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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One thing i dont get about this site is. When women say no pic, no chat otherwise you will be deleted and blocked.

So you send a decent message and a face pic. But they delete the message and block you anyway without even looking at your profile, or dont even look at the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really make it a point of avoiding these ones! Best meets I've had have been with people I can chat and have a good giggle with first and no pressure on a face pic. And when the face pic exchange happens both ends, are usually more than happy cause they've got to know the personality first and not jus thought oh Yeh I'd fuck you!! Personality wins everytime for me, not one for people who think their looks are the bomb and can get anyone they want when half the time really can't lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really make it a point of avoiding these ones! Best meets I've had have been with people I can chat and have a good giggle with first and no pressure on a face pic. And when the face pic exchange happens both ends, are usually more than happy cause they've got to know the personality first and not jus thought oh Yeh I'd fuck you!! Personality wins everytime for me, not one for people who think their looks are the bomb and can get anyone they want when half the time really can't lol"

Its not about getting people. Its getting someone to answer i dnt get many people answering at all. But these type of ppl do your head inn. But i see what your saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well l guess the people that don't reply are the ones who are saying they arent interested l guess. I endeavour to reply to most of my messages even if its no thanks...Manners cost nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well l guess the people that don't reply are the ones who are saying they arent interested l guess. I endeavour to reply to most of my messages even if its no thanks...Manners cost nothing."

I guess that welshy lol

But your right manners cost nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes a simple wink can save the message situation mind. If u get one back then ur probably goin to get a reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice i av already tried that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well l guess the people that don't reply are the ones who are saying they arent interested l guess. I endeavour to reply to most of my messages even if its no thanks...Manners cost nothing.

I guess that welshy lol

But your right manners cost nothing"

They cost time & that's precious, as a single female I only replied to those few I felt inclined to respond to so if that makes me ignorant can't say I care X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes a simple wink can save the message situation mind. If u get one back then ur probably goin to get a reply "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well l guess the people that don't reply are the ones who are saying they arent interested l guess. I endeavour to reply to most of my messages even if its no thanks...Manners cost nothing.

I guess that welshy lol

But your right manners cost nothing

They cost time & that's precious, as a single female I only replied to those few I felt inclined to respond to so if that makes me ignorant can't say I care X"

I agree Peach. The main problem I found with replying to everyone was that a large majority took a reply of any sort as a sign of interest and assumed they were then entitled in some way to a fuck. This then just caused further awkwardness and got on my fucking nerves in the end. Now I only reply to those I think I would want to meet whose first message and pics/profile intrigue me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well l guess the people that don't reply are the ones who are saying they arent interested l guess. I endeavour to reply to most of my messages even if its no thanks...Manners cost nothing.

I guess that welshy lol

But your right manners cost nothing

They cost time & that's precious, as a single female I only replied to those few I felt inclined to respond to so if that makes me ignorant can't say I care X

I agree Peach. The main problem I found with replying to everyone was that a large majority took a reply of any sort as a sign of interest and assumed they were then entitled in some way to a fuck. This then just caused further awkwardness and got on my fucking nerves in the end. Now I only reply to those I think I would want to meet whose first message and pics/profile intrigue me "

Yes, yes this exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well l guess the people that don't reply are the ones who are saying they arent interested l guess. I endeavour to reply to most of my messages even if its no thanks...Manners cost nothing.

I guess that welshy lol

But your right manners cost nothing

Totaly understand where your coming from.

They cost time & that's precious, as a single female I only replied to those few I felt inclined to respond to so if that makes me ignorant can't say I care X

I agree Peach. The main problem I found with replying to everyone was that a large majority took a reply of any sort as a sign of interest and assumed they were then entitled in some way to a fuck. This then just caused further awkwardness and got on my fucking nerves in the end. Now I only reply to those I think I would want to meet whose first message and pics/profile intrigue me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well l guess the people that don't reply are the ones who are saying they arent interested l guess. I endeavour to reply to most of my messages even if its no thanks...Manners cost nothing.

I guess that welshy lol

But your right manners cost nothing

They cost time & that's precious, as a single female I only replied to those few I felt inclined to respond to so if that makes me ignorant can't say I care X"

Nail, head. Why set myself up for whining and abuse? No thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well l guess the people that don't reply are the ones who are saying they arent interested l guess. I endeavour to reply to most of my messages even if its no thanks...Manners cost nothing.

I guess that welshy lol

But your right manners cost nothing

I dnt abuse no1 me lol

They cost time & that's precious, as a single female I only replied to those few I felt inclined to respond to so if that makes me ignorant can't say I care X

Nail, head. Why set myself up for whining and abuse? No thanks."

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