FabSwingers.com forum: rejection

By *alleycpl OP Couple
over a year ago

gobblers knob

why cant people accept rejection? we are never nasty just because we say " we are sorry but not for us"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some here just don't get the concept of swinging x

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By *alleycpl OP Couple
over a year ago

gobblers knob

"Some here just don't get the concept of swinging x"
baffles us

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By *rometheousMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

"why cant people accept rejection? we are never nasty just because we say " we are sorry but not for us""

Some Single mean (not me) feel its an affront to their sexual prowess at being rejected. And yes they haven't got a scooby doo what swinging is about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not only single men who get arsey. I have had quite a few couples get huffy because I have politely turned them down, as if they have some kind of entitlement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not only single men who get arsey. I have had quite a few couples get huffy because I have politely turned them down, as if they have some kind of entitlement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not only single men who get arsey. I have had quite a few couples get huffy because I have politely turned them down, as if they have some kind of entitlement

This, single women too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys, women, couples it doesn't matter, if they're the type to take things to heart there's no easy way to say no to them, some people just have a sense of entitlement & are astounded that you dared to say no. This is when we find the delete & block buttons come into their own, the delete says quite clearly we're not interested & the block prevents any future confusion. We have no problem being told or being deleted or blocked, they don't know us so how can it be personal?

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

"why cant people accept rejection? we are never nasty just because we say " we are sorry but not for us""

This is why most times I just delete a message from non interested parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No means Yes .... right????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not only single men who get arsey. I have had quite a few couples get huffy because I have politely turned them down, as if they have some kind of entitlement

I'm continually huffed about your let down

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Can honestly say I've never got abusive when turned down, we can't be everybody's cup of tea maybe constant rejection in vanilla world was good training lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ppl just got no respect thats why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been turned down once or twice and have had to turn down other people on occasion. People, this is normal !! Not everyone is attracted to everyone just because we have a shared interest in swinging. Weigh anchor , catch the tide and move on !

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over a year ago

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By *0sKidMan
over a year ago

Newport

"why cant people accept rejection? we are never nasty just because we say " we are sorry but not for us""

I would most definitely rather a polite no, than being blanked.. Not all guys are like that. The anomyity of the Internet brings out the nasty in some.

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