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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My general motto on Fab these days is don't go on the forums and don't go to socials. There are too many trouble-makers at these, and besides, l think the best people on fab stay under the radar and away from the gossip. But I had a chat with a fab female friend earlier and I'm livid about something so I felt compelled to post.

She was verbally abused by another woman at a recent organised social and called a "skinny fucking bitch", all because the guy who was chatting her up said to this other women that he wasn't interested and she wasn't his type. She's a lovely girl and it's made my blood boil.

So to all you haters....

1. Stop being competitive! This is not what swinging is about. Who cares if someone else is more or less attractive than you. It doesn't matter.

2. Cliques and popularity contents are absolutely pathetic. Embrace decent people and let it go if you get a knock back.

3. If you find yourself tempted to slag off those who look better than you, take a break from this place and find a new hobby for a bit. Bitterness and jealously are horrible traits.

4. It doesn't matter how long you've been on here or how many close friends you have on here, don't think you know it all or have a right to treat others badly.

5. Single women - don't let the vast number of messages that you receive go to your head. We all get them (well I don't any more as I've blocked single men and I'm hidden).

I am sick of the behaviour of a small number of people on here who talk shit and think they run the show. Sort your lives out and stop picking on others. You are ruining it for others.

Rant over.

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

So, what you're saying is..

'Don't be a cunt, cunt.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I long for the day someone calls me a skinny fucking bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My general motto on Fab these days is don't go on the forums and don't go to socials. There are too many trouble-makers at these, and besides, l think the best people on fab stay under the radar and away from the gossip. But I had a chat with a fab female friend earlier and I'm livid about something so I felt compelled to post.

She was verbally abused by another woman at a recent organised social and called a "skinny fucking bitch", all because the guy who was chatting her up said to this other women that he wasn't interested and she wasn't his type. She's a lovely girl and it's made my blood boil.

So to all you haters....

1. Stop being competitive! This is not what swinging is about. Who cares if someone else is more or less attractive than you. It doesn't matter.

2. Cliques and popularity contents are absolutely pathetic. Embrace decent people and let it go if you get a knock back.

3. If you find yourself tempted to slag off those who look better than you, take a break from this place and find a new hobby for a bit. Bitterness and jealously are horrible traits.

4. It doesn't matter how long you've been on here or how many close friends you have on here, don't think you know it all or have a right to treat others badly.

5. Single women - don't let the vast number of messages that you receive go to your head. We all get them (well I don't any more as I've blocked single men and I'm hidden).

I am sick of the behaviour of a small number of people on here who talk shit and think they run the show. Sort your lives out and stop picking on others. You are ruining it for others.

Rant over.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, what you're saying is..

'Don't be a cunt, cunt.'

"

No because there are other women that throw there weight around too. I have been given evil looks by some ugly birds at socials when I'm standing at the bar minding my own business. I've been called a whore because I was looking for a plus one to a club. It's so fucking rude and out of order and unnecessary.

I know it's just jealousy so I don't generally engage with people who clearly have their own issues, but it has pissed me off tonight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I long for the day someone calls me a skinny fucking bitch "

Hey I wanna lose a few pounds too, but seriously - it's not nice to be on the receiving end of an unprovoked attack like that. We are all adults and we should all know better. It's a pathetic and horrible way to behave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I long for the day someone calls me a skinny fucking bitch

Hey I wanna lose a few pounds too, but seriously - it's not nice to be on the receiving end of an unprovoked attack like that. We are all adults and we should all know better. It's a pathetic and horrible way to behave."

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By *ave_diamondMan
over a year ago

Rhyd-y-foel

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By *ave_diamondMan
over a year ago

Rhyd-y-foel

nice tits


"I long for the day someone calls me a skinny fucking bitch

Hey I wanna lose a few pounds too, but seriously - it's not nice to be on the receiving end of an unprovoked attack like that. We are all adults and we should all know better. It's a pathetic and horrible way to behave."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once I have ever been on the receiving end of nastiness from another bird and that was over a guy I had met

Once I reduced the number of fucks I gave to zero, Fab became a much better place

I'd advise everyone else to do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true Miss P, I don't give a fuck most the time, don't run with a clique or a group, but now n again some think twat of a bird comes along & gets right under my skin & they're usually the same ones who need to see 100's of messages per day, have to be publicly adored & validated & aren't happy unless they've put down x number of people per day. I totally get where the op is coming from but you eventually learn to grow a thick skin around here, that & withdrawing totally from the local scene because it's easier X

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Haters gonna hate..... and they feed on your discomfort.

So, starve them of the sustenance they crave, and give them the finger, either figuratively, or for real.

They will stew in their own juice if they see that their attempts at hurting you have failed, their own bile will eat away at them, and while you are out there having fun, they will be sat in dark corners, ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haters gonna hate..... and they feed on your discomfort.

So, starve them of the sustenance they crave, and give them the finger, either figuratively, or for real.

They will stew in their own juice if they see that their attempts at hurting you have failed, their own bile will eat away at them, and while you are out there having fun, they will be sat in dark corners, ignored. "

I wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinkerbell I would honestly say grow a thicker skin and let it go over your head. If I took every nasty look or snide remark over the years to heart I'd have left a long time ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only once I have ever been on the receiving end of nastiness from another bird and that was over a guy I had met

Once I reduced the number of fucks I gave to zero, Fab became a much better place

I'd advise everyone else to do the same "

Likewise miss P

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Thing it's not narrowed down just to this area. Happens all over! It's the way society is unfortunately. Just have toturn the other cheek and let them get on with it! Being bitter and twisted in life doesn't get you anywhere. Just enjoy what you do and fuck the rest! (In a figurative term )

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By *lanelliguy92Man
over a year ago

Llanelli

Totally agree, I've received physical and verbal abuse from people for the majority of my life (none on here as of yet) but I have found that ignoring them tends to be the best approach as then they will now the absolute lack of fucks I give for their opinion.

The only opinion about yourself that matters is your own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kinkerbell I would honestly say grow a thicker skin and let it go over your head. If I took every nasty look or snide remark over the years to heart I'd have left a long time ago "

My skin is thick enough. It's the attitude of a small number of people on here that needs to change. Think about it guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of love for this post

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By *iggers4uCouple
over a year ago

Over down by There

If they are so bitter and twisted...........they probably a crap shag too......

Just concentrate on the nice peeps

They bitter ones can go f**k themselves......again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My general motto on Fab these days is don't go on the forums and don't go to socials. There are too many trouble-makers at these, and besides, l think the best people on fab stay under the radar and away from the gossip. But I had a chat with a fab female friend earlier and I'm livid about something so I felt compelled to post.

She was verbally abused by another woman at a recent organised social and called a "skinny fucking bitch", all because the guy who was chatting her up said to this other women that he wasn't interested and she wasn't his type. She's a lovely girl and it's made my blood boil.

So to all you haters....

1. Stop being competitive! This is not what swinging is about. Who cares if someone else is more or less attractive than you. It doesn't matter.

2. Cliques and popularity contents are absolutely pathetic. Embrace decent people and let it go if you get a knock back.

3. If you find yourself tempted to slag off those who look better than you, take a break from this place and find a new hobby for a bit. Bitterness and jealously are horrible traits.

4. It doesn't matter how long you've been on here or how many close friends you have on here, don't think you know it all or have a right to treat others badly.

5. Single women - don't let the vast number of messages that you receive go to your head. We all get them (well I don't any more as I've blocked single men and I'm hidden).

I am sick of the behaviour of a small number of people on here who talk shit and think they run the show. Sort your lives out and stop picking on others. You are ruining it for others.

Rant over.

"

Well said OP there are some on here who take great pleasure in making other people miserable. Fab used to be great but now too many divas amongst the women and too many time wasters amongst the men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just add that men can be just as, if not more, nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We recieved a message the other day from a woman in a couple which was rather abusive, as we had not replied to their message. Calling us not real swingings and that we shouldnt be on here. Shame as its put a dampener on something we enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We recieved a message the other day from a woman in a couple which was rather abusive, as we had not replied to their message. Calling us not real swingings and that we shouldnt be on here. Shame as its put a dampener on something we enjoy "

Yes, couples can be just as bad too. A while back a couple from Neath msgd me (I'm in Caerphilly btw) pretty much demanding a meet as they had time off work. When I replied with a 'no thanks' they retorted with 'you really are up your own arse'. Had they read my profile first it would have saved us all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinkerbell I would honestly say grow a thicker skin and let it go over your head. If I took every nasty look or snide remark over the years to heart I'd have left a long time ago

My skin is thick enough. It's the attitude of a small number of people on here that needs to change. Think about it guys."

I'm glad it is hun you just sounded as if it was getting to you.

Everything on here pretty much goes over my head these days and I keep well out of the bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi group I'm not here for a popularity contest just to make friends and have fun I say if a minority on here think there going to bitch and be divas then walk on by because if the dont and be on the receiving end of my wraith then its there own doing I'm not going to stand back and except it and so should no one else

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

My view on all this Hun is if your black white blue--tall small skinny or fat---YOUR EITHER A TWAT OR YOUR NOT!!--so keep to your nice ways and let these sad fukkas who think they patented the word swinging and rule over it all to go fuck themselves!!--I got no doubt they're fast running out of people to do it for them lmao!!!--jeep on smiling!!!!!!

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