FabSwingers.com forum: Competitive.....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do some women on here feel the need to be so competitive. This is a swinging site after all.

What are your view on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel jealous when I see other ladies' amazing pics....but I'd never do anything competitive. Not in my nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too lazy haha. Either you like or you don't. Iv nothing to compete with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be myself

Couldn't compete with anyone

Not worth the hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be myself

Couldn't compete with anyone

Not worth the hassle

I totally agree with you hun

Nothing to compete with. I am who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of bunny boilers on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You can say that again Cari x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be arsed with competition when I had my single profile I opted out of having my pics fabbed, don't see the point in stuff like that. Wouldn't be bothered with veris either, but couples looking for fun seem to require them X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I used to show my veris I had a few messages off jealous women after I had met certain men, since then I keep them private. No interest in drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats why my profile is hidden atm. Cant be doing with hassle or drama. Life is to short x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do some women on here feel the need to be so competitive. This is a swinging site after all.

What are your view on this?

I totally agree with you and it's one of the reasons I generally stay under the radar these days and don't normally go to organised socials or go on the forums (whoops - I've just broken my own rule but I needed a cure for insomnia tonight).

I guess competitive behaviour is a sign of insecurity, vulnerability and jealousy. Plus I think lots of women on here (including me) would ultimately like to find a naughty soulmate, and they feel threatened by other women who are taller, blonder, skinnier, prettier whatever.

It's a pity this happens. It shouldn't be this way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lives to short to be worrying who is doing who or what

Live and let live

It's meant to be a fun site

Now a days to many clingy and needy women for my liking

One meet and they own the bloke

That's the reason I don't meet very often to much hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of bunny boilers on here"

Totally agree Cari. Women who want relationships or guys all to themselves.

The first few years I was on Fab we would recommend who to meet and maybe who to avoid to each other. Couldnt do that now.

These days its all about getting one over on others and having your pics fabbed the most.

Please feel free to fab my pics

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Lots of bunny boilers on here

Totally agree Cari. Women who want relationships or guys all to themselves.

The first few years I was on Fab we would recommend who to meet and maybe who to avoid to each other. Couldnt do that now.

These days its all about getting one over on others and having your pics fabbed the most.

Please feel free to fab my pics

Shame it's still not like that. That way the time wasters and idiots would be ed out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of bunny boilers on here

Totally agree Cari. Women who want relationships or guys all to themselves.

The first few years I was on Fab we would recommend who to meet and maybe who to avoid to each other. Couldnt do that now.

These days its all about getting one over on others and having your pics fabbed the most.

Please feel free to fab my pics

What happened to those days eh? We're not exclusive but people seem intent on putting us in that box, hence why most our fun now takes place off the site, whether that be together or separately. Women seem to want Ch3wy to be mine & me to be Ch3wy's, so far from the truth x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy and competitiveness are both just part of human nature I think...

sometimes if you bave have a connection with somebody then you can't help but want to be with them more than just a one off?

I'm sure many have found love on fab and many have had their hearts broken. Just because it is a swinging site doesn't mean we are always capable of disconnecting feelings.

I'd like to think i am pretty easy going and disconnected (at the moment!) but I'm still new at the moment so who knows what I may feel while meeting other people.

All that aside I would never attack or message another person on here and be openly possessive. When all is said and done, it is what it is and everyone has to keep that in mind I guess

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Notice the men not getting involved in this conversation. Very wise, guys.

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By *INKYCAT123Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Crazy!! I have heard about a select few fems on here. Also had a few messeging me telling me to stay away from certain single guys all because they think they own them because they've met them a few times. Totally understand if they are in a couple or starting something more but that is not the case!

Also been shown a few messages that's been wrote about me which clearly ain't true!!

I know the certain girls that's out to try and corse drama and I tend to stay well clear..

At the end of the day it's a swinging site!!!!

Happy Thursday all

kat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of bunny boilers on here

Totally agree Cari. Women who want relationships or guys all to themselves.

The first few years I was on Fab we would recommend who to meet and maybe who to avoid to each other. Couldnt do that now.

These days its all about getting one over on others and having your pics fabbed the most.

Please feel free to fab my pics

well said bubbs

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By *olphinmoonCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff & Edinburgh

We have been stung, now we block and meet who we want too. It's a crazy world out there but the friends we have made on fab keep me sane!!!

Just remember they are insecure, jealous and raving lunatics wishing they were just like us getting meets and attention!!

My fab motto in life is "have fun but don't open your heart too much", and never forget what site it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think ur all lovely well the ones who are nice to me any way. Totally agree tho with this forum some women and men on here are so rude who cares what size or looks. As long they are polite and have a good sense of humour. No need for this bickering going on. This site has changed a lot to much bitcheness going on.

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

It's fun site let live it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's fun site let live it."

Its suppose to be but some people they take it to the next level. For me no hassle no drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To many clingy needy people

Soon as they have one meet they think they own the person

What happened to the fun side of things

It's the main reason I don't bother meeting I can't be bothered with the shit you get

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Personally i think whoever you meet is nobody else business but the people involved.

Mutual adults e njoying what this site is about!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh of course

But if one person is trying to make out its more then it is to stop others meeting the other people or starts thinking it's more then just a meet it gets awkward

Some people on here seem to want to date every people they have a meet with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't help but be competitive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But surely wot goes on between other people, what business is it of anyone elses. Also some people only hear wot they want to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know makes and females who have met someone then they got shity about them meeting others

I also know of people lying to put people off meeting others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And then there are those who make demands on guys BEFORE they meet ie he has to stop playing with certain other women first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bunny boilers I tell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's all bullshit if you ask me

It used to be fun on here

Now to many people seems to want to get one over on others

Or people who have nothing better to do with their time then cause trouble for others

It's both sad and pathetic

But I guess if that's the only thing they have in their life then it says a lot about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single male not looking for a relationship I find it all too tedious and no fun !!!

That's why I only meet single women at parties and clubs !!!

There should be a box on the profiles that states looking for more that way we can decide if we want to meet these people

I for one would avoid but would be very helpful for the like minded out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bunny boilers I tell you"

He said, she said.....don't meet him, her , them......it's a swinging site ffs.... site is not what it used to be with all the sad bitchiness.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bunny boilers I tell you

He said, she said.....don't meet him, her , them......it's a swinging site ffs.... site is not what it used to be with all the sad bitchiness........."

Couldnt agree more with you fiesty. Hope you have a great night tonight xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bunny boilers I tell you

He said, she said.....don't meet him, her , them......it's a swinging site ffs.... site is not what it used to be with all the sad bitchiness.........

Couldnt agree more with you fiesty. Hope you have a great night tonight xx"

Oh we will....us Welsh Mafia always do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cari where ever you are there will always be a good time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bunny boilers I tell you

He said, she said.....don't meet him, her , them......it's a swinging site ffs.... site is not what it used to be with all the sad bitchiness.........

Couldnt agree more with you fiesty. Hope you have a great night tonight xx"
. There are some people who have to comment on every thread making out they are sooooooo nice, when in actual fact they are evil, vicious people. We always have a blast and your welcome to come any time and partyyyyyyyy.

. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some people who have to comment on every thread making out they are sooooooo nice, when in actual fact they are evil, vicious people.x"

I couldn't have put it better myself

It's also the people who gang up on others I can't stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bunny boilers I tell you

He said, she said.....don't meet him, her , them......it's a swinging site ffs.... site is not what it used to be with all the sad bitchiness.........

Couldnt agree more with you fiesty. Hope you have a great night tonight xx. There are some people who have to comment on every thread making out they are sooooooo nice, when in actual fact they are evil, vicious people. We always have a blast and your welcome to come any time and partyyyyyyyy.

. xxx"

Thanks for the offer, may take you up on it one day xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some people who have to comment on every thread making out they are sooooooo nice, when in actual fact they are evil, vicious people.x

I couldn't have put it better myself

It's also the people who gang up on others I can't stand

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Pot , kettle, black springs to mind. !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some people who have to comment on every thread making out they are sooooooo nice, when in actual fact they are evil, vicious people.x

I couldn't have put it better myself

It's also the people who gang up on others I can't stand

Pot , kettle, black springs to mind. !!!!!!"

Exactly

People in glass houses and all that stuff

It's like people who can't pay their own bills

Yet party all the time

It's a crazy world we live in

But life's to short for all this crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just can't see what goes on under their own nose............SNORT !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure they do

But they probably don't leave others paying their bills making out their skint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who slag people off should get facts right..............anyway i will rise above. If you want to get personal see me face to face instead of hiding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hide from anyone

I just have a real life which is more important then having petty arguments on here

But it's funny

You wanna start with the personal digs then don't like it when the tables turn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can u all just chill out ffs. Enjoy the site have fun that's what it's all about not so slag each other off. Does it matter what we all look like big small short fat ect who cares. Ladies relax and enjoy life

life is to short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it is to short as I've seen to many times lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't hide from anyone

I just have a real life which is more important then having petty arguments on here

But it's funny

You wanna start with the personal digs then don't like it when the tables turn "
Think you had better read back !!!! I could say a lot but soooooo not worth it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a lovely day

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