FabSwingers.com forum: horror stories

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

you get to read so much on here about peoples bad experiences and the like that im slightly confused as to why ive still not been able to arrange even a social meet.? i get replies to my messages that make me think a meet is in the offing but never get a second reply!! are there really that many 6ft 3 handsome athletic geniune blokes on here??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if ammanford is near swansea or carmarthen look in forum and put name down for one of the daytime socials that way you can meet other ppl and take it from there best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i find it hard to attend socials due to work commitments. although i like the idea of meeting like minded people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i find it hard to attend socials due to work commitments. although i like the idea of meeting like minded people."

I find that too. They always tend to be in places far from me, and on days I'm working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are loads. And they all stand out from the crowd. You don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i understand my profile isnt the most exciting. its not that though.. its when you begin a conversation with someone then they just stop replying usually after you send pics.. am i talking to fake profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i understand my profile isnt the most exciting. its not that though.. its when you begin a conversation with someone then they just stop replying usually after you send pics.. am i talking to fake profiles? "

Could be. Or they're just not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be. Or they're just not interested."

Perhaps setting up a profile picture would help. Seeing a blank face doesn't make me want to click on your profile. Look at Ava's profile picture for instance. That's definately click worthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you cant find time around work commitments to attend at least one of the many socials available what makes anyone think you can find time for a meet?

Or maybe it is just the pic you send

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you genuinely are 6ft 3, athletic and handsome then why on earth is your profile pic a black fucking shadow?? If you've got it....flaunt it that's what I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps hes just giving all the other fit young guys on here a chance to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps hes just giving all the other fit young guys on here a chance to get a meet

Appericate it desmond321

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's okay man apparently it's a numbers game. Just have to keep at it seems the longer you here or the more you put in the more you get out.

I'm struggling too as I not a big fan of the socials myself, work gets in the way of the daytime meets and the singles meet that comes around are often intimidating especially when attending by myself and not a big fan of the Dutch courage to help me along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's okay man apparently it's a numbers game. Just have to keep at it seems the longer you here or the more you put in the more you get out.

How are the single meets often intimidating??

And all attendees are single when they attended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry. But I find that hard to belive you find the socials hard to do.

I went to 3 last week.

In fact I met nearly all these fantastic ladies in this thread!

You can't expect everyone to come to you.

YOU need to get out. Get your face seen!

I'm a very shy person and I managed it.

This site does work!

But you need to put the effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sorry. But I find that hard to belive you find the socials hard to do.

I went to 3 last week.

In fact I met nearly all these fantastic ladies in this thread!

You can't expect everyone to come to you.

YOU need to get out. Get your face seen!

I'm a very shy person and I managed it.

This site does work!

But you need to put the effort in. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's okay man apparently it's a numbers game. Just have to keep at it seems the longer you here or the more you put in the more you get out."

Much like life in general. You only get what you put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sorry. But I find that hard to belive you find the socials hard to do.

I went to 3 last week.

In fact I met nearly all these fantastic ladies in this thread!

You can't expect everyone to come to you.

YOU need to get out. Get your face seen!

I'm a very shy person and I managed it.

This site does work!

But you need to put the effort in. "

Totally agree I attended the neath one as it was advertised well in advance. More than enough time to book shift off or swap shifts. It's the best way for people to actually see and meet u for who u are.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

You say in your profile you want to get into the social side of swinging yet you've just slated the socials lol

Put some more effort into you profile. Maybe the pics you are sending is what the problem is. If your face pics look like wanted adds or not flattering to you maybe that's what is putting people off. You have to do the Peacock thing! Look your best. It might not be a dating site but you still have to look your best and stand out from the crowd.

Don't send cock pics either unless they ask.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

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"I'm sorry. But I find that hard to belive you find the socials hard to do.

I went to 3 last week.

In fact I met nearly all these fantastic ladies in this thread!

You can't expect everyone to come to you.

YOU need to get out. Get your face seen!

I'm a very shy person and I managed it.

This site does work!

But you need to put the effort in. "

This guy has hit the nail on the head!

I don't know how some of you poor guys manage to function in normal society with your crushing shyness (now, where's that sarcasm smilie?).

I realise that a lot of you "single" guys find it hard to get away from your wives/girlfriends, but make the effort mun.

Swinging is a numbers game for guys, you need to meet lots of people, make friends, get social veries, and then people might just take you seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you get to read so much on here about peoples bad experiences and the like that im slightly confused as to why ive still not been able to arrange even a social meet.? i get replies to my messages that make me think a meet is in the offing but never get a second reply!! are there really that many 6ft 3 handsome athletic geniune blokes on here??

How would any one know you have no public pictures

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