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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why after chatting for a bit, do I get nervous when meeting for a social? Anyone else have this problem? Any tips and advice on how to overcome this, would be appreciated....ta x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same advice as if you are about to make a speech !!!!

Think of everyone there as being naked and if that doesn't work just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why after chatting for a bit, do I get nervous when meeting for a social? Anyone else have this problem? Any tips and advice on how to overcome this, would be appreciated....ta x"

Hi hun I always get nervous when i arrange a social. But they go as soon as I meet the person. And luckily we have always clicked. So far xxx

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

After being in here over 3 years I still get nervous before a meet. Sometimes it's just a quick passing phase other times it builds. I just use it as a building stage the anticipation adds to the thrill. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves - or excitement and anticipation?

To me that's one of the best bits - meeting someone new and seeing if we'll click?

So I say embrace those feelings as they get better with experience as you go on more socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you stop feeling nervous it's time to give up in my view, the nerves & anticipation, fear of the unknown or what could be are a heady mix X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you stop feeling nervous it's time to give up in my view, the nerves & anticipation, fear of the unknown or what could be are a heady mix X"

yep totally agree

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Been on fab nearly five years now. Every time I have a meet I'm nervous. Doesn't matter if its a first meet or met before.

I think once the nerves go, I will be leaving fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always exactly the same and it's usually commented on by people I have meet as well! I usually have to promise that I talk less when I'm not so nervous

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Once you stop feeling nervous it's time to give up in my view, the nerves & anticipation, fear of the unknown or what could be are a heady mix X

yep totally agree"

Yup, 7 years plus for us and we still get a tingle lol!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I was so nervous the other night I nearly cancelled a meet. Even when he arrived I thought can I. Then he sat next to me and we kissed, it was a pleasurable and interesting time.

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By *he mischiefsCouple
over a year ago

cardiff


"Once you stop feeling nervous it's time to give up in my view, the nerves & anticipation, fear of the unknown or what could be are a heady mix X

yep totally agree"

Totally agree with this

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By *utty and bustyCouple
over a year ago

port talbot / swindon

sometimes the man is just as nervious

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By *ullswapcouple30Couple
over a year ago

Valleys

Glad its not just us newbies then!

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By *ohn Doe 2Man
over a year ago

Swansea

It's human nature to be nervous around people you have never met even if you have discussed what you like or don't like sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all part of the build up and the experience of basically the unknown . Think we all get nervous so your not on your own just try and enjoy X

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By *ubicinchMan
over a year ago

Gwynedd

even with good regular fab friends there is still a tiny bit of mutual pre meet nerves/anticipation, it's only natural

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By *all Mid WalesMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

Nerves are a good thing. Dont fear them learn to embrace and enjoy. As stated before if you dont feel nervous could be a time to leave as you could start going to dangerous places to find that feeling

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By *urvacious_40Woman
over a year ago

Pontypool, South Wales, UK


"It's all part of the build up and the experience of basically the unknown . Think we all get nervous so your not on your own just try and enjoy X"
this

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