FabSwingers.com forum: Finding time

By *reshcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

pembs

We are struggling to find any time atm... We are a busy family of 5, living in a fairly quiet area for swinging. Finding it a bit frustrating as we can't seem to find any decent times that others can also meet. Do others find the same? Is it something people have come through the other side to be back into it? Worried we are loosing the will....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't get the time. Andy and I work opposite shifts now. I get every weekend off at moment and he doesn't that is soon going to change when work change my shifts again. Our 2 free weekends a month 1 is taken up with having the kids the other is time we spend together and really don't want to be looking for a meet. So we simply keep profile open to attend social events when we are able to so we can keep in touch with friends we made. X

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By *uriouscpl71Couple
over a year ago

pembroke dock

Totally agree with both as we are in the same situation. Between kids and work we never get the time for ourselves let alone fun lol. Then add into it what your looking for and the fakes and its turning into mission impossible lol

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Yes this is us too!

We don't live together, I'm in Swansea and he's in Cardiff. We've eight kids between us and we are lucky to see each other a couple of times a week.

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By *reshcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

pembs

Have even considered leaving, but think I'm too addicted to the site lol....

Thinking we have to hang in as in a few years life may be a little easier.

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By *ubicinchMan
over a year ago

Gwynedd

I think it's similar for everyone, we all have a life that gets in the way, whether single or couple. Fitting in something as separate from normal life has its issues, unless you have little ties and don't work etc. Then factor in that all our sexual urges are all over the place, so it can just be a case of getting planets lined up and fingers crossed it all goes to plan.

you mention beaches on your profile, so could you make that a goal? I meet people occasionally that are in my area for Morfa nude beach, it's a target for them, they can get a few days away from things and maybe find some fun along the way for an added bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also have had a busy family life for the last 5 months or so with one of the kids moving back in, Like you our kids will always come first no matter what.

5 months on and we're home alone again, we have a social meet planned with a lovely sounding couple on Saturday night and we're hopefully going to tick off one of our bucket list to do's on Sunday night.

So basically yes it's worth hanging in there as all good things come to those that wait... although it has felt like forever to get this far.

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By *rManyhandsMan
over a year ago

Narberth

I know the feeling. I'm a young widower with 2 teen kids , have an active social life, but it is an interesting juggling act. I'm lucky to have a largish house where my playroom is separate from living area.

Where there is a will to do something there is a way.

Persistence will pay off.. With a little creativity..

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

"Have even considered leaving, but think I'm too addicted to the site lol....

Thinking we have to hang in as in a few years life may be a little easier. "
you are genuinely friendly people who have gained friends on here.work commitments make it difficult for me and traveling also as there are quite a lot of opportunities on the west Midlands club scene although south Wales is good socially

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