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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm fat ugly old. I've got no change in hell of meeting anyone on this site or any other. Even the expensive sites. Any tips. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt let it bother you.

Im a fat ugly old c**t apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You won't get anywhere with a profile or attitude like that, women aren't usually attracted to whinging men. You need to rewrite your profile making it more positive & you need to drag up & play to your strengths. No one here will take pity on you X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No u r not Bubbs. People only name call because of their own insecurities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think positively

And maybe attend a social get to know people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe love yourself a bit more!!? How can you expect anyone else to like you if you don't like/love yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im old, im fat, looks went a while ago but still enjoy life kiddo just get out and meet at socials you be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No u r not Bubbs. People only name call because of their own insecurities "

Awwh thanks betty.

They have a lot to be insecure about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for All you mesages and input. They are duly noted. As for socials I'm not good with crowds or people. So they would not work with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are not good around people why r u on here then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for All you mesages and input. They are duly noted. As for socials I'm not good with crowds or people. So they would not work with me. "

The day socials aren't that busy thou

Maybe 20-30 people

And you can sit and get to know people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

20 to 30 people. Shit. That's a load. I would not be a happy bunny. I like 3 or 4 people. Lol. Looks like social not my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"20 to 30 people. Shit. That's a load. I would not be a happy bunny. I like 3 or 4 people. Lol. Looks like social not my thing. "

It looks like you dont even want to try. Why ask for help if you cannot help yourself or take on board what others are telling you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take on board these comments. Hopefully you will be successful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because he's yet another single guy who joined thinking that regular sex with multiple partners would fall into his lap just because he's here. No effort on the profile etc = no effort in the bedroom in my experience x

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By *ndyandMandyCouple
over a year ago

swansea

Think this guy is taking the piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt let it bother you.

Im a fat ugly old c**t apparently

"
snap......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear Deirdre, I've been seeing a rather fabulous mirror recently it make me look amazing whilst making my love handles slimming then out of the blue it cracked and left in pieces. What should I do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love your attitude, pretty people aren't always the most attractive until you talk to them. Or, even better, listen to them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people (mainly men)

Are quite why when they first meet new people

But if your not even willing to try and get out there to meet new people then your never going to have much luck on here Hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since when is 42 old? Feck I'm 47 but don't feel a day older than 18. Age is just a number fella. Get out there and enjoy life before you really are old

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks. But I don't get out I suffer from anxiety and ocd. So when I see lots of people I get stressed and go home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks. But I don't get out I suffer from anxiety and ocd. So when I see lots of people I get stressed and go home."

Maybe this site isn't the best place for you to be looking at the moment. There's not a lot of sympathy on here unfortunately and it may do your confidence more harm than good. Hope you find what your looking for my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks. But I don't get out I suffer from anxiety and ocd. So when I see lots of people I get stressed and go home."

Ok I completely sympathise with you

But your letting them control your life

You need to get it under control otherwise how are you going to actually meet anyone

If anyone was thinking about meeting you and read this that would be thinking how do I know he will even turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks. But I don't get out I suffer from anxiety and ocd. So when I see lots of people I get stressed and go home."

I've suffered from anxiety and depression since the birth of my 2nd child 9 years ago (not that you would think it from my exterior) and I know full well that the things that make you feel better are always the hardest to make yourself do.

Locking yourself away on your own is the easiest option but it makes you feel even more shit

I have bad days and lapses but I have a fairly good, medication free grip on it now and it doesn't control me anymore. You have my empathy fully but you have to help yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly this

I suffer with anxiety myself and it's the little things like sleeping or going out that effect me at times

But you have to force yourself to do it

It's the only way things will get better

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