup of tea we do not inadvertently message them again. There are other reasons too but that is our prime reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am sure you have all been let down in the past by people who arrange to meet and fail to turn up. Or have typed may a message that has been read but just ignored. What are your views on naming and shaming???no point really in my humble opinion--just block and quickly foget lol this site seems like 90% let downs but the 10% genuine nice people make it worthwhile I guess!!

Where do you get these figures from, out of interest?? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few on the site which either don't match their profile or just down right weird would be good to give honest ratings bit like amazon ??

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By *OWN AND COUNTY SOCIALSMan
over a year ago

CARMARTHEN

"There are a few on the site which either don't match their profile or just down right weird would be good to give honest ratings bit like amazon ??

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Or perhaps Tripadvisor

but call it Fabadvisor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get abuse even when I do reply politely. And then THEY block me!!! That's what I call rude ."

I kind of get this, I actually appreciate a no thanks reply, but whilst I am scrolling, what's the point in seeing some bodies updates that I like, but KNOW they don't like me. Kind of irritating constantly seeing the forbidden fruit, for me 9/10 times I block, it's simply to streamline my updates so to speak

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

"I am sure you have all been let down in the past by people who arrange to meet and fail to turn up. Or have typed may a message that has been read but just ignored. What are your views on naming and shaming???no point really in my humble opinion--just block and quickly foget lol this site seems like 90% let downs but the 10% genuine nice people make it worthwhile I guess!!

Where do you get these figures from, out of interest?? Xx"
just from what I read and expirience here Hun but hey I guess the groups that go to socials fair better and rightly so

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By *nice44Man
over a year ago

swansea

Wish i had enough offers to get a no show lol

But naming and shaming is a slippery slope

Especially in this game

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