FabSwingers.com forum: Preferences?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have to say I'm not getting much luck on this site. I would class myself as pretty attractive. Good body, good confident personality, experienced in the carnal arts and very clean.

I'm just wondering if its the shaven head and beard that might be putting fem and couples off.

Do women prefer a generic clean shaven/mop haired guy over a guy with a bit of character?

Also maybe some of you can help, what is the etiquette for messaging couples? Ive done everything from single lines to a bio on a introduction message and 9/10 it's ignored or deleted with out a hi.

Not sure if this is the norm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to stand out from the crowd

It doesn't matter how shit hot you think you are

You need to put it across to others, and a lot find self praise rather off putting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being able to accomodate will put a lot of people off also

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cool. Does it have to be my house? Can I say I can accommodate at a hotel?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Cool. Does it have to be my house? Can I say I can accommodate at a hotel? "

Yeah put it in your write up that you'll happily arrange a hotel room. What an ex fb of mine did.

Put some of your body shots for the public to look at maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cool. Does it have to be my house? Can I say I can accommodate at a hotel?

Yeah put it in your write up that you'll happily arrange a hotel room. What an ex fb of mine did.

Put some of your body shots for the public to look at maybe"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cool. Does it have to be my house? Can I say I can accommodate at a hotel? "

It's all your choice obviously

But a lot of women only meet men who accom

Many will assume you are married if you can't accom at home (not saying you are, just it is an assumption that is often made)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cool. Does it have to be my house? Can I say I can accommodate at a hotel?

It's all your choice obviously

But a lot of women only meet men who accom

Many will assume you are married if you can't accom at home (not saying you are, just it is an assumption that is often made)"

Yeah, that's a fair and understandable point. I'm not married btw.

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By *ewport_ladMan
over a year ago

Newport

"Cool. Does it have to be my house? Can I say I can accommodate at a hotel?

It's all your choice obviously

But a lot of women only meet men who accom

Many will assume you are married if you can't accom at home (not saying you are, just it is an assumption that is often made)

Yeah, that's a fair and understandable point. I'm not married btw. "

Just keep at it, then the people that take you up on your offer you know will be worth your time. if at first you don't succeed try try again. out of 9 people that say no or don't respond there is always the one that may be amazing (I used to sell double glazing)

also what the beautiful lady mentioned about standing out from a crowd, you need to remember that couples and single fems on here get inundated with 1000's of messages every day, so you need to make sure that yours stands out. try a funny subject heading to grab their attention and follow it up with an interesting read. also cock picks are a no no. unless asked to send them women will see these over and over and once you have seen one you've basically seen them all. happy swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats some real good advice. Thanks all.

Happy swinging!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself along to the socials also

there's a few going on single social soon daytime ones also will get you verified then and noticed x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get yourself along to the socials also

there's a few going on single social soon daytime ones also will get you verified then and noticed x"

Cool. Will keep my eye out for them. X

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