FabSwingers.com forum: Friends (so called)

By *ust Joan OP Woman
over a year ago

caerphilly

I am fed up with Joan being blanked by people we considered friends, people who we have gone out of our way to help in the past, even putting ourselves out to do stuff for them instead, well rest assured we have now learned from this mistake, we will no longer be the same people we were, we will think of us not others from now.

Anyone who really knows us will know that if we had something to say we would say it to your face not behind your back. We are probably the straightest talking people on this site, we have never back stabbed anyone, yet we have been back stabbed many times.

If any of you have fallen for this fake text message from someone unknown then shame on you, if you try to reply to it the message will not send, if you try to ring the number it will tell you the number is unknown, this tells me that they put the sim into a phone when they want to stir up some trouble then take it back out and laugh at what they just done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is this the same text message i received ?????? if so it wasnt about joan it was about a single fem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we know how you feel [honestly]so the only back stabbing dee get's is from me....lol

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By *ust Joan OP Woman
over a year ago

caerphilly

Both Suzie and Sparkss received the same text message saying that they had both been slagging each other off in the room, I got hold of the number and tried ringing it myself with the aforementioned result, but for anyone to beleive Joan would say anything behind their back is beond me, Joan is so out-spoken that if she had anything to say she would say it to the face of the person to which it is aimed, not to others for them to twist and add their bit to it to as they say "spice it up". I am just fed up with all the shit that has been happening on here over the last couple of months and it has been building up in me to a point where I finally had to say something.

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By *ust Joan OP Woman
over a year ago

caerphilly

sorry I just read over this and noticed I spelt "believed" wrong so I am now correcting it before some1 else does

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By *handyshandyCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

We have had similar text saying people have been slagging us off in forum, pathetic, time for these people to grow up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a really horrible thing to to to anyone!!!! but to do it to you guys is outrageous!!!!! We have known you both for a while now and have only found honesty and good friends who have always been straight with us and have shown us nothing but respect and friendship. We can't understand y anyone would even think about trying to damage someones good name and reputation of honesty and friendship

Jayne aka(sthwalescpl)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we know you are nice people so fuck em init lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont fink ill be fucking them buck i only play with adults lol they need to grow up who ever they are

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By *handyshandyCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

OK ANYONE SENDING ME A TEXT SAYING...somebodys bin slagging me off in chat...SOD OFF...cos youve just wasted a text on me!! i wont believe it....I didnt even bother doing anything about it..cos i know the person they claim to have said it...wouldnt!!! shes as straight talking as I am...she wouldnt stoop that low!!! SO FOLKS FUK UM we dont care...we have our faithful honest and trustworthy friends...OH AND IF ANYBODY SES WE'VE BIN SLAGGIN YEE OFF...TELL UM GET STUFFED ...lol and dont believe um ....hey jOANIE...DONT YOU DARE CHANGE WE LUVE YA GIRLIO XXXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks to me that someone is simply jealous of people who are popular, I'd feel sorry for them if I didn't think they were just a bit sad!

It is however very upsetting that there are elements on the site that chose to deliberately cause distress.

If you have a problem with someone, then at least have the guts to put it to them face to face to give them the chance to have their say.

Everyone is entitled to reply to their accusers. Stand up and be counted ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God I cant believe people can stoop so low !

As for Rich n Joan, I can honestly say that they have been TRUE friends to me, and stood by me through some really hard personal matters I have had. I know I will be there for them if im ever needed.

There is enevitably going to be fall outs on the site as nobody sees eye to eye with everyone. But all you have to do is be adult about it.

Either block the person, or tell them to their face the problem. either way, you just cant resort to playground tactics on what is supposed to be an adult site !

We are all here to have fun, so why dont we start doing it ? BTW.....

anyone fancy a ............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if we recieved a text saying joan had slagged us off we would let her know because we would not believe it of joan or rich. two of the nicest and most honest ppl we have met.

we love you both

ger and netty xx xx xx

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

What I want to know (apart from the faceless cowards who stir up trouble): Who on earth believes a random text from an unknown number that happens to have yours and take it as gospel? If they want their word believed then they need to come out of the shadows - that's always been my view.

True people (and they don't have to be swingers) will gladly defend what they say with conviction... unless they have some ulterior motive to hide.

Sorry to hear you guys are getting grief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the text i received wasnt about rich and joan it was about a single fem on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully only selected people on site have a number for us so if I had received such a text it would only have come from them and as they really are not that childish or vindictive I think we are very safe then again we are of the mind to ignore it plus I always think if people are talking about us then they are leaving some other poor bugger alone for a change !! Stay as you are rich and joan xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only get texts off some mad woman and my kids

Nobody loves me mun.

Seriously though, I wouldn't take any notice of any text slagging other people off especially if I didn't know where it was coming from.

If anyone wants to slag me off then carry on lol just as long as someones talking about me it means I'm popular :P

xxxx Rich and Joan xxxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

There will always be people about who want to cause mayhem, same as there will always be people about who want to bitch.

Obviously Admin can't do anything about people getting texts and what are in them, but they can do something about people being slagged off in chat, whoever that may be...so the best thing to do is REPORT the profiles and let Admin check it out.

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