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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm looking to see if anyone would want to meet up for some coffee or food so I can get verified? I'm only posting in here because as a single male I find it hard to get verified in a sea over populated with many many fish

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get along to a social

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's a good idea. Do most socials take place on weekends, or do some take place on weekdays because I work weekends normally.

Can you recommend any good clubs. I am a little nervous about going to a club though, but if it's one of the only ways to get a veri I might have to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also would being a site supporter without a verification help me or would it not be worth it until I get a verification?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

If you search the subject on here you'll see you are beating the same drum as every other male on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also would being a site supporter without a verification help me or would it not be worth it until I get a verification?"

No need for site supporter but that's totally up to you.

The most popular socials are held on weekends but there are a few daytime ones too , Caerphilly and Neath being just two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate its hard going on here really is lots of decent people on here like the 2 ladies that have comment on here and there is a lot of twats ad well more so twats what I have seen I have actually made contact with 3 ladies one is a time waster or I have been over keen and scared her off more like another is possible and made contact today with one that's hopefully up for it think people are right about being patient but think if you looking for fun try looking for married woman or involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mate its hard going on here really is lots of decent people on here like the 2 ladies that have comment on here and there is a lot of twats ad well more so twats what I have seen I have actually made contact with 3 ladies one is a time waster or I have been over keen and scared her off more like another is possible and made contact today with one that's hopefully up for it think people are right about being patient but think if you looking for fun try looking for married woman or involved "

Unmarried and non involved women can be just as much fun!!!

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By *eswillMan
over a year ago

Chepstow

All single males should just all leave because they got no chance of getting a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well yer I know but they don't seem as keen as the married ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why you say that you have had lots of meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well yer I know but they don't seem as keen as the married ones "

And what wrong with being married?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well yer I know but they don't seem as keen as the married ones "

Then you're obviously not looking hard enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why you say that you have had lots of meets?"

Les is a very popular guy

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By *eswillMan
over a year ago

Chepstow


"Why you say that you have had lots of meets?

Les is a very popular guy "
Shhhhh That our little secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yer he is well done him fair play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Star man les

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why you say that you have had lots of meets?

Les is a very popular guy Shhhhh That our little secret "

I heard Les had his own Fan site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking to see if anyone would want to meet up for some coffee or food so I can get verified? I'm only posting in here because as a single male I find it hard to get verified in a sea over populated with many many fish "

Whatever happened to meeting people because you liked them & wanted to get to know them more, maybe even fuck them if you both got on well? Seeking a meet to get a verification isn't likely to have them queuing, just my opinion mind & that counts for very little but I enjoy typing, keeps me out of trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will if you buy the food. But it better be somewhere damn posh. And I want wine. And a starter. Possibly a dessert. And a coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will if you buy the food. But it better be somewhere damn posh. And I want wine. And a starter. Possibly a dessert. And a coffee. "
Bloody hell woman why not ask for the moon on a stick

I've been here 3 weeks and I cant get a meet is it because my face looks like a hedgehog on the M4 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All single males should just all leave because they got no chance of getting a meet. "

Think it depends on the single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will if you buy the food. But it better be somewhere damn posh. And I want wine. And a starter. Possibly a dessert. And a coffee. "

Woah woah woah, if that's on offer fuck it I'll do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will if you buy the food. But it better be somewhere damn posh. And I want wine. And a starter. Possibly a dessert. And a coffee. "

Well it'll depend on how posh the place is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are all fine and dandy, but can be costly.. Travel, accommodation, food, etc.. And even then you're not guaranteed a meet.. Maybe look for local people, first?! - I'm sure there are verified singles near you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It shouldn't be all about being verified, anyway, I've met a few people on here who aren't verified and we've all had an amazing time!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I'm talking to a guy who gained his first meet and play verification within 5 days of being on here, not from me either but a couple. Yes he's handsome but the reason he was so successful is he put in the time to look for a meet on the meet page and messaged them putting effort in to it by reading their profile for what they wanted.

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By *pples123456Man
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Why you say that you have had lots of meets?

Les is a very popular guy Shhhhh That our little secret "

Les is definitely popular think it all started with row cam

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Socials are all fine and dandy, but can be costly.. Travel, accommodation, food, etc.. And even then you're not guaranteed a meet.. Maybe look for local people, first?! - I'm sure there are verified singles near you? "

Socials are just that... to socialise.

If you are expecting to get laid then you have already set yourself up for disappointment. As a minimum, if we didn't stay over in a hotel, a social would probably cost us around £60, but then factor in maybe a new dress for Jayne, food, the hotel, taxis, and some extras, and you could easily bump that to £200 or more.

Is there a sliding scale of cost versus reward in swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Socials are all fine and dandy, but can be costly.. Travel, accommodation, food, etc.. And even then you're not guaranteed a meet.. Maybe look for local people, first?! - I'm sure there are verified singles near you? "

You speculate to accumulate, no social guarantees a meet whether it be an organised one or a 1:1 x

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By *lfie80Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"I will if you buy the food. But it better be somewhere damn posh. And I want wine. And a starter. Possibly a dessert. And a coffee. "

Chatting rubbish... Baked potato and beans, and a vodka jelly!! Bang bang!!

But in all seriousness, as far as I'm can make out, if you be nice to people, respect people's feelings and take the advice that people throw at you for what their worth.. You can't go far wrong..

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By *ce_and_fireCouple
over a year ago

over the rainbow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ava is right they are women to be wined and dined not just sex mad slappers. thats the trouble a lot of people on here just think the latter and thats why they are finding it difficult to get a meet for sex because they havent met them socially.having said that its hard getting even a social meet lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude,

Just talk to people, go to socials to meet people, got to chams and meet people

That's pretty much how I started on this site and I've done ok for myself

It's always gonna be tough as a man to get a meet due to the ratio to woman

Chams is a great place to start though dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will if you buy the food. But it better be somewhere damn posh. And I want wine. And a starter. Possibly a dessert. And a coffee.

Chatting rubbish... Baked potato and beans, and a vodka jelly!! Bang bang!!

But in all seriousness, as far as I'm can make out, if you be nice to people, respect people's feelings and take the advice that people throw at you for what their worth.. You can't go far wrong.."

Nice girl....do anything for a spud, see!

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By *ovis69 and green eyesMan
over a year ago

valleys


"I will if you buy the food. But it better be somewhere damn posh. And I want wine. And a starter. Possibly a dessert. And a coffee.

Well it'll depend on how posh the place is "

Don't think a McDonald's will cut it though lol

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By *ovis69 and green eyesMan
over a year ago

valleys

On a serious note ( I know me serious lol ) best way is chat rooms & daytime socials then build friends & playmates base from there.

Don't be so focused on getting "veris" at 1st if people like you then they will do them without the asking & you sounding desperate.

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