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By *tsallaround OP   Man
over a year ago

merthyr

Recently met a couple who work professionally in one of our emergency services. They have now been repremanded by the said service.

Surely what they do privately has nothing to do with their jobs

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Depends what they had the slapped wrist for.

Were they meeting on work time? Were they using places they work in to meet? Were they showing faces and uniform in pics? There could be a whole lot of reasons why.

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By *tsallaround OP   Man
over a year ago

merthyr

No they were very discreet. But somehow a work colleague found out and reported them

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Sounds like very sour grapes then.

If it's been reported, then the boss has to be seen to be doing something about it

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By *arrapsMan
over a year ago

port talbot

If it's in their own time, and they haven't brought disrespect or disgrace to their jobs, then what does it have to do with management.

It's the person who reported them that should be reprimanded.

I'd be having words with the telltale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really don't get this

I have met several emergency service personnel off here over the years and a few professional sportsmen and have never seen how it can be seen as some form of disciplinairy behaviour

Everyone is entitled to a private life no matter what their line of work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly you're wrong Sexy Miss P, someone I know was recently dismissed, it can be classed as a conduct matter. He appealed with no success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to work for a private sector company and we had to conduct ourselves the same outside work as in work. If not we would be discipled.

Dont get a private life in some jobs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly you're wrong Sexy Miss P, someone I know was recently dismissed, it can be classed as a conduct matter. He appealed with no success "

It is sad Peach, hence why I said I don't get it

As long as someone doesn't abuse their position then I don't understand it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it doesn't interfere with work what's it got to do with anyone what people do in their free time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree & don't think it's right either

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

I know in my profession as well that you can be dismissed for it so am very cautious

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worked for one of the emergency services

and if they thought you were brought them or you self and them into disrepute , you would be disciplined or even sacked.

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By *ce_and_fireCouple
over a year ago

over the rainbow

This situation really pisses me off if your gay or a tv ts or bi and if you you are dismissed for being so then you have rights and the said employers are in trouble.

Yet if you swing you seem to have none.

If you have pics in your works uniform or for instance flaunt where you work then you are asking for trouble.

I have 2 jobs and both employers know that i swing i told them so they knew from me rather than the anonymous phone call ( which they did recieve) and they are fine with it. as both HR managers put it its your life live it as you want.

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

It's a shame in this day and age employers aren't more open minded.

What ever you do in private, in your time away from work, should be no business but your own

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland


"It's a shame in this day and age employers aren't more open minded.

What ever you do in private, in your time away from work, should be no business but your own "

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By *forbigunMan
over a year ago

here

Employers are risking a lot by sacking individuals for swinging because everyone is entitled to a private life, however id you are doing things during work time or turn up in a company vehicle or uniform this can be deemed gross misconduct. If you were not in a company vehicle or uniform then the reality is nothing can be done. Unfortunately there are some people out to destroy organs lives through jealousy so the best thing is never give work details out . I've been quite lucky here I've only met a few people never advertised where I work apart from 1 person here and as much as I wanted to so stuff I never did she could have reported me but didn't but there again she's a top woman so I don't think that's what she's do. But any if you want yo take it further go to a tribunal you'll find it will go in your facour providing you don't advertise your position within a company or organisation

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