FabSwingers.com forum: Assume fake or dickhead until proven otherwise

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It seems strange to me that on here the normal laws of meeting people seem to be the other way round. In normal life I like to believe that must people assume people are "OK" until that person proves themselves to be a member of the well known "weirdo" tribe. I know the reasons for it, and I understand some scepticism but most people on here seem to have taken it the whole other way.

I'd like to be treated an a genuine nice guy until I prove otherwise, and if that happens I'll say sorry now in advance. Rant over, happy fabbing people.

Living the dream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems strange to me that on here the normal laws of meeting people seem to be the other way round. In normal life I like to believe that must people assume people are "OK" until that person proves themselves to be a member of the well known "weirdo" tribe. I know the reasons for it, and I understand some scepticism but most people on here seem to have taken it the whole other way.

I'd like to be treated an a genuine nice guy until I prove otherwise, and if that happens I'll say sorry now in advance. Rant over, happy fabbing people.

Living the dream."

Why are you of this opinion?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree 1000% with this! Couldn't of said it better myself.

To me it seems that if you havnt been on her for years meeting the same people with loads of veris you won't get anywhere.

I'm polite and send face pictures with every message yet no reply (and I mean never, not once in the last 6 weeks at least).

Its starting to turn into a site where I just look at the pictures to have a wank now, is this the new swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree 1000% with this! Couldn't of said it better myself.

To me it seems that if you havnt been on her for years meeting the same people with loads of veris you won't get anywhere.

I'm polite and send face pictures with every message yet no reply (and I mean never, not once in the last 6 weeks at least).

Its starting to turn into a site where I just look at the pictures to have a wank now, is this the new swinging? "

your veris seem fine but its your age that puts a lot of people off.

most people start swinging in late 30's or 40's you are the age of most swingers kids and thats a big turn off fora lot of married cpls.

swinging is drawing a younger crowd in recent years so hang on in there and you'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know what people, it isn't even the fact that people might be new here or have no veri's.

I have met a lot of people off here over the years and these days seem to be harder than ever to meet and engage new friends.

I strongly believe that this is down to the shear number of single guys here.

Yes there are many time wasters and weirdos lol. But as a couple or single woman I know for a fact that every day they literally receive hundred of messages.

Probably makes it hard to get through them all and find the genuine people.

It's a regular struggle that I face myself every day, so wouldn't take it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you know what people, it isn't even the fact that people might be new here or have no veri's.

I have met a lot of people off here over the years and these days seem to be harder than ever to meet and engage new friends.

I strongly believe that this is down to the shear number of single guys here.

Yes there are many time wasters and weirdos lol. But as a couple or single woman I know for a fact that every day they literally receive hundred of messages.

Probably makes it hard to get through them all and find the genuine people.

It's a regular struggle that I face myself every day, so wouldn't take it personally "

You get a hundred messages every day?

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