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By *ay rick OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Many strange requests we have all had I can imagine-il kik off with a weak one lol asked to go for a meal by a girl on here--wtf? If I wanted this I doubt it would be happening off here--but hey I may well be wrong mmmm?????

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Not strange some like to get to know a person over a meal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Saph))like to meet socially first to make sure there is an attraction on both sides...just because this is a swingers site doesn't mean you have to shag anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not strange some like to get to know a person over a meal "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would find that a bit strange as well, as a single female previously I wouldn't meet for fun without meeting social first, but a meal

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By *ay rick OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Hey I totally agree--I always prefer a social first but a drink n chat yeah totally-if a massive click then hey a meal maybe--but to ask for a meal str8 off is wierd to me as if I wanted a date I'd do it in the real world so to spk

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By *ay rick OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Exactly my point--social of course but a meal mmmm?? Bit of a odd one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drink Chat at a Social. But food Mmmm unless your both comfortable then go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (Saph))like to meet socially first to make sure there is an attraction on both sides...just because this is a swingers site doesn't mean you have to shag anything "

You have met me socially. ..now when you gonna shag me saph lmao xx

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By *ay rick OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Egfoookinsactly lol the flow is the way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've eaten food in pubs with guys off here. It's no big deal to me. Everyone is different. If it isn't for you just tell her no thanks and move on. Not really any need to come on here making a big song and dance about it as if you're trying to make a twat out of her. She may well be reading this as we speak.

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By *ay rick OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Hey not what I'm doing in anyway--I simply asked for a view-point of others-I certainly don't make a teat out of women not my style but hey typical of this place-but your view is noted lol

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By *ay rick OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Ahhhhh just read my question lol didn't make it clear enough--SHE WANTED ME TO TAKE HER OUT FOR A MEAL NOT WOULD I LIKE TO LOL--my bad shoulda made that clear!!-if was asked would I like to meet up for some food that's different to will I take her for a meal--my bad miss p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few guy's ask to take me for a meal, no big deal !!!. If there is no chemistry then no harm done, just two adults having a nice evening. Surely you know what she looks like ?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean she wanted to be wined and dined at your expense??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could really go a double cheeseburger, fries and a mcflurry right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (Saph))like to meet socially first to make sure there is an attraction on both sides...just because this is a swingers site doesn't mean you have to shag anything

You have met me socially. ..now when you gonna shag me saph lmao xx "
checks my work Rota

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By *ay rick OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Yes Hun that's exactly it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes Hun that's exactly it "

Take her and order the most expensive of everything then when you've asked for a bill pop to the toilet then do a runner. That will teach her

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By *ay rick OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

So so tempting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes Hun that's exactly it

Take her and order the most expensive of everything then when you've asked for a bill pop to the toilet then do a runner. That will teach her "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love that before hand nice meal and long sexy fuck for afters lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes Hun that's exactly it

Take her and order the most expensive of everything then when you've asked for a bill pop to the toilet then do a runner. That will teach her "

Speaking from experience are you miss p- although pretty hard to run in clip flops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great to build the anticipation by having to be (fairly) well behaved over a nice meal. Lots of eye contact, flirting, sly caresses, coy flashes of exposed flesh.

DAMN!!! Feeling hungry now haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social yes but I don't think I would want to go for a meal with someone but then again I wouldn't expect them to pay either!

Turning up with a coffee ready for me certainly worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social yes but I don't think I would want to go for a meal with someone but then again I wouldn't expect them to pay either!

Turning up with a coffee ready for me certainly worked "

If we had been chatting and there was an obvious rapport between us then I would feel fine about going for a meal. And we could go Dutch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could really go a double cheeseburger, fries and a mcflurry right now"

I'd drop the mcflurry and replace it with a banana thick shake, can't beat that combo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone for lunch with fems as a first meet but it's always been go dutch. Not sure I would feel comfortable on a first meet with a male having a meal. Usually coffee or a drink I like

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