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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dear reader

Jeeeezzzzzzz, little bit of a vent here.

Decided a few months ago rather than one offs I'd opt for finding a couple of seemingly decent people and have regular fun with them.

From the outset always slipped in to both (in more ways than one) it's just fun and no more.

Started having the most epic of fun - then both within days of one another turned full circle and asked would I be interested in more than just 'fun' and would I stop meeting the other person (bang goes my plan for a threesome) as I'm not looking for anything more at the moment I just froze like a rabbit in headlights only I waited for them to blink and then run into the bushes.

I can't help but feel somewhat a prick for scarpering but I was clear from the outset what I was looking for... now one has turned full on bunny boiler and been contacting those I've been verified by on here and other fab site to ask him to get them to talk after a blocked their number.

Is this a regular ocurance for those who seek regular fun with one (or more) person/s?

Are there loads here looking for love?

And who's gonna suck my willy to get me over this traumatic time?

PFC

(A bit of a prick)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of em! I had a guy ask if he could move in after one meet ... And another go all batshit crazy warning ppl on here not to meet me (I remember once recognising my mate in a forum post and saying get to the social to help him get verified) he messaged him if u see you there you prick you can look out ..loool. .

Love/lust does crazy things to you though !I went nanas on here back in the day because it hurt to see my exes new veries so i can talk lol ...

Anyway..More importantly who you gonna get to suck your dick to help you through these times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is in the air.. everywhere I look around lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The moral to this story is fabswingers is about swinging, not about relationships. Its about NSA fun with like minded people, falling into the pitfall of regular sex with one or two people can sometimes lead onto to your scenario. Tell the ladies to try different sites for dating, and continue on your merry way enjoying life having fun. Your can have long lasting friendships with the benefits but without the baggage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here you go pfc, I think this is totally relevant lol https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gcejLp72iCE

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The moral to this story is fabswingers is about swinging, not about relationships. Its about NSA fun with like minded people, falling into the pitfall of regular sex with one or two people can sometimes lead onto to your scenario. Tell the ladies to try different sites for dating, and continue on your merry way enjoying life having fun. Your can have long lasting friendships with the benefits but without the baggage."

Exactly, just a shame some don't see this.

I'd never date anybody off here - this is one life, vanilla is something else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Plenty of em! I had a guy ask if he could move in after one meet ... And another go all batshit crazy warning ppl on here not to meet me (I remember once recognising my mate in a forum post and saying get to the social to help him get verified) he messaged him if u see you there you prick you can look out ..loool. .

Love/lust does crazy things to you though !I went nanas on here back in the day because it hurt to see my exes new veries so i can talk lol ...

Anyway..More importantly who you gonna get to suck your dick to help you through these times "

Your luck sounds a bit like mine

I love bat shit crazy at times but not from sexual partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The moral to this story is fabswingers is about swinging, not about relationships. Its about NSA fun with like minded people, falling into the pitfall of regular sex with one or two people can sometimes lead onto to your scenario. Tell the ladies to try different sites for dating, and continue on your merry way enjoying life having fun. Your can have long lasting friendships with the benefits but without the baggage.

Exactly, just a shame some don't see this.

I'd never date anybody off here - this is one life, vanilla is something else. "

Very wise. The two are two separate things for me. Shame people can't respect that and cross boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The moral to this story is fabswingers is about swinging, not about relationships. Its about NSA fun with like minded people, falling into the pitfall of regular sex with one or two people can sometimes lead onto to your scenario. Tell the ladies to try different sites for dating, and continue on your merry way enjoying life having fun. Your can have long lasting friendships with the benefits but without the baggage.

Exactly, just a shame some don't see this.

I'd never date anybody off here - this is one life, vanilla is something else. "

It can work. I met Andy for a social we decided to go on a date hadn't even had sex at that point. End of the week I moved in and 3 years later still together and just got engaged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes tho if your just meeting up with the same person just for regular sex it can change pepole and feeling can start and yes this is a swingers site but sometimes you can't help falling for some people we are only human after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a tricky one cause since bein on fab a few situations have came about with feelings getting involved. Sometimes it jus can't be helped due to the type of person you are, I find people I've met I can have fun, banter and serious conversations with cause easy to get on with and be round which just let's people's guards down (not intentionally) same for yourself u probably don't just say hi wham bam thankyou mam and scram! It's the reason some gents on here get the meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The moral to this story is fabswingers is about swinging, not about relationships. Its about NSA fun with like minded people, falling into the pitfall of regular sex with one or two people can sometimes lead onto to your scenario. Tell the ladies to try different sites for dating, and continue on your merry way enjoying life having fun. Your can have long lasting friendships with the benefits but without the baggage."

Agree with this to an extent. Both myself and my partner were single swingers before getting together. We liked everything about each other and it wasn't just the sex so we developed into a proper relationship and came back as a swinger couple too. Not everyone is out for a relationship and yes this is a sex site but on times you do find relationships here. We are living proof of it and couldn't be happier

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The moral to this story is fabswingers is about swinging, not about relationships. Its about NSA fun with like minded people, falling into the pitfall of regular sex with one or two people can sometimes lead onto to your scenario. Tell the ladies to try different sites for dating, and continue on your merry way enjoying life having fun. Your can have long lasting friendships with the benefits but without the baggage.

Exactly, just a shame some don't see this.

I'd never date anybody off here - this is one life, vanilla is something else.

It can work. I met Andy for a social we decided to go on a date hadn't even had sex at that point. End of the week I moved in and 3 years later still together and just got engaged. "

It definitely can work ..Look at who just got married! Those two are the most in love two I've ever seen... He treats her like a queen..And met on here for one night of nsa. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The moral to this story is fabswingers is about swinging, not about relationships. Its about NSA fun with like minded people, falling into the pitfall of regular sex with one or two people can sometimes lead onto to your scenario. Tell the ladies to try different sites for dating, and continue on your merry way enjoying life having fun. Your can have long lasting friendships with the benefits but without the baggage."

Who mentioned anything about the two in question being females? Men can also be bunny boilers!

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

I fell for a FB earlier this year. He wanted nothing serious and got engaged shortly after. So conversations stopped and I haven't heard from him since!

It hurt a lot. One of the many reasons I meet younger guys, they don't want anything serious. Plus meet attached guys, they aren't looking for feelings etc

Shitty, but it works for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The moral to this story is fabswingers is about swinging, not about relationships. Its about NSA fun with like minded people, falling into the pitfall of regular sex with one or two people can sometimes lead onto to your scenario. Tell the ladies to try different sites for dating, and continue on your merry way enjoying life having fun. Your can have long lasting friendships with the benefits but without the baggage.

Exactly, just a shame some don't see this.

I'd never date anybody off here - this is one life, vanilla is something else.

It can work. I met Andy for a social we decided to go on a date hadn't even had sex at that point. End of the week I moved in and 3 years later still together and just got engaged.

It definitely can work ..Look at who just got married! Those two are the most in love two I've ever seen... He treats her like a queen..And met on here for one night of nsa. .. "

I know amazing fair play. If fab could do weddings. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the sex is shit hot you can get accidentally attached to the hot sex and then your fanny/dick gets all emotional and fools you into thinking it's love when it's really just amazing sex.

Shit hot sex comes at a price

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If the sex is shit hot you can get accidentally attached to the hot sex and then your fanny/dick gets all emotional and fools you into thinking it's love when it's really just amazing sex.

Shit hot sex comes at a price "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the sex is shit hot you can get accidentally attached to the hot sex and then your fanny/dick gets all emotional and fools you into thinking it's love when it's really just amazing sex.

Shit hot sex comes at a price "

What this lady said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the sex is shit hot you can get accidentally attached to the hot sex and then your fanny/dick gets all emotional and fools you into thinking it's love when it's really just amazing sex.

Shit hot sex comes at a price "

This is spot on unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was first on this site I regularly met a married bloke. Nice, unhurried fun, always respectful and casual. One day, he asked whether I would consider becoming his exclusive meet. To the detriment of meeting others! When I refused, he got a little possessive so I blocked him.

During pillow talk I'd told him far more than I realised and two things happened that shook me to the core:

- there is a house for sale two doors down from mine (my sister is my next door neighbor and the house for sale is next to hers). I came home from work and he had a having a viewing of the house and then knocked on my sister's door to ask about the street etc! When I came from work, he was chatting to my sister and she introduced me to him as "this is xxxx and he's thinking of buying xxxx house!"

- he knew that friends and I frequented a certain local pub regularly on the same evening each week and on two occasions he just happened to be there. On the second occasion he confronted me in the toilet! Nothing violent or anything, but enough to make me think 'Fatal Attraction'!

Fortunately, I have a best friend (female) who is the only one who knows about this side of my life who was out with me the second time and I told her about the incident. I'm still not sure what she said to him, but I've not been bothered since.

I felt the need to delete my old profile though and when I returned, ensured I searched for his profile and blocked it.

So much for NSA fun! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor pfc. Too good see bbes. Come over ill give u a grt time and never talk to u again x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Poor pfc. Too good see bbes. Come over ill give u a grt time and never talk to u again x"

Perfect! That's my style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor pfc. Too good see bbes. Come over ill give u a grt time and never talk to u again x

Perfect! That's my style "

deal haha!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the sex is shit hot you can get accidentally attached to the hot sex and then your fanny/dick gets all emotional and fools you into thinking it's love when it's really just amazing sex.

Shit hot sex comes at a price "

Exactly this!

I was on the site last year but after about 2 months of meeting a guy he left his fiancé and asked me to move in with him which I didn't want and made no comments to suggest anything like that. It got quite messy so glad I have a new profile and a fresh start now but it has made me wary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen people meet on here and become couples then left the site to focus on that , they are still very much together few years down the line and very happy. I think if u happen to meet someone on here u both need to think about the circumstances and try dating without the sex to see if it does work, but both need to be in agreement. If it's all one sided after being told it's only ever going to be sex nothing more then block and move on xx

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By *tephanMan
over a year ago

Newport

I met someone off here, and she ended up ringing everyone I knew, asking them anything and everything! She used to track me without me knowing, study my bank statements and inspect every bit of the bill for my mobile phone. Turned into a right bunny boiler lol. There are some nutters on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met someone off here, and she ended up ringing everyone I knew, asking them anything and everything! She used to track me without me knowing, study my bank statements and inspect every bit of the bill for my mobile phone. Turned into a right bunny boiler lol. There are some nutters on here "

Lmao that's your story is it. That's really interesting

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