FabSwingers.com forum: still here after a year

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's been a year on this site no improvement yet. Hopes or high. Updated pics and profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's been a year on this site no improvement yet. Hopes or high. Updated pics and profile. "

You say you have updated your profile, yet there is one sentence!?

Also you have two, pretty poor photos.

Suggestions - put in at least a fee paragraphs about yourself, what your likes, dislikes, experience, meet availability. Also put in some better photos!! Personally as a SF I don't want to see your pants and cock but that is just me! How about full body with no face or torso etc etc.

To me that profile looks like no effort has been made....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pics are poor and the profile is extremely brief

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

And of course something that always improves your luck on this site is having a moan in the forums about how unlucky you are

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok i have to agree

Your profile is very poor

How can you expect people to make the effort if your not going to

I get that males join and come on threads and ask for advice but surely after a year you must have picked up a few tips

Just add a few photos

Don't have to be or cock

And add a little more info about you

Happy swinging

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

To be honest, you've had plenty of advice and comments in previous threads.

It still won't be easy if you do get a decent profile sorted out; it isn't for most blokes though. At least you'll be doing all you can then though and you'll give yourself a fighting chance.

People were being genuine when they said your profile needed work previously. Maybe have a look at ones from guys who are well established on here. It simply won't happen with a poor profile I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year with no effort & as has already been said no effort on the profile indicates to the single female, no effort in the bedroom x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I love the updated profile. When exactly did you add the full stop at the end ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha ha have taken a look at other mens profiles. Not much different to mine. Just simple mathematics more men on here than women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha ha have taken a look at other mens profiles. Not much different to mine. Just simple mathematics more men on here than women. "

Absolutely spot on. Men outnumber couples and females by 100's to 1 but the guys that get the success are the ones who make an effort with their profile text and pictures.

Most of the others come on the forum and complain about lack of meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's what forums are all about. Why else have them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think the forums are here just for people to complain?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your profile is good. But a little to much info. That's what you might for is to find out mor about them. I think you took the fun out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile is good. But a little to much info. That's what you might for is to find out mor about them. I think you took the fun out of it. "

That made me lol, I think they're the ones having fun because you certainly aren't x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some people have a nack for pointing our the obvious. Obviously I'm not ever going to be happy. So I'm just trying for second best. Or third. Or four. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile is good. But a little to much info. That's what you might for is to find out mor about them. I think you took the fun out of it. "

Well thanks for your input we'll give it some thought , ok thought about it and I think we'll leave it as it is

Most guys don't even read it anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looks like another boring weekend ahead. Been let down by to meets already. Lol.

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

"Ha ha have taken a look at other mens profiles. Not much different to mine. Just simple mathematics more men on here than women. "

I'm a minger mate but I made a effort with my profile and took on broad advice from others here. started going to the socials and it snowball from than on its the only way to achieve success here and show your genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha ha have taken a look at other mens profiles. Not much different to mine. Just simple mathematics more men on here than women.

YOU, Mr Max Banging, couldn't be further from a minger if you tried, beautiful inside and out xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do not have a body like that . So I might as well give up now. Bye all.

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

"Ha ha have taken a look at other mens profiles. Not much different to mine. Just simple mathematics more men on here than women.

YOU, Mr Max Banging, couldn't be further from a minger if you tried, beautiful inside and out xxxxxxx

Awww I'm honored babe your rather beautiful yourself my friend

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good things come to those who wait.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's the time limit on that? I've been waiting for years now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do not have a body like that . So I might as well give up now. Bye all. "

Self pity isn't the most attractive trait

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Done that got t shit etc etc etc.

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

I travel quite a lot in here whether it is to social events in south Wales or club meets away because if I relied in this area I would hardly meet anyone. I think with some motivation and application you would do much better on here than just moan about it in the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your comments . I am not good in social events. I hate crowds of people. So socials would not be my thing. And before you ask I don't have a thing. Not interested in sport etc. Etc. I just work eat sleep repeat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd also suggest extending your age ranges, surely 23-30 when you're 42 is a bit limiting.

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By *alleycplCouple
over a year ago

gobblers knob

"Ha ha have taken a look at other mens profiles. Not much different to mine. Just simple mathematics more men on here than women.

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you are a bit of a minger max lol THIS IS A JOKE HONEST YOUR A DECENT GUY EVEN IF YOU ARE AFRAID OF JELLY BEANS LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on the site almost a year mate.. and it's absolutely brilliant!!! Go to socials get verified show people you are who you say you are and can be trusted.. you need to start off by meeting other swingers and getting to be known in the scene.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Duh that is why I am here. Like I said I don't like social events. I don't like crowds or crowded places like pubs, shops clubs or even outside events with lots of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do not have a body like that . So I might as well give up now. Bye all. "

Goodbye

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Help required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Help required. "

You have been given advice and have chosen not to take it...

There is no more help anyone can give you to have success on this site.

Suggest you read the advise about your profile and pics

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

South Wales

The longer you wait the better it gets be patient lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The longer you wait the better it gets be patient lol

That's kinda rubbish advice, the more effort you put in to get yourself known the better!

The best written profiles that stand out also get you further - personally I look at profiles before replying/reading a message, a dull profile earns a message delete from me.

Sit back and you'll get nowhere.

Sit and moan - same result.

But even those well known on the scene don't get meets at the drop of a hat.

Two diaries and responsibilities don't always match.

Most seasoned on the scene only really meet quality over quantity too... Tending to look for specifics and connection over random mediocre sex for the sake of it.

This site isn't instafuck, if you thought it was you were highly wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So let's get this right...

You ask for advise and you're given plenty of it. Better profile. ..you criticise that of those that offer this. Attend socials ....they're not for you. Decent pics. ..you want to leave to the imagination.

You don't want advise you want a miracle tbh

As a previous sf all I can say is ha!!!!

You offered as bye....so guess what BYE

Nectar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your comments . I am not good in social events. I hate crowds of people. So socials would not be my thing. And before you ask I don't have a thing. Not interested in sport etc. Etc. I just work eat sleep repeat. "

is there any hope of your not interested in anything!

. I mean what on earth would you talk about on a met plus

how would you be able to meet?

Yet your veri shows you already attended a party so you can't be that shy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is there any hope of your not interested in anything!

. I mean what on earth would you talk about on a met plus

how would you be able to meet?

Yet your veri shows you already attended a party so you can't be that shy !"
Milly put ya glasses on mun, he isn't veried ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is there any hope of your not interested in anything!

. I mean what on earth would you talk about on a met plus

how would you be able to meet?

Yet your veri shows you already attended a party so you can't be that shy !Milly put ya glasses on mun, he isn't veried ????

Think she's banged her head on the headboard one too many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a day time social so it's not as packed!

You are quite local to me, I wouldn't meet you as you sound utterly bored with yourself so why would I feel any different? Jeeeez it's not rocket science is it? Get a social life of some sort!?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Social life I don't need . I have ocd and agriphobia. So public places and crowds don't do it for me. Thanks for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically your fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is there any hope of your not interested in anything!

. I mean what on earth would you talk about on a met plus

how would you be able to meet?

Yet your veri shows you already attended a party so you can't be that shy !Milly put ya glasses on mun, he isn't veried ????

he's hidden them tash

Because he had a Cpl saying he's been to your parties XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is there any hope of your not interested in anything!

. I mean what on earth would you talk about on a met plus

how would you be able to meet?

Yet your veri shows you already attended a party so you can't be that shy !Milly put ya glasses on mun, he isn't veried ????

he's hidden them tash

Because he had a Cpl saying he's been to your parties XXX

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??? Never met him , he hasn't got the green tick mun.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is there any hope of your not interested in anything!

. I mean what on earth would you talk about on a met plus

how would you be able to meet?

Yet your veri shows you already attended a party so you can't be that shy !Milly put ya glasses on mun, he isn't veried ????

he's hidden them tash

Because he had a Cpl saying he's been to your parties XXX

??? Never met him , he hasn't got the green tick mun....."

Lol I must be losing it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Social life I don't need . I have ocd and agriphobia. So public places and crowds don't do it for me. Thanks for the advice. "

If agriphobia is anywhere near as life changing as agoraphobia I empathise with you, in fact I am now contemplating dispatching several of my favourite ladies in a chauffer driven limousine as I post, if I only had your address

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By *pples123456Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm still here after 10 years , never met anyone, don't do socials, or parties ,, and my veris well people keep sending them as they think they've met me,, I'm way to shy for that .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still here after 10 years , never met anyone, don't do socials, or parties ,, and my veris well people keep sending them as they think they've met me,, I'm way to shy for that ....."
Shy my fat ass.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That would not work.

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By *jcmjcCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Tom, give it a rest, yeah? Either take all the advice you've been given on this and other threads or dont, that's up to you, but just stop moaning or trying to be awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your not prepared to get out and meet people what do you think will happen

It's all about you

You get out of the site what you put into it

A little effort goes a long way

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