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By *ammy-lee OP   Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

Do you always meet someone for a drink first or would you arrange for the guy to come to your house on first meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's whatever you feel comfortable with

I prefer to meet them in a public place first to check they are who they say they are and you get on X

Enjoy whatever you decide x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I ain't no girl but Yeh defo understandable wantin a coffee or something first it's what id rather unless me and the person have been speaking a fair amount of time text phonecall jus saves the whole awkwardness of not being physically attracted to someone

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Always a public first meet on neutral ground. Just to make sure you get on and they match their pics!! Then there is no pressure on either side if things don't go to plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I ain't no girl but Yeh defo understandable wantin a coffee or something first it's what id rather unless me and the person have been speaking a fair amount of time text phonecall jus saves the whole awkwardness of not being physically attracted to someone "

Fancy some fun

I don't want to talk to you thou

Maybe pop it through my car window then leave after you popped your crisp packet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I ain't no girl but Yeh defo understandable wantin a coffee or something first it's what id rather unless me and the person have been speaking a fair amount of time text phonecall jus saves the whole awkwardness of not being physically attracted to someone

Fancy some fun

I don't want to talk to you thou

Maybe pop it through my car window then leave after you popped your crisp packet lol "

Will I get wet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I ain't no girl but Yeh defo understandable wantin a coffee or something first it's what id rather unless me and the person have been speaking a fair amount of time text phonecall jus saves the whole awkwardness of not being physically attracted to someone

Fancy some fun

I don't want to talk to you thou

Maybe pop it through my car window then leave after you popped your crisp packet lol

Will I get wet?"

Not unless you asked to see the magic show lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I ain't no girl but Yeh defo understandable wantin a coffee or something first it's what id rather unless me and the person have been speaking a fair amount of time text phonecall jus saves the whole awkwardness of not being physically attracted to someone

Fancy some fun

I don't want to talk to you thou

Maybe pop it through my car window then leave after you popped your crisp packet lol "

Phew!! Thought ud never want to see my crisp packet trick lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually meet at mine for a cuppa and a chat after chatting on here, to see how we get on.

Im have told guys that have come to mine that I wont play with them and its never been a problem. Its an adult site after all and you cant be every ones cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Will I get wet?

Not unless you asked to see the magic show lol"

It's all in the speed of hands you know that right

The quicker the hand the better the magic trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always a public first meet on neutral ground. Just to make sure you get on and they match their pics!! Then there is no pressure on either side if things don't go to plan "

Yeh but if u do like them don't leave it till the end of the meet for a cheeky kiss pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I ain't no girl but Yeh defo understandable wantin a coffee or something first it's what id rather unless me and the person have been speaking a fair amount of time text phonecall jus saves the whole awkwardness of not being physically attracted to someone

Fancy some fun

I don't want to talk to you thou

Maybe pop it through my car window then leave after you popped your crisp packet lol

Phew!! Thought ud never want to see my crisp packet trick lol "

Is it worth seeing that's the question

Am I going to say omg that's amazing I want more ?

Or wow is that it ?

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Will I get wet?

Not unless you asked to see the magic show lol

It's all in the speed of hands you know that right

The quicker the hand the better the magic trick"

Can't be a man with fast hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I ain't no girl but Yeh defo understandable wantin a coffee or something first it's what id rather unless me and the person have been speaking a fair amount of time text phonecall jus saves the whole awkwardness of not being physically attracted to someone

Fancy some fun

I don't want to talk to you thou

Maybe pop it through my car window then leave after you popped your crisp packet lol

Phew!! Thought ud never want to see my crisp packet trick lol

Is it worth seeing that's the question

Am I going to say omg that's amazing I want more ?

Or wow is that it ?

Lol "

It would leave u with one hell of a face on!!! Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I ain't no girl but Yeh defo understandable wantin a coffee or something first it's what id rather unless me and the person have been speaking a fair amount of time text phonecall jus saves the whole awkwardness of not being physically attracted to someone

Fancy some fun

I don't want to talk to you thou

Maybe pop it through my car window then leave after you popped your crisp packet lol

Phew!! Thought ud never want to see my crisp packet trick lol

Is it worth seeing that's the question

Am I going to say omg that's amazing I want more ?

Or wow is that it ?

Lol

It would leave u with one hell of a face on!!! Pmsl"

Be careful what you say I might make you prove it

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Always a public first meet on neutral ground. Just to make sure you get on and they match their pics!! Then there is no pressure on either side if things don't go to plan

Yeh but if u do like them don't leave it till the end of the meet for a cheeky kiss pmsl "

If I could read guys better I wouldn't

On the other hand, if the guy wanted to pounce earlier he should have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I ain't no girl but Yeh defo understandable wantin a coffee or something first it's what id rather unless me and the person have been speaking a fair amount of time text phonecall jus saves the whole awkwardness of not being physically attracted to someone

Fancy some fun

I don't want to talk to you thou

Maybe pop it through my car window then leave after you popped your crisp packet lol

Phew!! Thought ud never want to see my crisp packet trick lol

Is it worth seeing that's the question

Am I going to say omg that's amazing I want more ?

Or wow is that it ?

Lol

It would leave u with one hell of a face on!!! Pmsl

Be careful what you say I might make you prove it "

Oh that would be sooo evil of u please don't!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right that's it

You have forced my hand

I'm simply going to have to see this packet now

What you doing next week in the evenings ?

I will drive up you pop it in the window and see if you can shock me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right that's it

You have forced my hand

I'm simply going to have to see this packet now

What you doing next week in the evenings ?

I will drive up you pop it in the window and see if you can shock me "

And guys complain on here bout havin no success!!! See one packet of crisps trick later boom!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always a public first meet on neutral ground. Just to make sure you get on and they match their pics!! Then there is no pressure on either side if things don't go to plan

Yeh but if u do like them don't leave it till the end of the meet for a cheeky kiss pmsl

If I could read guys better I wouldn't

On the other hand, if the guy wanted to pounce earlier he should have "

Gentleman see Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my single profile I'd Mostly meet on neutral ground for a coffee in the first instance & then arrange a fun meet at a later date if we both got on, although there were occasions when I was so horny I would post a play meet. Think I've only ever met cold & played on 3 maybe 4 occasions over the past 6 years, I generally need to feel comfy with someone to get intimate, unless it's a group or couple situation. I think we each need to follow our own way on this, just do what feels right for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly arrange socials in a public place...

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

This my get me in to trouble and also why i never get many random meets...i'm not really one for meeting peeps for drinks or coffee its a little bit to much like dating imho, i love the big arranged socials and meeting people at chams.But i'm not here to meet people in starbucks or spoons unless i've met them previously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Durin the war, back in the day when I was in chat alot I had many meats at a game home but I had been chatting for some time with them.

If it's just via message and only a short space of time I agree a neutral place would be the right way to meet.

Sod it ! I'm 5 kind you may decide you want to go the whole hog !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my prdictive text is shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you always meet someone for a drink first or would you arrange for the guy to come to your house on first meet?"

Drink first if we don get on or no attraction it's easier to walk away from public place x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I d not meet at mine as its my safe haven and I ve heard so many horror stories of men turning up un announced at your home - so either at there's or a club X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I d not meet at mine as its my safe haven and I ve heard so many horror stories of men turning up un announced at your home - so either at there's or a club X "

I've had that happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always meet in public first somewhere there is cctv. You never no what's going on in the others persons head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always meet for a social first

Then decide if we'll take things further on the next meet!

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By *ammy-lee OP   Woman
over a year ago

Swansea


"I d not meet at mine as its my safe haven and I ve heard so many horror stories of men turning up un announced at your home - so either at there's or a club X "

I feel the same its my home not a knocking shop! So where do you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local pub or even just a coffee in a Starbucks or cost a ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social drink on a public place x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I d not meet at mine as its my safe haven and I ve heard so many horror stories of men turning up un announced at your home - so either at there's or a club X "

Ive only had it happen with one guy and I soon put him straight. It that only happened this year after being on here 8-9 years.

My house isnt a knocking shop, I get to know people on here and then by phone before I meet them.

I feel its a bit unfair to expect the guys to accommodate all the when you wont have anyone at your place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh how the forums make me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I d not meet at mine as its my safe haven and I ve heard so many horror stories of men turning up un announced at your home - so either at there's or a club X

Ive only had it happen with one guy and I soon put him straight. It that only happened this year after being on here 8-9 years.

My house isnt a knocking shop, I get to know people on here and then by phone before I meet them.

I feel its a bit unfair to expect the guys to accommodate all the when you wont have anyone at your place.

"

It s each to their own - I don't accommodate as its my home and for that fact it's my safe haven - there are hotels / clubs /pubs etc ppl can meet so it's not being unfair to any guy ! I certainly don't have to explain what I do to anyone

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