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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone had a relationship end because of swinging ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my last relationship before this but that was because he decided to stupidly cheat behind my back at the same time

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry about that sometimes people are unable to behave honourably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sorry. It was the best thing to happen to me. They say things happen for a reason I came back into swinging as a single a short while after we split up and whilst doing that I met the partner im with now, couldn't be happier

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good this restores my faith in humanity . Perhaps the thread should have read has anyone formed a lasting new relationship through swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good this restores my faith in humanity . Perhaps the thread should have read has anyone formed a lasting new relationship through swinging."

That could have gone both ways too. There are many who have got together here through swinging and are still together. Some even married. There are others who have met here who are no longer together.

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here and now love together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If the relationship breaks down after swinging then perhaps the foundation it was built on was shaky. A relationship where both are singing from the same hymn sheet will endure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A relationship where both are singing from the same hymn sheet will endure."

This applies to pretty much all relationships though really

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By *astmeetswest77Couple
over a year ago

monmouth

On the contrary. Ours was slipping away until we got back into swinging.

Because. Let's face it nobody goes through life without thinking " oh I wouldn't mind shagging him/her".

And then you're lucky enough to meet someone as honest às you.

As long as there's not a jealous bone in your body of course. Cos if there is then your fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sorry. It was the best thing to happen to me. They say things happen for a reason I came back into swinging as a single a short while after we split up and whilst doing that I met the partner im with now, couldn't be happier

Kinky "

The same for me X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One if my ex's used to be half a swinging married couple, he had a free pass to have sex with anyone as long as his wife knew.

Decided to start shagging the tour guide he was working away with all week and didn't tell the wife.

Friend of mine Is on here, used to be a swinging couple, he cheated on her, has met a couple for fun and has now split them up and moved in with the woman that was in the couple

Yeah I would say (in my inexperienced view) it doesn't bode well for couples a lot of the time but there are exceptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One if my ex's used to be half a swinging married couple, he had a free pass to have sex with anyone as long as his wife knew.

Decided to start shagging the tour guide he was working away with all week and didn't tell the wife.

Friend of mine Is on here, used to be a swinging couple, he cheated on her, has met a couple for fun and has now split them up and moved in with the woman that was in the couple

Yeah I would say (in my inexperienced view) it doesn't bode well for couples a lot of the time but there are exceptions "

I think the pitfalls are there in all walks of life & swinging isn't any different, I think we sometimes naively think that allowing a guy to fuck other women so long as they tell us means they won't stray, it's flawed thinking. If a person feels the need to mess about behind the others back they'll do it regardless of the swinging aspect, I'm not convinced it's a greater risk, I know in my case the marriage lasted a good 5 years longer because we did this, but in hindsight that was 5 further wasted years X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sorry. It was the best thing to happen to me. They say things happen for a reason I came back into swinging as a single a short while after we split up and whilst doing that I met the partner im with now, couldn't be happier

Kinky

The same for me X"

Glad to hear it x

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By *astmeetswest77Couple
over a year ago

monmouth


"One if my ex's used to be half a swinging married couple, he had a free pass to have sex with anyone as long as his wife knew.

Decided to start shagging the tour guide he was working away with all week and didn't tell the wife.

Friend of mine Is on here, used to be a swinging couple, he cheated on her, has met a couple for fun and has now split them up and moved in with the woman that was in the couple

Yeah I would say (in my inexperienced view) it doesn't bode well for couples a lot of the time but there are exceptions "

I guess it depends on how much you get into swinging.

For us it's a now again thing. When we get the urge we do it. And we take it home with us. Not just sexually but also in our day to day life. We've done something we both enjoyed, it was exciting and we're satisfied. Like a holiday. But If your on holiday every day, it just becomes life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's one of those things, if you have a 3sum it should never be with a friend.

It should be with someone you don't know that ideally lives 50 miles away so is definitely a one off lol

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By *astmeetswest77Couple
over a year ago

monmouth


"I guess it's one of those things, if you have a 3sum it should never be with a friend.

It should be with someone you don't know that ideally lives 50 miles away so is definitely a one off lol"

Not sure about the 50 miles. But our two rules are.

1. Don't play on your doorstep. (Even if they are on the site)

2. Never mix the swinging world with your vanilla world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it's one of those things, if you have a 3sum it should never be with a friend.

It should be with someone you don't know that ideally lives 50 miles away so is definitely a one off lol

Not sure about the 50 miles. But our two rules are.

1. Don't play on your doorstep. (Even if they are on the site)

2. Never mix the swinging world with your vanilla world"

Ok maybe a little extreme, but you know what I mean, remove all possibility of temptation and doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it's one of those things, if you have a 3sum it should never be with a friend.

It should be with someone you don't know that ideally lives 50 miles away so is definitely a one off lol"

Almost all our 3 sums & moresums have been with friends, 'removing temptation' lol, that's such a naive view, temptation exists everywhere we are, it's how we as individuals respond or interact that matters X

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

We meet off here got married last year

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By *ovis69 and green eyesMan
over a year ago

valleys

One ended because of swinging/cheating, better one started because of swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone had a relationship end because of swinging ? "

nope but ours started through swinging.

we dont think there is any going back to vanilla relationship.

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