FabSwingers.com forum: Tenby Cottage Swingers Party- 8 October

By *ardwood7 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Hi everyone

Here it is! Finally the date for the west wales swinging house party - Saturday 8 October. It's within 4 miles of Saundersfoot in a quiet rural location, lovely large cottage . Completely free, this is just like a house party- bring a bottle etc. No charge. Just for fun and to bring together west wales happiest people in one place! Say hi I'm interested here in the forum and also Pm me. More details to follow. Location will be given out only to those on the guest list. Thanks

Mark X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ads me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peachy is interested X

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By *ardwood7 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Thanks for all the PMs - gonna be fun! There's a log fire, 4 bedrooms, 3 bathrooms, large lounge - plenty for everyone! X

Ps keep replying in the forum too- keep bumping up! Xx

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By *rsometimes2Man
over a year ago

Swansea

I'd love an invite please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please can we cum?

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By *iJane4funCouple
over a year ago

South, Wales

just wish that we could have been free for that date as we live so close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please mate along as u still have room!

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By *ittykatkatCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Please may we come? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you add us please xx

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By *elsh and welsherCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Sounds good, we have a look at dates ..

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By *lfie80Man
over a year ago

salisbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We might be interested, depends on the ratio of couples, fems and men.

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

How far is the nearest hotel from the cottage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i attend please

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By *ardwood7 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

For those wondering about accommodation, there is a basic B and B about 10 mins walk away who give you your own key so come back anytime of night ??

Anyone interested pm me and I'll give you details!

Thanks

Mark

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By *ardwood7 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Can't believe the amount of interest from Pembroke, Tenby, Milford and Carmarthen! Didn't realise west wales was so full of naughty peeps! Let's make this a regular west wales party every month!

11 local couples confirmed, plus some further afield! Still room for couples.

Single guys thanks for your interest, let me just balance the couples first and then I can add one or two of you!

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

No mention of single ladies in the mix

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By *ardwood7 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Single ladies welcome, Couple of enquiries but no single ladies confirmed yet !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This single lady had interest

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By *unshine500Man
over a year ago

west wales

Count me in the party if there is room for a young single male going

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By *lfie80Man
over a year ago

salisbury

Can I add my name to the list of single guys please? Hope I make the cut ??

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By *p4it691000Man
over a year ago

pembroke

I would love to attend. Add me in please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 17/09/16 02:40:59]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can us 2 come pls guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We r a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 17/09/16 02:40:59]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would enjoy attending your event so please put us down on your list?

BTW : we might have filters on our profile at this time that restrict messaging as we're extremely busy but Pussy most definitely approves of shagging unattached males.

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By *artenderCouple
over a year ago

pembs

We would like to come to a party if you have them monthly but can't make this 1 .

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

"We would like to come to a party if you have them monthly but can't make this 1 .

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looks like there is enough interest for having more than just a one off party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a brilliant idea

I can't make it but hope it goes well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd love to be added please xx

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By *ardwood7 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I cannot PM some couples because you have filters in place so could you pm me please! I can then reply and confirm!!

I will get back to everyone I promise but my inbox is rammed so just working through it! Thanks for all your interest, nice!

M x

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By *riggs69Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Can I add my name to the single males list please

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

"I cannot PM some couples because you have filters in place so could you pm me please! I can then reply and confirm!!

I will get back to everyone I promise but my inbox is rammed so just working through it! Thanks for all your interest, nice!

M x"
good to see something like this happening down here and with a healthy interest in it

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By *ardwood7 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"I cannot PM some couples because you have filters in place so could you pm me please! I can then reply and confirm!!

I will get back to everyone I promise but my inbox is rammed so just working through it! Thanks for all your interest, nice!

M xgood to see something like this happening down here and with a healthy interest in it"

Calling

Martykoo

CnP

Welsh lass 74

Pussy n cream

I can't reply to you so message me please if still interested! Probably in next few days I shall be full and operating a reserve list so let me know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are interested if there's room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to come, are there spaces for single males? I will bring a few bottles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot PM some couples because you have filters in place so could you pm me please! I can then reply and confirm!!

I will get back to everyone I promise but my inbox is rammed so just working through it! Thanks for all your interest, nice!

M xgood to see something like this happening down here and with a healthy interest in it

Calling

Martykoo

CnP

Welsh lass 74

Pussy n cream

I can't reply to you so message me please if still interested! Probably in next few days I shall be full and operating a reserve list so let me know! "

Because of the earlier comment about lack of single females I thought I didn't make the list so I've made other arrangements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh we in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might well be interested if you can message me with a bit more detail that would be great!! Been looking for a way back into the scene with a bang and this might just be it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mailed u buddy, if there is still room for single male! Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to have come to the party as we're not too far away but unfortunately we have other arrangements

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By *unshine500Man
over a year ago

west wales

"I cannot PM some couples because you have filters in place so could you pm me please! I can then reply and confirm!!

I will get back to everyone I promise but my inbox is rammed so just working through it! Thanks for all your interest, nice!

M xgood to see something like this happening down here and with a healthy interest in it

Calling

Martykoo

CnP

Welsh lass 74

Pussy n cream

I can't reply to you so message me please if still interested! Probably in next few days I shall be full and operating a reserve list so let me know! "

I have sent you a pm aswell hope i make the cut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like no single makes wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its going to be only couples then I'm afraid I'm out too many women and not enough single guys. Although not received any info yet anyway! Hope it all goes with a bang xxx

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

"If its going to be only couples then I'm afraid I'm out too many women and not enough single guys. Although not received any info yet anyway! Hope it all goes with a bang xxx"
I am sure that you would be welcomed there and looking like the organiser is sensibly rationing the amount of guys who can attend in relation to the women and couples attending in what may well be a house full of people

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By *ardwood7 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Arrggh! Sorry for delay in replying Im on holiday cycling in Devon!

Anyway I will reply to all PMs soon. Just to confirm there will definitely be a few single guys for all the single women who have asked me that question! And single women are also definitely welcome- 3 have confirmed.

Basically this free party is open to all respectful friendly fun relaxed west wales people, within numbers limits of the house of course and M/F balance! If you have already Replied here please be patient I have got your message! Thanks

Mark X

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By *aughty-But-Nice69Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Put my name down please .would love to come along

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By *iJane4funCouple
over a year ago

South, Wales

Yes please!!!

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By *iss Kitty KatWoman
over a year ago

Neath

I'm interested please but will need to see if there's anywhere I can stay that's near. Could you msg me the details please so I can check. Thanks

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By *elshtonyMan
over a year ago

lampeter

hi would be very interested in coming to your party if you have any space left thanks tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ad me up please

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By *pl4u300Couple
over a year ago

haverfordwet

Hi please can you put our names down as its so close to us

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By *ardwood7 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Hi please can you put our names down as its so close to us

Cpl4u - I can't message you as you don't accept messages from single guy profiles! Please can you message me! Thanks

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By *ardwood7 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Sorry my mistake I meant Bijane4u- I can't message you please message me thanks!

M x

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By *ovis69 and green eyesMan
over a year ago

valleys

I think the misses put our names down for this

well I'm hoping she has lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't make this one, but please make this a regular thing.????

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By *e love itCouple
over a year ago

Happy town

We would love to join you if possible xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with it , we'd be interested in future possibilities please

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By *ardwood7 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Ok we are full for Saturday but couples - PM me if you want to be on reserve list as someone might drop out! Single lads we already have reserves sorry guys! Next time! Single ladies still places.

So everyone should have an invite by now and know the details and location- although I admit my admin is bad when I'm busy at work!! So if I've missed you PM me!

Look forward to the first great night of many regular parties hopefully!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just had a message saying someone anonymously posted the address.

???how can you do it on the site?

why didn't he say this in the forum and put a message like:

can all those attending please contact me by message.

we smell a big fat rat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just had a message saying someone anonymously posted the address.

???how can you do it on the site?

why didn't he say this in the forum and put a message like:

can all those attending please contact me by message.

we smell a big fat rat!

What do you mean posted anonymously, posted and then went UNLOS?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one very elaborate scam methinks

loads of people have booked sitters and organised the weekend .

now its meet in a pub only .

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By *ardwood7 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

There is no scam. Someone has passed on the address to people who shouldn't have it. I have to protect everyone. I have contacted all affected people. Genuine people PM me , I cannot say more publicly but I am honestly doing my best in a crazy situation. There are crazy people who want to ruin normal people's fun. Why would I do this? I wasn't charging? It was all set up and one person screwed it. There is a solution but it's PM only. I am totally genuine. Anyone genuine will know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one very elaborate scam methinks

loads of people have booked sitters and organised the weekend .

now its meet in a pub only ."

I was invited by message then never heard anything after that glad I didn't now it's a long way to go for a pub meet !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds awesome, shame Mrs is in butlins this weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is no scam. Someone has passed on the address to people who shouldn't have it. I have to protect everyone. I have contacted all affected people. Genuine people PM me , I cannot say more publicly but I am honestly doing my best in a crazy situation. There are crazy people who want to ruin normal people's fun. Why would I do this? I wasn't charging? It was all set up and one person screwed it. There is a solution but it's PM only. I am totally genuine. Anyone genuine will know. "

why did you not immediately post on the forum that it was cancelled?

you said it was posted anonymously. where? as its not possible.

so you are saying you cancelled everyones weekend because somebody gave the address to another person.??

20 people could have also potentially done that! so you are very naive.

we book a sitter for our dog and booked the weekend off work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why will it be ruined ? if someone turned up uninvited then fuck off would be our answer .

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By *ardwood7 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

True! I'm just being careful, for everyone!

So, to be clear, old venue cancelled but , there's a new venue, and those who originally booked to sleep over can still. So anyone who has been confirmed by me is still welcome.

We're starting with social first so only face to face verified genuine people get to find the new venue Sorry about all this but honestly you would never believe what crap I have put up with. Seriously it's enough to never bother again. But Saturday is on. Just new venue. Confirmed guests will get PM of me for starting social details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True! I'm just being careful, for everyone!

So, to be clear, old venue cancelled but , there's a new venue, and those who originally booked to sleep over can still. So anyone who has been confirmed by me is still welcome.

you own the cottage and people according to you now know where it is now. so nothing to loose.

You did not mention that there would be a place to stay over and what about the people who go to a party and fancy a drink? if a couple come to the pub only one can drink.

We hold parties and in all the years 100's of people know where we live. you dont even live there its a holiday home owned by you what do you think will happen if its left at the original address?

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

I asked if there was anywhere to stay over and was told that there was a caravan park near by. So assumed there was no one staying over.

Good job I changed my mind about attending as I would have wasted money on the over night accommodation!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's bull shit, be very surprised if it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give the OP/Organiser some respect please, try to remember what he is seeking to achieve?

I have solid experience of running "Adult Events" so when this was first posted I contacted the OP to offer some balanced advice designed to help his security and that of his guests. Have some of you forgotten what happened at this years "Swingfields" already or is it that some of you simply don't care? I've seen many "events" where the stupidity of idiots have ruined the amazing enthusiasm of the VERY FEW willing to offer themselves up as a target to others and I offered the OP advice to try and prevent any "outing" from occurring but, in that his plans were already made and posted, not in time to prevent whatever has happened. I have been in direct communication with the OP and happy to believe that he is genuine.

Let's just remember what was being planned here shall we? Not just a "one off" but opportunities for regulars meets at a PRIVATE VENUE in an area with NO other choices?

I can also 101% confirm that he was looking out for his guests security given that, as he had mistakenly assumed we were happy to help but perhaps not take part, he hadn't given even us exact details of the venue . . that went ONLY to the select few given an invite . . so the "outing" will have come from one of them!

Given the time remaining it might not be possible to fully recover but, if it's postponed, then remember what the OP wanted to achieve and cut him some slack?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give the OP/Organiser some respect please, try to remember what he is seeking to achieve?

Let's just remember what was being planned here shall we? Not just a "one off" but opportunities for regulars meets at a PRIVATE VENUE in an area with NO other choices?

Given the time remaining it might not be possible to fully recover but, if it's postponed, then remember what the OP wanted to achieve and cut him some slack?

Well said XXX

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By *pl4u300Couple
over a year ago

haverfordwet

We've been to a few house parties and if your name is not on the door list then it's obvious you haven't been invited. Don't think the social in a pub is a good idea as a lot of people would have to drive far and there would be a lot of vanilla people there so you couldn't actually talk about swinging or what you into. Pity about the house party as its local to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he also told us that the address was anoynymously posted it cannot be anoymously posted.

And if he "plans" to have more events more and more people will get to know where it is so no way could it be kept secret 100's now know where we live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont forget people have planned this for a long time ,arranged sitter and time off work.

what security do people need? .do you mean people from pembroke? .

In all the years of holding parties we have never encountered anyone who has caused us problems ,they have the same to loose as us!

what security do you need to turn up at a private house in the dark for a birthday party?

Itis Now its a screening event in a pub and people will get chosen to go on to a party somewhere??? SO WHAT ABOUT THOSE NOT CHOSEN ?

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By *ovis69 and green eyesMan
over a year ago

valleys

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By *ovis69 and green eyesMan
over a year ago

valleys

Won't be going, not interested in playing a lottery thanks.

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By *RH and HRNCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Disappointed is not the word . X we only just found out . X and it seems "genuine people" knew last night . X clearly we weren't genuine enough as the message we had was only sent 3 hours ago telling us it was all off . X booked baby sitter . . Made sure our boy was ok . X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True! I'm just being careful, for everyone!

We dont want you to be careful for us we were just looking forward to a house in tenby to party now we are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give the OP/Organiser some respect please, try to remember what he is seeking to achieve?

Let's just remember what was being planned here shall we? Not just a "one off" but opportunities for regulars meets at a PRIVATE VENUE in an area with NO other choices?

Given the time remaining it might not be possible to fully recover but, if it's postponed, then remember what the OP wanted to achieve and cut him some slack?

almost every other comment youve made on here is rubishing other events or people.

How much are you earning from this?

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