FabSwingers.com forum: Advice needed for the vanilla world

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, there's this guy I like in the vanilla world and I just want some advice on how to approach him.. I am not very good at recognising the signs etc... how do i know if someone likes me etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, there's this guy I like in the vanilla world and I just want some advice on how to approach him.. I am not very good at recognising the signs etc... how do i know if someone likes me etc..."

Just ask does he fancy a coffee or drink sometime and see what happens. Good luck xx

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"So, there's this guy I like in the vanilla world and I just want some advice on how to approach him.. I am not very good at recognising the signs etc... how do i know if someone likes me etc...

Just ask does he fancy a coffee or drink sometime and see what happens. Good luck xx"

Yeah go for it and take the bull by the bollocks. Don't wait for him to make the first move xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the opposite but I'm a fucking shithouse outside of here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a male perspective just ask, he's probably oblivious

As the advice above see if he would like to go to the local bistro but not starchucks

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you do good luck

Hope it goes well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, there's this guy I like in the vanilla world and I just want some advice on how to approach him.. I am not very good at recognising the signs etc... how do i know if someone likes me etc...

Just ask does he fancy a coffee or drink sometime and see what happens. Good luck xx

haha well said. I agree don't miss the chance as he might be shy. Gd luck x

Yeah go for it and take the bull by the bollocks. Don't wait for him to make the first move xx"

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Apparently I've (Rob) been flirted with a few times but I'm always utterly oblivious to it

Ask him out for a coffee and drop compliments and STRONG hints (wear a shirt that says I FANCY YOU).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will you let you know how it goes and thanks for the advice x

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!

Men tend to be oblivious to subtle. Ask him if he wants a coffee sometime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never pick up on stuff in the real world & would never be able to approach a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suck his dick. Even vanilla men like that

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"I never pick up on stuff in the real world & would never be able to approach a guy

I never pick up on it in this world either lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Suck his dick. Even vanilla men like that

Yeah...but i can't just rock up to him and get his cock out and start sucking it though....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never pick up on stuff in the real world & would never be able to approach a guy

I never pick up on it in this world either lol "

Unless someone actually tells me they like me, i am rubbish with signals lol!! Whether it's on here or in non-fab world...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never pick up on stuff in the real world & would never be able to approach a guy

I never pick up on it in this world either lol

Unless someone actually tells me they like me, i am rubbish with signals lol!! Whether it's on here or in non-fab world..."

I'm the exact same! Haha jus tell em if u like me then grab me and snog my chops off!! Lol

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By *eswillMan
over a year ago

Chepstow

"Suck his dick. Even vanilla men like that

Yeah...but i can't just rock up to him and get his cock out and start sucking it though....

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I have the feeling he work out that you like him if you did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Suck his dick. Even vanilla men like that

Yeah...but i can't just rock up to him and get his cock out and start sucking it though....

I have the feeling he work out that you like him if you did.

But what if the feeling wasn't mutual lol!!!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Suck his dick. Even vanilla men like that

Yeah...but i can't just rock up to him and get his cock out and start sucking it though....

I have the feeling he work out that you like him if you did.

But what if the feeling wasn't mutual lol!!!"

He's can close his eyes and at least have the courtesy of enjoying it

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By *eswillMan
over a year ago

Chepstow

"Suck his dick. Even vanilla men like that

Yeah...but i can't just rock up to him and get his cock out and start sucking it though....

I have the feeling he work out that you like him if you did.

But what if the feeling wasn't mutual lol!!!

He's can close his eyes and at least have the courtesy of enjoying it

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Sure he would be willing take one not to hurt your feeling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Suck his dick. Even vanilla men like that

Yeah...but i can't just rock up to him and get his cock out and start sucking it though....

I have the feeling he work out that you like him if you did.

But what if the feeling wasn't mutual lol!!!

He's can close his eyes and at least have the courtesy of enjoying it

Sure he would be willing take one not to hurt your feeling.

Anyway - don't want to blow my own trumpet n all that - but after me sucking his cock, He will like me lol

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