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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why do some people who come on this site when you get chatting and exchange a few messages and send face pictures they realize they know you and instantly block you? Lol as if I'm gonna tell the whole world your on here? My life ain't that sad lol! Some people need to grow up and act like adults mun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some people may not feel comfortable with people they know in the "vanilla" world knowing they're on here so the easiest thing to do is to block

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well surely they must have thought about this before even signing up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some people may not feel comfortable with people they know in the "vanilla" world knowing they're on here so the easiest thing to do is to block "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well surely they must have thought about this before even signing up? "

Yes and obviously decided that if they came across someone they knew then they would block them. Saves any potential further awkwardness for either party I would have thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've come across loads that I know and have not once blocked them because of it, all I've said is we are both on the site for similar interests please respect each other's privacy! Job done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come across loads that I know and have not once blocked them because of it, all I've said is we are both on the site for similar interests please respect each other's privacy! Job done "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come across loads that I know and have not once blocked them because of it, all I've said is we are both on the site for similar interests please respect each other's privacy! Job done "

Unfortunately not everyone is discreet and respectful so I guess some would rather not take the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we saw someone know and did not fell ok about tell them we don't want to play and would only chat but if they hot it be rude not to become friends with benefits lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we saw someone know and did not fell ok about tell them we don't want to play and would only chat but if they hot it be rude not to become friends with benefits lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some people may not feel comfortable with people they know in the "vanilla" world knowing they're on here so the easiest thing to do is to block "

Surely this doesn't stop them knowing that either party is on the site though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some people may not feel comfortable with people they know in the "vanilla" world knowing they're on here so the easiest thing to do is to block

Surely this doesn't stop them knowing that either party is on the site though?"
exactly! they block when they know where you live because they live there . so the cats is already out of the bag.

do they think we would go around the streets with a banner saying " we are swingers and we know where other swingers live around here" dont be so daft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some people may not feel comfortable with people they know in the "vanilla" world knowing they're on here so the easiest thing to do is to block

Surely this doesn't stop them knowing that either party is on the site though?"

If you blocked them before they know it's you then it would. Even if they already knew it was you, it would stop them accessing your profile info and public photos as well as stopping them contacting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some people may not feel comfortable with people they know in the "vanilla" world knowing they're on here so the easiest thing to do is to block

Surely this doesn't stop them knowing that either party is on the site though?exactly! they block when they know where you live because they live there . so the cats is already out of the bag.

do they think we would go around the streets with a banner saying " we are swingers and we know where other swingers live around here" dont be so daft"

I don't think anyone inferred that you would and I personally couldn't give a fuck but I know that quite a few people especially single females have been the victims of peoples deliberate spiteful indiscretion i.e having photos off here plastered all over Facebook by someone they know so I can perfectly understand why peolpe would choose to block somebody they knew personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some people may not feel comfortable with people they know in the "vanilla" world knowing they're on here so the easiest thing to do is to block

Surely this doesn't stop them knowing that either party is on the site though?exactly! they block when they know where you live because they live there . so the cats is already out of the bag.

do they think we would go around the streets with a banner saying " we are swingers and we know where other swingers live around here" dont be so daft

I don't think anyone inferred that you would and I personally couldn't give a fuck but I know that quite a few people especially single females have been the victims of peoples deliberate spiteful indiscretion i.e having photos off here plastered all over Facebook by someone they know so I can perfectly understand why peolpe would choose to block somebody they knew personally "

I understand this but being on the site blocked or unblocked does not stop this stupid spitefull behavior .

If you block someone and say "i know you "its more likely they would create another profile and then steal pics to post on social media. Its best not to have pics of faces or tattoos and not say where you live then nobody can be sure its you.

IT is also possible to go to the police they have to behave in a professional manner and deal with your complaint.its illegal to stalk or slander a person as far as i understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just assume if a lady comes across a guys profile and thinks she may know him so blocks him immediately before there is any contact then it may save her the worry of any aggro/awkwardness. But yea I agree that if someone deliberately joins the site to get at someone in particular that they already know to be on the site then it is very difficult to prevent it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just assume if a lady comes across a guys profile and thinks she may know him so blocks him immediately before there is any contact then it may save her the worry of any aggro/awkwardness. But yea I agree that if someone deliberately joins the site to get at someone in particular that they already know to be on the site then it is very difficult to prevent it "

yes agree with that.

couples though seem to be more aware of karma .

They know they have to treat other couples the same as they want to be treated as far as discretion is concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men who come across a woman they know wouldnt say a thing to anyone but unfortunately theres a very small minority that would. I understand completely why a woman would block a guy, it can get awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just assume if a lady comes across a guys profile and thinks she may know him so blocks him immediately before there is any contact then it may save her the worry of any aggro/awkwardness. But yea I agree that if someone deliberately joins the site to get at someone in particular that they already know to be on the site then it is very difficult to prevent it "

well said hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men who come across a woman they know wouldnt say a thing to anyone but unfortunately theres a very small minority that would. I understand completely why a woman would block a guy, it can get awkward."

I've experienced this, had a guy who recognised me just knock on my front door to tell me, had another message me demanding I meet him behind his wife's back or he'll tell my work place & had another threaten to send all my pics to neighbors & family because I wouldn't have sex with him. I learnt the hard way & no longer trust many people x

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