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What to expect at chams

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By *FFB69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

I've been tempted to go for a while now but don't actually know what to expect. I'm pretty shy in person and probably wouldn't be up for playing my first time there. Can anyone give me any advice on what to expect/wear and when the best times to go are?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friday evenings.....the rest of the time its a gay sauna.

Sexy undies or a towel (the club will provide you with one).

Chams is a 'wet' club in that it offers a jacuzzi, sauna and steam room. Plenty of private lockable rooms, a dungeon, cinema, glory holes and much more. It can be daunting if attending as a single fem. No pressure to play and if guys can't take no for an answer report them to the staff. Oh and the staff are found in the bar area lol nice place to just socialise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friday evenings.....the rest of the time its a gay sauna.

Sexy undies or a towel (the club will provide you with one).

Chams is a 'wet' club in that it offers a jacuzzi, sauna and steam room. Plenty of private lockable rooms, a dungeon, cinema, glory holes and much more. It can be daunting if attending as a single fem. No pressure to play and if guys can't take no for an answer report them to the staff. Oh and the staff are found in the bar area lol nice place to just socialise."

Plus maybe look at going to the singles social as they normally arrange a trip there afterwards. It will give you a chance to meet people before hand x

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By *FFB69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"Friday evenings.....the rest of the time its a gay sauna.

Sexy undies or a towel (the club will provide you with one).

Chams is a 'wet' club in that it offers a jacuzzi, sauna and steam room. Plenty of private lockable rooms, a dungeon, cinema, glory holes and much more. It can be daunting if attending as a single fem. No pressure to play and if guys can't take no for an answer report them to the staff. Oh and the staff are found in the bar area lol nice place to just socialise."

Does it have to be underwear or a towel? I think this is what's stopping me from going. I'm not comfortable being undressed around a group of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things like chemises', babydolls etc?

Re: Licks post.....there isn't a single social til February now so the OP may not want to wait that long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty ov pussy

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By *FFB69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"Things like chemises', babydolls etc?

Re: Licks post.....there isn't a single social til February now so the OP may not want to wait that long."

I'm more of a vest and shorts kind of girl haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Things like chemises', babydolls etc?

Re: Licks post.....there isn't a single social til February now so the OP may not want to wait that long.

I'm more of a vest and shorts kind of girl haha. "

I'm sure whatever you feel comfortable in will suffice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty ov pussy"

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By *hick43Woman
over a year ago

outside cardiff

Thats wa puts me off

Goin and not knowing any1 and wearing something sexy which others may not think so

And not attending with any1 :/

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Things like chemises', babydolls etc?

Re: Licks post.....there isn't a single social til February now so the OP may not want to wait that long."

Oh I forgot about that. I have worn a baby doll and I have seen some women wearing sexy dresses x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats wa puts me off

Goin and not knowing any1 and wearing something sexy which others may not think so

And not attending with any1 :/

Xx "

Maybe you and the OP could meet up and go in together? Safety in numbers n all that lol

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By *hick43Woman
over a year ago

outside cardiff


"Thats wa puts me off

Goin and not knowing any1 and wearing something sexy which others may not think so

And not attending with any1 :/

Xx

Maybe you and the OP could meet up and go in together? Safety in

numbers n all that lol"

Is true tho social and if wanted to follow on to club

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went last week for my 1st time was a brilliant night. Go you'll enjoy it everybody is friendly

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By *he_DoormanMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I attended Chams for the first time on Friday, as everyone has said it's such a friendly place to go. I had a blast there. Spent most of my night socialising but did have a play too

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By *he tunnelsCouple
over a year ago

newport

The effort to go to the darleston venue Is well worth the trip in our opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#Cassie if you would like to meet up before hand and get to know me I will come along with you so it's not like you will feel alone. We can be friends in that respect. It will be my first time and I feel abit like you so it could be a good idea of your up for it? We go for a few drinks and then we will go in together. Message me if you like x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We might b going on the 23rd if u like to join us, mail us and we can chat and meet in the bar area, at least u know someone there then xx

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By *asinoLuckyMan
over a year ago

North cardiff area

Got a feeling I would love it but daunting to think about going as a single.

Need someone to show me the ropes/ explain the etiquette etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just give it a bash. It's never as scary as you first think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The effort to go to the darleston venue Is well worth the trip in our opinion "

I'd second this & find Darlaston much more single fem friendly, this is only my experience mind, but there is a better selection of action to be had in Darlaston X

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By *uttytrukerMan
over a year ago

swindon


"Friday evenings.....the rest of the time its a gay sauna.

Sexy undies or a towel (the club will provide you with one).

Chams is a 'wet' club in that it offers a jacuzzi, sauna and steam room. Plenty of private lockable rooms, a dungeon, cinema, glory holes and much more. It can be daunting if attending as a single fem. No pressure to play and if guys can't take no for an answer report them to the staff. Oh and the staff are found in the bar area lol nice place to just socialise.

Plus maybe look at going to the singles social as they normally arrange a trip there afterwards. It will give you a chance to meet people before hand x"

next one is febuary

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By *ittykatkatCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Can you just wear sexy clothes though? Xx

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By *iss_hotasfukWoman
over a year ago

Newport


"Friday evenings.....the rest of the time its a gay sauna.

Sexy undies or a towel (the club will provide you with one).

Chams is a 'wet' club in that it offers a jacuzzi, sauna and steam room. Plenty of private lockable rooms, a dungeon, cinema, glory holes and much more. It can be daunting if attending as a single fem. No pressure to play and if guys can't take no for an answer report them to the staff. Oh and the staff are found in the bar area lol nice place to just socialise.

Does it have to be underwear or a towel? I think this is what's stopping me from going. I'm not comfortable being undressed around a group of people "

Ladies can wear what they like, the guys have to wear shorts or a towel, but I often leave my dress on, unless I'm playing,

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By *iss_hotasfukWoman
over a year ago

Newport


"Thats wa puts me off

Goin and not knowing any1 and wearing something sexy which others may not think so

And not attending with any1 :/

Xx "

No one judges you, each to their own, wear what you feel sexy in, not what may be sexy to others,

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By *iss_hotasfukWoman
over a year ago

Newport


"The effort to go to the darleston venue Is well worth the trip in our opinion "

100% agree with you, I'm normally in darlaston on a Friday,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty ov pussy

"

Lol

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

I'm a member cassie maybe come down with me next time I'm going.I got a couple's membership plus there be no pressure to play and I'm very local to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wear whatever you feel comfortable in. I'd rather die than wear a towel, personally, so I always wear specific sexy clubwear. Lots of good sites/shops around.

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By *FFB69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"Just wear whatever you feel comfortable in. I'd rather die than wear a towel, personally, so I always wear specific sexy clubwear. Lots of good sites/shops around. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there good car parking there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there good car parking there?"

There's car parking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will actually find that because everyone is in underwear it does not feel uncomfortable or odd. You are all in the same boat and feels very relaxed. We have only been to wet clubs and actually feel apprehensive about clothed ones. Lol

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By *hick43Woman
over a year ago

outside cardiff


"Thats wa puts me off

Goin and not knowing any1 and wearing something sexy which others may not think so

And not attending with any1 :/

Xx

No one judges you, each to their own, wear what you feel sexy in,

not what may be sexy to others, "

I do wear babydolls only in private as ov yet :/ xx

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