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By *rs Sugar Mr Spice OP   Couple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!

We have been on and off this site now for comming up to 4 years and over the last year or so we have been noticing a sharp decline of decent and genuine people who just want fun and we recon its all down to the,fakes,timewasters,singles pretending to be couples,pik collectors,bitchyness,childishness,arguments,abuse and cliques etc ,just wondering what your thoughts on it all????

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By *aidinwalesWoman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

I read the forums however dont very often post on any of them and as much as I like you I wonder why you feel the need to post such controversial questions. You must know that you are going to cause unrest when you post them so I really dont understand why you do it all the time?

You cant be derogatory by saying the site has gone 'downhill'. As in everything in life things change and just because it doesnt suit you doesnt mean its gone downhill.

Take from the site what you need, avoid what you dont like and and dont keep judging others just because they arent what you are looking for.

You can't go around making comments like you have in this post and expect no comeback - we are all different. You are experienced enough to out the timewasters and the non genuine people just as the rest of us are.

Has to be said that continually posting forum threads like you have been doing recently is a major cause of the arguments sorry.

All you are doing is getting yourself and by default your lovely wife a reputation as trouble makers.

For goodness sake let things be - think what ever you want to think you are more than entitled to your opinions however they are exactly that - your opinions. Yes everyone is entitled to their opinions but sometimes its best to keep them to yourself.

The chat room is a lovely friendly place most of the time and I have friends on here that I would never have had. There are also people I dont particularly like however I dont judge them or label them and I certainly wouldn't post anything that would indicate I didn't like them and to my knowledge none of them are aware of the fact because I give no indication of it

I think you need to be more tolerant, think before you post and just enjoy with the people you choose to meet.

You need to be more tolerant I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Nods in agreement* with Maid!

Live and let live and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me to with cariad and maid

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By *ev and TrevCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Nods in agreement with maid and wonders how long before this gets really ugly and thread gets closed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have said it perfect maid.

about time it stopped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we agree live and let live but this is not facebook some people on here lead people on and they have no intention of meeting nobody can say thats right.

At the end of the day most people are on here for sex not to chat cod shit forever maybe the people who only want to chat perv over pictures or look at people on cam should be honest and say what they want that would make it better for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with all that maid has said.

I have met some lovely people on here and made some wonderful friends who I hope will be life long xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we agree live and let live but this is not facebook some people on here lead people on and they have no intention of meeting nobody can say thats right.

At the end of the day most people are on here for sex not to chat cod shit forever maybe the people who only want to chat perv over pictures or look at people on cam should be honest and say what they want that would make it better for everyone. "

Well I'm not here to meet all and sundry but doesn't make any difference if I write on my profile what I want as most people don't read them anyway.

What I don't want, is to come into forums to see people slagging off anyone who is not their type whether it be age, size, ethnicity or some such shit. Everyone is different and we should all remember that not everyone is going to be to their taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well put maid hun too much hassle in here sometimes and quite needless getting fed up of it all , but on a good note managed to post summit before rugby closed it pmsl

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!

just wanted to see if i could comment before its closed!

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!

And I did LOL!!!!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

lol @ fire.

Happily apart from the OP being a provocative post, there hasn't been the result everyone expected.... and I think it owes that to Maids well thought out post.

Maybe it was needed from members and not mods that people are sick of the bitchiness going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets start uphill now no more talk about downhill, have enuff with me boobs going south at my age never mind anything else going downhill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it isn't - It's going uphill and improving all the time thanks to the time, effort and money put into it by the site owners

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By *handyshandyCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

well said maid....and hey you HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING bout it going downhill....you should see my house party time....150 people here all soo sooo naughty and had more mess with my daughter home for weekend...most helped to tidy up....all brought fab food...and everyone absolutely gorjus...so NO site is not going downhill....far from it...

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By *aidinwalesWoman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

Party at Mandys then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite right mandy hun xxx and im getting good at not dropping bottles on youre kitchen floor pmsl always a fantastic party at youres and thanks so much for hosting them fab isnt going downhill jsut the bitchyness is so un called for pointless and needless. ,

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!


"well said maid....and hey you HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING bout it going downhill....you should see my house party time....150 people here all soo sooo naughty and had more mess with my daughter home for weekend...most helped to tidy up....all brought fab food...and everyone absolutely gorjus...so NO site is not going downhill....far from it..."

And I am still waiting for an invite to one of your famously great parties lol.......................................I am going to have a long wait arent I!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think the site is that bad leave nobody will miss you. As I have found when Ive left the site only a few real friends stay in touch xxxx

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!

Please tell me that wasnt directed at me bubbs xxxx

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By *adie7Couple
over a year ago

Llantrisant

We have to agree with Maid...like her we rarely post in the forum...but regularly read the posts that are made and are amazed often lol. Usually we find it wiser to keep our comments and opinions to ourselves. We find Fab Swingers a fantastic place to meet people and you will only get out of it what you put into it. If you feel it is going down hill....but value the benefits it brings.. make your own steps to improve it rather than condemn and critize all the time...mmmmmm...looking forward to bumping into you all soon x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is all about opinion and tastes but if people are honest,polite and respecful it would make it easier anyway take alook at our profile and let us know if you fancy a shag lol

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By *rystalsCouple
over a year ago

swansea

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By *rystalsCouple
over a year ago

swansea


"Quite right mandy hun xxx and im getting good at not dropping bottles on youre kitchen floor pmsl always a fantastic party at youres and thanks so much for hosting them fab isnt going downhill jsut the bitchyness is so un called for pointless and needless. ,"
and i dont get hit anymore either only by fems in which i desrve lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought that the aim of a forum was to aid & assist positive discussion on a range of mutually interesting subjects, the forum on this site seem to have been hijacked by the small few who seem intent on forming their own cliques & marginalising those who don't quite fit. I totally agree with the majority of the previous comments & if the site doesn't suit, take a hike. This site, is after all about having adult fun xxx last time I'm gonna post cos its a waste of my fun time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I feel that any site/forum etc should be treated like a person. If you went into a pub and started slagging it off straight away it's highly likely that the punters are all going to shuffle up to the other side of the bar. If your profile is written in a manner that lets others know exactly what you want and don't want, without slagging the potential viewers straight away, then I am sure you will get more positive outcomes from this site. Every website is going to have a percentage of timewasters and keyboard masturbators - you've just got to allow for this. I always give my phone number out and ask potential meets to call me, even if they withold their number, and find that this filters the timewasters straight away.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


" I always give my phone number out and ask potential meets to call me, even if they withold their number, and find that this filters the timewasters straight away."

We would be classed as timewasters then, as we don't give our playphone number out until we have all showed face on cam and have arranged a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" .you should see my house party time....150 people here all soo sooo naughty and had more mess with my daughter home for weekend...most helped to tidy up....all brought fab food...and everyone absolutely gorjus...so NO site is not going downhill....far from it..."

hehe i was a good girlie lol it was ice that broke things pmsl xxxxxx mwah xx fair play mandy parties are amazin and i hope we get invited again lol and will put ice in a straight jacket pmsl xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok i totally and absolutely agree with maids comments way up at the top of the page lol xxxxx

and hey there are awesum people on this site... its the people that makes the site how it is xxx

(and the site that makes the people lol ) xxxxx A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maid...... you are spot on and how lovely to see such a well written and well balanced post......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why pick on singles ?

if you been on this site for nearly 4 yrs you should be experianced enough to out the timewasters etc. etc. so why let them get you annoyed ignore delete and block them easy.

so if you think the site is so bad why dont you leave and join another site you must be having fun or you wouldnt still be here.

i think your just trying to get a reaction off people in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maid spot on as usual you thought well and summed it up... now there is a "steep downhill" to my place in Abercynon. Maybe you would like to make it the top of the world?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree with all thats been said in this particular thread.

Maid you were spot on, very well written and non confrontational and no way offensive at all it was an opinion of one which many agree with.

We have, as like others been reading the forums and be honest i have had my say in a few, childish - maybe, bitchy-perhaps, but like you i have an opinion and feel that the forum is the place to express my thoughts and views, i have had to bite my tounge on a few occasions, which for me was difficult lol

We have been victims of the fab 'bullies' for a while and its been hard for us to get back on track, but be honest we dont care anymore, 'sticks and stones' and all that. They can say and do what they like, we have our true 'friends' on here and if others dont like us then so what, move on .

We dont think fab has gone downhill, theres just been a clash of personalities and its gone tits up on here, after your post maybe now thats the end of all the shite, if people have nothing nice to say then say nothing at all.

Fab is big enough for everyone to have fun and also big enough to avoid those you dont want to associate with.

So please you sexy buggers lets play nice stop bitching, slagging off and creating a swinging war enough is enough, Fab for us is a bit of escapism but there is more shit on here at the moment than in the real world, so can we end it now and get get on with having fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am new to this site and believe there is enough room on this free site for all sorts. None of us has the right to continue to pick and moan about the quality of this site as we are all guests on it. For those of us who do pay for added functions e.g a site SUPPORTER then we should encourage the good work of the webmaster( is that the correct term?) and the monitors who have a difficult task. I do not often post on the forum but feel the need to point out to the couple that posted this topic ..... you say you have been on this site for 4 years, if this is true surely there is something of value you find in it. Please please try to be a little more positive and encouraging instead of picking fault with so many aspects of this site and it's people. I also cut and paste something you yourselves posted a few weeks back as a reminder......so 'go with the flow and happy swinging'

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By Kat and Alfy Couple (MF) 6 weeks ago

near cardiff

'well ill tell u wat we kno ,yes theres deffo a clique and its been proven by how many times the block button has been used towards us quite recently and certain ppls comments about summing that was put up and taken off which they knew nuffing about but hay hoo who gives a shit we way 2 old 2 be part ov the play ground noncence that goes on in the room we cant help being 2 hot and popular for sum and just an awsome cple 4 others so we just stick wi wat we kno and go with the flow we get plenty any ways and propositioned even more but u cant be freinds with every body all ov the time thats life so lets all say a lil hay a lil hoo so swing high and swing low and happy hunting fellow shagger those who like us and them who dont theres plenty 2 go round us all '

xxxxxxxx vio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey violette we nearly synchronized our posts lol great minds think alike lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

umm I dont know if its me, but the origonal poster of the thread, hasn't mady any reply to any of the comments ?

I agree with what had been said by maid and vio, but I have been on here many,many,many,moons now and feel the site is just the same as it ever was, and the people act just the same as they ever did ?

As an old china man once said....with a wad of money....

"same horse..different jockey"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol cj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but it aint same horse different jockey cj

its same ppl different screenies i think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"umm I dont know if its me, but the origonal poster of the thread, hasn't mady any reply to any of the comments ?

I agree with what had been said by maid and vio, but I have been on here many,many,many,moons now and feel the site is just the same as it ever was, and the people act just the same as they ever did ?

As an old china man once said....with a wad of money....

"same horse..different jockey"

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he was banned from posting for 48hrs pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes we agree its going downhill far to many fake couples and we over run with single guys on this site

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By *aidinwalesWoman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

I think this has run its course now - lets just leave it at that and move on.

The general feeling is live and let live. So lets get on and do it....

Enough said I think

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone


"I think this has run its course now - lets just leave it at that and move on.

The general feeling is live and let live. So lets get on and do it....

Enough said I think"

And on that note, think we'll close

Admin x

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