FabSwingers.com forum: help on fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Need help and advice on fab get no replies and seen they have been read and deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be that you are not what they are looking for...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi thanks for the reply do you know of any other sites struggling on here lot of gay men also pretending to be couples and females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been here 3 weeks...patience and perseverance is the key...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really how long would I expect to he on here then you think till I got a meet of some sort ? I thought if you want sex it be pretty quick but I suppose I am male after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really how long would I expect to he on here then you think till I got a meet of some sort ? I thought if you want sex it be pretty quick but I suppose I am male after all"

Really? Not a fuck any thing and any body site! You need to find some one who is attracted to you and your profile and you are both or all after the same things and also be free at the same time. Definetly not insta shag on here, unless any hole is a goal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does take time and patience. This site isn't a waste of time at all I can tell u that much! Need to get yourself to socials mix in with people and if and when u do send messages make them count not fancy a fuck? Lol alot of guys on here whinge and it's Becuase they send stupid messages thinkin this sites a guarantee

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi thanks for that message well not what I thought it was just looking for nsa fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi yer I send proper messages I don't send any fancy a fuck I just say hi and say I like your photos they just read and deleted any suggestions then ?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Hi thanks for that message well not what I thought it was just looking for nsa fun"

Try pof, badoo or tinder then.

If you search this subject on the forums you will see countless threads all saying the same thing with the same advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi yer I send proper messages I don't send any fancy a fuck I just say hi and say I like your photos they just read and deleted any suggestions then ?"

Don't panic over that it's happened to everyone. Sometimes u just get no response regardless how nice the message. I try to bring my personality across in the messages if no reply just delete and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Meathead noticed you have done ok on this site though

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Meathead noticed you have done ok on this site though

Cause he puts the effort into his messages fair play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meathead noticed you have done ok on this site though

Cause he puts the effort into his messages fair play"

And don't u forget it!! Haha xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yer so have I but fed up of typing them and get deleted the sites you said are dating sites no good for discreet nsa fun ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meathead noticed you have done ok on this site though

Yeh I've had good success on here must be said but if I had to say why is Becuase I'm a constant half full not half empty guy always want a giggle so jus make sure I put my personality across in messages, unless I'm horny and d*unk and that goes out the window haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey thanks for help well I will try that and see how it goes otherwise save up and go with escorts lol

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Yer so have I but fed up of typing them and get deleted the sites you said are dating sites no good for discreet nsa fun ?"

Most people on them don't use it for dating they use them for quick hook ups, especially the last two.

It really is a case of patience on here. The males out number females vastly so you really have to stand out from the crowd.

Humour or a unique approach usually works

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi thanks for that been what badoo and tinder ? Tried tinder but they show girls In my area and it's bull as I know the area well they got really fit ladies on there and you can clearly see they are from abroad what you reckon to badoo then ?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Hi thanks for that been what badoo and tinder ? Tried tinder but they show girls In my area and it's bull as I know the area well they got really fit ladies on there and you can clearly see they are from abroad what you reckon to badoo then ? "

Ive used badoo and know others that have used it. There are quite a few other sites you can Google for just hook up sex.

Majority of swingers like the social side to the scene not just the fun so that's why so many single guys fail on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I got you you have been so helpful thank you how did you get on with badoo ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I got you you have been so helpful thank you how did you get on with badoo ?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"I got you you have been so helpful thank you how did you get on with badoo ?"

Not bad. Don't use it often now as I'm on here more.

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

Hi mate reading all this, what is it with the guys show a pic of your cock u think all these frustrated house wives and single ladies gonna throw them selves at u.

NO u got to work for there attention they r not here for your bennefit, allmost all r happy with there man and lives some times u might be asked to join them but there choice not yours,lol.

So start again treat every encounter as if u were goig to chat some one up at a bar, be nice respectfull at all times, and in most cases as with us u will be chatting to hubby first and if u cant get passed him its all over lol,as for the ladies treat them like a godesses they r and then u will have fun and ALL enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

They all single woman on there looking for dating ? There is no search there for casual sex do to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just delete tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd just delete tbh"
Another moaning guy......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Delete ?

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By * and CCouple
over a year ago

near Cardiff

Male here, if a bloke messages us and talks as if we aren't a couple or is rude initially then i just delete and block.

Banter usually helps. Cock pics put c right off too.

A lot of the time with us its nothing personal, just not what we're looking for at that time.

If it helps, we often get the read and delete from single females on here but they get bombarded even more than couples do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every single day there is a 'why can't I get a meet?' thread. Read them and heed the advice.

Before msging someone, do you read ALL their profile or just flick to the pics? This tends to be the main problem I think.....guys either not reading or thinking we're all so desperate so they take their chances anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boring profile, boring pictures. Stand out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey thanks don't know how to make it interesting i probably am a boring person thanks for the honedt

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Really how long would I expect to he on here then you think till I got a meet of some sort ? I thought if you want sex it be pretty quick but I suppose I am male after all"

So you think this site is like Argos... you flick through, see something you like, and use the "click and collect" service?

And guys wonder why they get a bad rep on here!

It could be months before you even get a sniff dude, and the more effort you put in, the more likely you are to be lucky..... so I guess that means you wont be lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really how long would I expect to he on here then you think till I got a meet of some sort ? I thought if you want sex it be pretty quick but I suppose I am male after all

So you think this site is like Argos... you flick through, see something you like, and use the "click and collect" service?

And guys wonder why they get a bad rep on here!

It could be months before you even get a sniff dude, and the more effort you put in, the more likely you are to be lucky..... so I guess that means you wont be lol!

Well don't think the guy deserves all this attack if im honest. He's asked for advice to what he can change not a telling off lol

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Socials socials socials.... if i can do it anybody can

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Really how long would I expect to he on here then you think till I got a meet of some sort ? I thought if you want sex it be pretty quick but I suppose I am male after all

So you think this site is like Argos... you flick through, see something you like, and use the "click and collect" service?

And guys wonder why they get a bad rep on here!

It could be months before you even get a sniff dude, and the more effort you put in, the more likely you are to be lucky..... so I guess that means you wont be lol!

Well don't think the guy deserves all this attack if im honest. He's asked for advice to what he can change not a telling off lol"

Yes, he asked for advice... but every time someone tries he's just like "I want free, instant sex with no effort".

That's not what this site is about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks meathead for that fed of people telling me they don't want cock pics yet all these people have got their tits cock and pussy on here what am I suppose to put my toes and feet i couple of other pics on and got face pic for private messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meathead noticed you have done ok on this site though

Its the beard and the Corsa. Guaranteed fanny magnets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks meathead for that fed of people telling me they don't want cock pics yet all these people have got their tits cock and pussy on here what am I suppose to put my toes and feet i couple of other pics on and got face pic for private messages "

Personally, I don't think the pics are so much the problem. Thinking that this site is instashag is. Take a look at these 'popular' guys profiles....pics, text and veris!!

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By *olphinmoonCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff & Edinburgh

I love Argos

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Profile needs a lot of work.Punctation ,and grammar really is important if you want things to make sense. At the moment your profile looks really rushed with minimal effort.

The ladies on here get messaged by an unbelievable amount of men who just have cock pics up.Not really original nor flattering in your case. You need to sell yourself.You are not at the moment.if you messaged us I'd look at your profile and then delete. I wouldn't even show Cath your profile nor the message

Think of this site as an extension of real life. How easy is it to go out and pick up a girl in town for NSA fun when you are feeling horny? As you know it's Not that easy at all, and it's no different on here. In fact I'd say it's harder on here,because at least in person they can see you with clothes on, and personality shines through,and you have their undevided attention. On here you are relying on a message,and you several cock pictures..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha ha I love argos shame wasn't a sex argos after all people say it's not about sex on here ??????

What's with all naked pics and orgy scenes am I in the wrong place must be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meathead noticed you have done ok on this site though

Its the beard and the Corsa. Guaranteed fanny magnets

Oooo Dam u!!! Lol and that corsa has well and truly gone thank fook!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cath Neil thank you for your comment you are right it is rushed and no thought I will have to try and make it better but at the moment I am thinking of coming of here to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cath Neil thank you for your comment you are right it is rushed and no thought I will have to try and make it better but at the moment I am thinking of coming of here to be honest

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By *STAXxMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Socials socials socials.... if i can do it anybody can

This is the best advice! Socials are a win win all round they show your genuine and willing to make the effort and also you get to see what people are really like

I'm no Brad Pitt but certainly get to speak to women/couples on here that would probably have deleted my messages otherwise ( even though it would of obviously been really original and side splttingly hilarious!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself to socials and chams, get talking to people and it will happen

On a personal note ditch the dick pic for a profile pic

It doesn't need to be a face pic, but something that intrigues the ladies and leaves something to their imagination

I was lucky to get a few meets from some of the more popular and well know ladies and was lucky to be introduced to others at socials and chams

Get yourself down for the upcoming socials

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey thanks mate ditched the pic what you think of profile pic now better ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey thanks mate ditched the pic what you think of profile pic now better ?"

It's better than a dick pic, have s look at a few of the guys who replied in this forum and see the kind of pics they gave on display

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