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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any advice appreciated...

Best way to get meets on here. Only been on a short while, have tried putting meets up, updated status, sent winks, sent messages, but still no joy.

I understand women have lots of messages and have to filter out the ungenuine and timewasters, but what is the best way for a man to get a meet on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most will say get along to a social......daytime and singles ones require no veris.

You've only been here 3 weeks so maybe learn to be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice appreciated...

Best way to get meets on here. Only been on a short while, have tried putting meets up, updated status, sent winks, sent messages, but still no joy.

I understand women have lots of messages and have to filter out the ungenuine and timewasters, but what is the best way for a man to get a meet on here?"

mail me when you find the answer.. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no foolproof way to getting meets. The more successful guys on here make an effort to join in the social side.

Although , just cos guys go to socials don't make them any more desirable.

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By *ngelface88Man
over a year ago

cwmbran

I've been to a social, 95% men and 5% women that have already arranged to meet a guy there. And I've been to chams, the lads I made friends there said they wouldn't go again. Fucking std central, if you'll fuck anything then check it out. But as far as this, you could send a straight to the point message, or a polite hello, some want the one and others prefer the other. But if you pick wrong, you're out. You could be ugly as shit or pretty as brad Pitt, it doesn't matter. Some women like mediocre looking men anyway so they don't end up falling in love with a guy they'd arranged to meet for a bang. Be persistent but never pushy. You'll get a green tick in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know how you get a picture of someone from reading just the one piece of text, spot on lol X

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"I've been to a social, 95% men and 5% women that have already arranged to meet a guy there. And I've been to chams, the lads I made friends there said they wouldn't go again. Fucking std central, if you'll fuck anything then check it out. But as far as this, you could send a straight to the point message, or a polite hello, some want the one and others prefer the other. But if you pick wrong, you're out. You could be ugly as shit or pretty as brad Pitt, it doesn't matter. Some women like mediocre looking men anyway so they don't end up falling in love with a guy they'd arranged to meet for a bang. Be persistent but never pushy. You'll get a green tick in the end."

Well, aren't you a charmer?

(I couldn't find a "sarcasm" face, so that one will have to do)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow n steady wins the race

Don't be pushy. Don't get shitty when you don't get an answer or even a no thanks. Don't miss out on the socials they are almost essential.

Don't put a picture of your cock as your profile pic. Don't write war n peace on your profile, just the essentials.

Oh and be nice to everyone and you will find that many do reciprocate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been to a social, 95% men and 5% women that have already arranged to meet a guy there. And I've been to chams, the lads I made friends there said they wouldn't go again. Fucking std central, if you'll fuck anything then check it out. But as far as this, you could send a straight to the point message, or a polite hello, some want the one and others prefer the other. But if you pick wrong, you're out. You could be ugly as shit or pretty as brad Pitt, it doesn't matter. Some women like mediocre looking men anyway so they don't end up falling in love with a guy they'd arranged to meet for a bang. Be persistent but never pushy. You'll get a green tick in the end."

This is advice ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slow n steady wins the race

Don't be pushy. Don't get shitty when you don't get an answer or even a no thanks. Don't miss out on the socials they are almost essential.

Don't put a picture of your cock as your profile pic. Don't write war n peace on your profile, just the essentials.

Oh and be nice to everyone and you will find that many do reciprocate "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know how you get a picture of someone from reading just the one piece of text, spot on lol X"

Dont you just lol.

There We Are Then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waiting for user no longer on site lol

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By *ngelface88Man
over a year ago

cwmbran


"Waiting for user no longer on site lol"

Why would I do that? Because you don't agree with what I've seen?

I've met people on here that I didn't have to find at a social, they're not essential. The "love the world and kiss the trees" approach might work for you but that's pretty Vanilla to me, like porridge without jam. I'm here to fuck, if I want to make friends I'll add you on Facebook.

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"I've been to a social, 95% men and 5% women that have already arranged to meet a guy there. And I've been to chams, the lads I made friends there said they wouldn't go again. Fucking std central, if you'll fuck anything then check it out. But as far as this, you could send a straight to the point message, or a polite hello, some want the one and others prefer the other. But if you pick wrong, you're out. You could be ugly as shit or pretty as brad Pitt, it doesn't matter. Some women like mediocre looking men anyway so they don't end up falling in love with a guy they'd arranged to meet for a bang. Be persistent but never pushy. You'll get a green tick in the end."

I have to say that I take umbrage at your comment about chams being ok if "you'll fuck anything"

I go there and I certainly don't and won't "fuck anything"

You are giving out the wrong impression there. And as for STD central, it is down to the individual to look after their own sexual health. If you feel at risk about anyone/anything then don't go there.

The sexual health rule applies to other places you meet people for sex, not just clubs and fab.

Anyway, have fun and I hope you get to meet some lovely people.

All the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" You could be ugly as shit, it doesn't matter. Some women like mediocre looking men anyway "

Speaking from personal experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouch! :S

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By *ngelface88Man
over a year ago

cwmbran


"I've been to a social, 95% men and 5% women that have already arranged to meet a guy there. And I've been to chams, the lads I made friends there said they wouldn't go again. Fucking std central, if you'll fuck anything then check it out. But as far as this, you could send a straight to the point message, or a polite hello, some want the one and others prefer the other. But if you pick wrong, you're out. You could be ugly as shit or pretty as brad Pitt, it doesn't matter. Some women like mediocre looking men anyway so they don't end up falling in love with a guy they'd arranged to meet for a bang. Be persistent but never pushy. You'll get a green tick in the end.

I have to say that I take umbrage at your comment about chams being ok if "you'll fuck anything"

I go there and I certainly don't and won't "fuck anything"

You are giving out the wrong impression there. And as for STD central, it is down to the individual to look after their own sexual health. If you feel at risk about anyone/anything then don't go there.

The sexual health rule applies to other places you meet people for sex, not just clubs and fab.

Anyway, have fun and I hope you get to meet some lovely people.

All the best "

I met a woman there that point blank refused sex with a condom, said she liked the risk. And I saw her get freaky with multiple men, multiple men that then got freaky with multiple women, completely unsafe. So many folk there with no respect for themselves or others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been to a social, 95% men and 5% women that have already arranged to meet a guy there. And I've been to chams, the lads I made friends there said they wouldn't go again. Fucking std central, if you'll fuck anything then check it out. But as far as this, you could send a straight to the point message, or a polite hello, some want the one and others prefer the other. But if you pick wrong, you're out. You could be ugly as shit or pretty as brad Pitt, it doesn't matter. Some women like mediocre looking men anyway so they don't end up falling in love with a guy they'd arranged to meet for a bang. Be persistent but never pushy. You'll get a green tick in the end.

I have to say that I take umbrage at your comment about chams being ok if "you'll fuck anything"

I go there and I certainly don't and won't "fuck anything"

You are giving out the wrong impression there. And as for STD central, it is down to the individual to look after their own sexual health. If you feel at risk about anyone/anything then don't go there.

The sexual health rule applies to other places you meet people for sex, not just clubs and fab.

Anyway, have fun and I hope you get to meet some lovely people.

All the best

I met a woman there that point blank refused sex with a condom, said she liked the risk. And I saw her get freaky with multiple men, multiple men that then got freaky with multiple women, completely unsafe. So many folk there with no respect for themselves or others.

"

But that's not EVERYBODY!!! I too attend Chams and would rather go without than settle for just anyone who offers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all.

I have heard some good things about 'chams', but the club side of things is not really my cup of tea.

So patience is a virtue on here then?

Good job I got some...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all.

I have heard some good things about 'chams', but the club side of things is not really my cup of tea.

So patience is a virtue on here then?

Good job I got some..."

Keep an eye out for parties too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a question that comes up all the time .

imagine there was no internet.

Could you pull in a pub ,party,or anywhere that people meet?.

If you struggle there you'll struggle here.

If you are lucky enough to be one of the "beautiful people" having pics or going to socials will get you a meet with other beautiful people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is be yourself and just say hello to someone you like the look of. If they like the look of you too you will get a message back and just take it from there. Be patient and don't come across as desperate and you will be fine. It's worked for me so far mate. Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers dude. Be yourself, be nice, be patient, the way forward. Advice taken.

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town


"This is a question that comes up all the time .

imagine there was no internet.

Could you pull in a pub ,party,or anywhere that people meet?.

If you struggle there you'll struggle here.

If you are lucky enough to be one of the "beautiful people" having pics or going to socials will get you a meet with other beautiful people.

"

I'm far from beautiful...You don't have to be beautiful to get meets.Socials are the best way to get yourself noticed my friend try the Newport social next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a question that comes up all the time .

imagine there was no internet.

Could you pull in a pub ,party,or anywhere that people meet?.

If you struggle there you'll struggle here.

If you are lucky enough to be one of the "beautiful people" having pics or going to socials will get you a meet with other beautiful people.

I'm far from beautiful...You don't have to be beautiful to get meets.Socials are the best way to get yourself noticed my friend try the Newport social next week "

Did you read the whole comment?obviously not lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been to a social, 95% men and 5% women that have already arranged to meet a guy there. And I've been to chams, the lads I made friends there said they wouldn't go again. Fucking std central, if you'll fuck anything then check it out. But as far as this, you could send a straight to the point message, or a polite hello, some want the one and others prefer the other. But if you pick wrong, you're out. You could be ugly as shit or pretty as brad Pitt, it doesn't matter. Some women like mediocre looking men anyway so they don't end up falling in love with a guy they'd arranged to meet for a bang. Be persistent but never pushy. You'll get a green tick in the end.

I have to say that I take umbrage at your comment about chams being ok if "you'll fuck anything"

I go there and I certainly don't and won't "fuck anything"

You are giving out the wrong impression there. And as for STD central, it is down to the individual to look after their own sexual health. If you feel at risk about anyone/anything then don't go there.

The sexual health rule applies to other places you meet people for sex, not just clubs and fab.

Anyway, have fun and I hope you get to meet some lovely people.

All the best

I met a woman there that point blank refused sex with a condom, said she liked the risk. And I saw her get freaky with multiple men, multiple men that then got freaky with multiple women, completely unsafe. So many folk there with no respect for themselves or others.

But that's not EVERYBODY!!! I too attend Chams and would rather go without than settle for just anyone who offers."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been to a social, 95% men and 5% women that have already arranged to meet a guy there. And I've been to chams, the lads I made friends there said they wouldn't go again. Fucking std central, if you'll fuck anything then check it out. But as far as this, you could send a straight to the point message, or a polite hello, some want the one and others prefer the other. But if you pick wrong, you're out. You could be ugly as shit or pretty as brad Pitt, it doesn't matter. Some women like mediocre looking men anyway so they don't end up falling in love with a guy they'd arranged to meet for a bang. Be persistent but never pushy. You'll get a green tick in the end.

I have to say that I take umbrage at your comment about chams being ok if "you'll fuck anything"

I go there and I certainly don't and won't "fuck anything"

You are giving out the wrong impression there. And as for STD central, it is down to the individual to look after their own sexual health. If you feel at risk about anyone/anything then don't go there.

The sexual health rule applies to other places you meet people for sex, not just clubs and fab.

Anyway, have fun and I hope you get to meet some lovely people.

All the best

I met a woman there that point blank refused sex with a condom, said she liked the risk. And I saw her get freaky with multiple men, multiple men that then got freaky with multiple women, completely unsafe. So many folk there with no respect for themselves or others.

"

That was what I saw when I first went & often seen since, doesn't mean you have to engage in that or get intimate with those who do, you can still be in clubs but choose your playmates wisely & maintain those high standards, we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"I've been to a social, 95% men and 5% women that have already arranged to meet a guy there. And I've been to chams, the lads I made friends there said they wouldn't go again. Fucking std central, if you'll fuck anything then check it out. But as far as this, you could send a straight to the point message, or a polite hello, some want the one and others prefer the other. But if you pick wrong, you're out. You could be ugly as shit or pretty as brad Pitt, it doesn't matter. Some women like mediocre looking men anyway so they don't end up falling in love with a guy they'd arranged to meet for a bang. Be persistent but never pushy. You'll get a green tick in the end."

This is exactly how NOT to get a meet ....

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By *ngelface88Man
over a year ago

cwmbran


"The post described chams as std central for that to be true then a vast majority of members would have to be infected and practicing unprotected sex which from what we've seen is the exact opposite of chams. Will take your word for him not being the arse this thread has made him appear."

Mate, shut up. I couldn't care less what you do for a living or whether I see you.

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