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By *nighthood75 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rhondda

Any one meet married men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any one meet married men?"

Did many moons ago when I first started swinging. Was just easier as I wasn't looking for anything more than sex. Then I realised I was doing what I would never want done to me and cheating with another womans husband and will never ever again unless a couple of who swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does still happen on here. I've met a few people now who understand the situation when given chance to explain it's just getting that chance that helps lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did as a single female but got called scum by other women here for admitting it. Don't give a fuck now & I'd meet whoever I want when I'm looking again X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did as a single female but got called scum by other women here for admitting it. Don't give a fuck now & I'd meet whoever I want when I'm looking again X"

Spot on!! The people that judge on here have probably done it themselves lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never knowingly meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think each to their own & I get why they're so judgemental but having been the woman at home for many a year I've learnt it'll happen regardless of my actions or their judgement x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time, even male half of couples who post here, dont think they tell the wife xx

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town


"Any one meet married men?

Did many moons ago when I first started swinging. Was just easier as I wasn't looking for anything more than sex. Then I realised I was doing what I would never want done to me and cheating with another womans husband and will never ever again unless a couple of who swing."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some pretty strong(!) opinions on it in the past on the basis that it split my family up a few years ago and I had to mop up the mess and play mediator.

I'm a bit older and a lot more chilled out these days, so I now tend to lean towards the 'each to his own' view. Not for me personally though, I don't fancy an angry wife yelling down the phone at me. Sometimes it's easier for a woman to hate the other woman in question rather than the man she loves.

As long as it's on their profile clearly, then I have the option to not put myself in that position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had some pretty strong(!) opinions on it in the past on the basis that it split my family up a few years ago and I had to mop up the mess and play mediator.

I'm a bit older and a lot more chilled out these days, so I now tend to lean towards the 'each to his own' view. Not for me personally though, I don't fancy an angry wife yelling down the phone at me. Sometimes it's easier for a woman to hate the other woman in question rather than the man she loves.

As long as it's on their profile clearly, then I have the option to not put myself in that position. "

Unfortunately I think that's the problem, not enough honesty on some people's profile. If it's there in black and white then it's upto the other party to say yay or nay lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't for the reason I was verbally attacked once for being with someone who had a partner so

Rather than be in the firing line I don't now

Just like to say though I met unknowingly that he had a partner?

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Ok, I'm scum of the earth!

I meet attached guys. Everyone has their reasons for being on here. As long as I know from the beginning I can make up my mind if I will meet them or not.

There are lots and lots of reasons for guys and women to do it. They shouldn't all be judged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a few socials with married men, and if there's a connection, i may just take it further but if I'm honest it rarely happens, because they can only do daytime meets and my daytimes are precious to me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done yes

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, I'm scum of the earth!

I meet attached guys. Everyone has their reasons for being on here. As long as I know from the beginning I can make up my mind if I will meet them or not.

There are lots and lots of reasons for guys and women to do it. They shouldn't all be judged."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a rather hilarious oops moment with somebody I didn't know was married a few years ago.

Had been chatting with a guy for at least 6 months, I was told he was in the army... Anyway, we mulled over what he wanted to do trying before he was bi (first time with a guy).

To say the constant exchange of messages got me hot under the collar was an understatement - anyhow, he wanted to try being sub and wanted me to force myself upon him and fuck him in a role play situation... He walks in whilst I'm working pretending to drop something off - I demand X,Y,Z because he's late and we go from there. So everything is set and planned.

Day arrives, he started texting me from early morning full of excitement and then about an hour before we were due to meet he asked me would I mind if he wore women's underwear... We'll it's not my thing at all but he was hot as fuck and I'd been waiting to have this guy for a long time - so I agreed it was cool as long as I could add that into the role play of him being a sissy then forcing him to do X,Y,Z

Time arrives, I'm still working on a house alone and I can hear the front door open - in he comes like god, with anticipation of what was about to happen I got hard right away - played out my part, he ripped his top off, I nearly fell off the step ladder laughing at this seriously ripped guy wearing a bra - so walked over to him and we started getting at it, I've never felt sparks fly like it before - foreplay over with, I force him into all fours , condom, lube, warn him it's gonna hurt... Whack my cock in and he's screaming (but it's what he wanted) - failing to hear the front door opening over him moaning and screaming I look up to see the hallway door open and two women walking in furiously and then one running over and kicking him in the face

Other comes over and pulls me out of him and she's shouting and screaming at me.

They then both turn on him and pretty much chase him out of the house wearing a bra and a woman's thong kicking and screaming at him.

One neighbour saw him run to his car, I just spent the next couple of hours laughing at what just happened.

Anyway, a few days later I get a knock on the door of the house I'm working on and it was him... He asked if I was alone and asked if he could come in.

Turns out he was married, his wife and his SISTER followed him because he's been acting suspicious for a while - the underwear he was wearing was his wife's - they'd now split up - we become fuck buddies for a few months then become too good of friends to continue having sex kinda.

Story didn't end there, his now ex wife and his sister are together

So in answer to your question, I wouldn't meet a married guy again and question any guy I speak with to be honest if they're married, if they say yes they get blocked... I live very near a police station now so can't have that happening again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a rather hilarious oops moment with somebody I didn't know was married a few years ago.

Had been chatting with a guy for at least 6 months, I was told he was in the army... Anyway, we mulled over what he wanted to do trying before he was bi (first time with a guy).

To say the constant exchange of messages got me hot under the collar was an understatement - anyhow, he wanted to try being sub and wanted me to force myself upon him and fuck him in a role play situation... He walks in whilst I'm working pretending to drop something off - I demand X,Y,Z because he's late and we go from there. So everything is set and planned.

Day arrives, he started texting me from early morning full of excitement and then about an hour before we were due to meet he asked me would I mind if he wore women's underwear... We'll it's not my thing at all but he was hot as fuck and I'd been waiting to have this guy for a long time - so I agreed it was cool as long as I could add that into the role play of him being a sissy then forcing him to do X,Y,Z

Time arrives, I'm still working on a house alone and I can hear the front door open - in he comes like god, with anticipation of what was about to happen I got hard right away - played out my part, he ripped his top off, I nearly fell off the step ladder laughing at this seriously ripped guy wearing a bra - so walked over to him and we started getting at it, I've never felt sparks fly like it before - foreplay over with, I force him into all fours , condom, lube, warn him it's gonna hurt... Whack my cock in and he's screaming (but it's what he wanted) - failing to hear the front door opening over him moaning and screaming I look up to see the hallway door open and two women walking in furiously and then one running over and kicking him in the face

Other comes over and pulls me out of him and she's shouting and screaming at me.

They then both turn on him and pretty much chase him out of the house wearing a bra and a woman's thong kicking and screaming at him.

One neighbour saw him run to his car, I just spent the next couple of hours laughing at what just happened.

Anyway, a few days later I get a knock on the door of the house I'm working on and it was him... He asked if I was alone and asked if he could come in.

Turns out he was married, his wife and his SISTER followed him because he's been acting suspicious for a while - the underwear he was wearing was his wife's - they'd now split up - we become fuck buddies for a few months then become too good of friends to continue having sex kinda.

Story didn't end there, his now ex wife and his sister are together

So in answer to your question, I wouldn't meet a married guy again and question any guy I speak with to be honest if they're married, if they say yes they get blocked... I live very near a police station now so can't have that happening again "

Sat in work with actual tears streaming down my face! This is my favourite Fab story ever! Oh my fucking god...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a rather hilarious oops moment with somebody I didn't know was married a few years ago.

Had been chatting with a guy for at least 6 months, I was told he was in the army... Anyway, we mulled over what he wanted to do trying before he was bi (first time with a guy).

To say the constant exchange of messages got me hot under the collar was an understatement - anyhow, he wanted to try being sub and wanted me to force myself upon him and fuck him in a role play situation... He walks in whilst I'm working pretending to drop something off - I demand X,Y,Z because he's late and we go from there. So everything is set and planned.

Day arrives, he started texting me from early morning full of excitement and then about an hour before we were due to meet he asked me would I mind if he wore women's underwear... We'll it's not my thing at all but he was hot as fuck and I'd been waiting to have this guy for a long time - so I agreed it was cool as long as I could add that into the role play of him being a sissy then forcing him to do X,Y,Z

Time arrives, I'm still working on a house alone and I can hear the front door open - in he comes like god, with anticipation of what was about to happen I got hard right away - played out my part, he ripped his top off, I nearly fell off the step ladder laughing at this seriously ripped guy wearing a bra - so walked over to him and we started getting at it, I've never felt sparks fly like it before - foreplay over with, I force him into all fours , condom, lube, warn him it's gonna hurt... Whack my cock in and he's screaming (but it's what he wanted) - failing to hear the front door opening over him moaning and screaming I look up to see the hallway door open and two women walking in furiously and then one running over and kicking him in the face

Other comes over and pulls me out of him and she's shouting and screaming at me.

They then both turn on him and pretty much chase him out of the house wearing a bra and a woman's thong kicking and screaming at him.

One neighbour saw him run to his car, I just spent the next couple of hours laughing at what just happened.

Anyway, a few days later I get a knock on the door of the house I'm working on and it was him... He asked if I was alone and asked if he could come in.

Turns out he was married, his wife and his SISTER followed him because he's been acting suspicious for a while - the underwear he was wearing was his wife's - they'd now split up - we become fuck buddies for a few months then become too good of friends to continue having sex kinda.

Story didn't end there, his now ex wife and his sister are together

So in answer to your question, I wouldn't meet a married guy again and question any guy I speak with to be honest if they're married, if they say yes they get blocked... I live very near a police station now so can't have that happening again "

Thank you reading that has put the biggest smile on my face. Just what I needed xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got an even better one about a virgin, a farmer, car fun and the RAC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've played with a few married men with there wives consent, but couldn't and will never play if they are doing it behind the wife's back. It's just wrong wrong wrong sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you choose to meet "solo, unattached guys" then statistically it's a done deal that many, maybe the majority, will be either married or in some form of relationship.

You can equally be certain that whatever they say, unless they admit to being married, may be a lie designed to butter up to any concerns you have made?

So . . ask yourself this question : do you have a right to define and control their life? NO, you don't . . so why restrict your choices for recreational sex?

We have met solo guys and will undoubtedly continue to do so who have been married . . and we'd rather be chummy with a guy honest enough to state his circumstances than one who feels pressured by other couples attitudes to hide them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you choose to meet "solo, unattached guys" then statistically it's a done deal that many, maybe the majority, will be either married or in some form of relationship.

You can equally be certain that whatever they say, unless they admit to being married, may be a lie designed to butter up to any concerns you have made?

So . . ask yourself this question : do you have a right to define and control their life? NO, you don't . . so why restrict your choices for recreational sex?

We have met solo guys and will undoubtedly continue to do so who have been married . . and we'd rather be chummy with a guy honest enough to state his circumstances than one who feels pressured by other couples attitudes to hide them? "

So very true, I know some of the moral few here meet attached guys & they justify by saying they don't know so it's ok. Same in clubs & parties etc. The reality is there are very few truly single guys on these sites X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got an even better one about a virgin, a farmer, car fun and the RAC

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Can't wait to read that one pmsl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you choose to meet "solo, unattached guys" then statistically it's a done deal that many, maybe the majority, will be either married or in some form of relationship.

You can equally be certain that whatever they say, unless they admit to being married, may be a lie designed to butter up to any concerns you have made?

So . . ask yourself this question : do you have a right to define and control their life? NO, you don't . . so why restrict your choices for recreational sex?

We have met solo guys and will undoubtedly continue to do so who have been married . . and we'd rather be chummy with a guy honest enough to state his circumstances than one who feels pressured by other couples attitudes to hide them?

So very true, I know some of the moral few here meet attached guys & they justify by saying they don't know so it's ok. Same in clubs & parties etc. The reality is there are very few truly single guys on these sites X"

So true that even if they are single majority of guys on here lie and say anything to get in your knickers and the ones that have been doing it for years are expert at it so I don't trust anyone now from bitter experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got an even better one about a virgin, a farmer, car fun and the RAC

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You must tell these stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got an even better one about a virgin, a farmer, car fun and the RAC

You must tell these stories"

I will when I get some time

Bit of a long one (or short when I tell the story haha)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do, ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whether they are married or not is up to them

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By *expests2024Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff Orientated

We have met married men... They usually tell us after the event over tea and biscuits

We actually couldn't care less... It's not like they are having affairs, it's just fucking... Don't lose sight of what this site is all about...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is about what each individual wants from it,

I don't care if they're married or have a partner though, I didn't pledge loyalty to their lady, did I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't knowingly meet married/attached men. This may be swinging but it's still good to avoid innocent people getting hurt as a result of our actions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many of you would willingly give the married man the chance to prove his wife is very much ok with him meeting others? I assume there would need to be a physical attraction first of course.

The reason why I have said that is because i am constantly getting the cold shoulder at the moment which I did fully expect when I created my account. Both my wife and I have solo accounts as well as a couples account. We have only recently taken the plunge with individual meets but not had any couples ones yet. Long story short this came about via a horny conversation about her mate who she is now seeing regularly (which I love the idea of) and naturally she likes the fact that I have the openness.

Anyway, I just digressed a fair bit so I'll stop now haha. You now have a bit of history behind my account. I just don't hold out much hope currently.

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