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how is it so hard for young single guy to meet ppl on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi everone this is my 1st post on the forum, i was just wondering how its so hard for young guy or for any guys to meet ppl on here, ive been on here for over a year now and have only met 2 ppl off this site wud much appricate some help thnx alot guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i see you say youve met 2people but still got no veri,s id say get too all the socials make yourself known there so people can see your gen their all friendly get togethers and grt place too start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can alway's try citzian advice maybe they can help with your quest in finding new friend's...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok thanx fast and furious i will try and get myself to some of them wud be very nervous going on my own tho, and the ppl that i have met on here have removed thier profiles coz of other ppl and couple harrasin them thnx agian for the help to and if u got nemore help wud be very greatful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use punctuation?

Your information section looks like it's been written by a 15 year old. This can be an instant turn off for a lot of people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol curvy ive just read it and it does thnx for pointing that out ive change it and hope ur punctuation is all correct now lol and if uve got anymore advice wud love to hear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has taken me a long long time to be known on here. My only advice is to attend the socials, come in chat, and most of all BE POLITE and RESPECT everyone who is on here.

Time and time again I keep seeing fellas use one line messages like "hi would you like to meet up", and ffs whatever you do DONT put ya cock on as your profile pic ! women and men have seen willy's before lmao

If you are good enough to talk to people on here, and are not pushy, you will find many many good friends.

Oh! and dont forget, the friends you do make lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thats 1 thing i do always try to do is be polite and respectful, because i wudnt want to be treat with disrespect myself,

ok thanx for the advice cj looks like im gonna have to put my face out on the social scene,

thnx again guys and if nebody else has advice wud love to hear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some pics up front.

Don't have to be facial - just body shots. People like to see who (or what) there messaging!

We wouldn't message anyone without public profile pics or respond to them either.

Well written informative profile always helps.

As others have said, get out there and meet people. Get some new validations from social meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sheer number of single guys makes it difficult to stand out. Don't give up though. Not sure what the ratio is, but I know its not in our favour!! It's good to see on thread that most recommend attending a Social, I agree with that, it really does help - did for me anyway. Quite nerve wracking walking into a social on your own, its alright for couples going together. I walked in and headed straight to bar, this gives you something to do and also chance to have a look around. The thought of going is worse than attending a social alone, the organisers greet you to put you at ease and most people there appear approachable. Maybe when you see a social coming up put a post to escort a single female who also may be attending alone and feeling nervous too - not tried doing that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree there - dont give up !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a probabilty game really, it will take you 100's of contacts for anyone genuine to acknowledge you.

Respect age limits, no males, dont send cock shots. A face pic that you can keep private but send to them helps. Also write your profile and emails as if you were introducing yourself. But keep it shortish.

That said, I've been on here months and most people are window shoppers.

I changed my profile from a couple ( as we are not a couple now) to single in January and only now do I have two social meets lined up.

I think couples want a guy that can think with their brain and not the caveman part of the brain.

Its just patience and watch out for guys pretending to be females and couples :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As everyone has said, socials, socials, socials....the networking oportunitys are like no other. Yes it can be scary going alone, but try the chatroom before you go...say hi to everyone and mention the social...hopefully a conversation will ensue and you may even get click with one or two people and make a point of saying hi at the social

You wont regret going...who knows how many meets with occur from it, as well as party invites.

Just remember, be polite, friendly respectful ... A sense of humor helps too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you everybody for helping me out i will defo keep my eyes open for the next social and will be looking for someone to go with coz i am a shy person at first and if anybody wud like to go with me plz let me know

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"thank you everybody for helping me out i will defo keep my eyes open for the next social and will be looking for someone to go with coz i am a shy person at first and if anybody wud like to go with me plz let me know "

There's one in Cardiff on Saturday!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanx again guy for the help very much apprecated xx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

So, have ya put your name down?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

na i havent sry sthwalescouple im gonna be in swansea all day going to the footy then going out for a friends birthday so ill be abit d*unk today lol sry will defo come to next 1 in swansea or cardiff tho, hope i aint disapointed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are hundreds of single or supposedly single men on fabs.Give youre self a fighting chance and maybe display some profile pics....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok paulnic i will try and add sum pics on my profile as soon as i can and hope that will help thnx for the help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear Matt, as noted above about grammar/punctuations (My pet hate is capital I shown as i...) it is important as it shows some what an amount of intelligence if you can write in full sentences. Were not asking for much

Sry plz no txt spk itz vry anoying & a mega turn OFF

Take care and Good luck

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